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| Topic: Why do i always fall for the wrong guys? | |
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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway.
So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? |
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I know the feeling
 well not guys but girls 
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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway. So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? You're attracted to the wrong people? Stop being attracted to them? Obviously you don't like it, so why keep doing it? Humans, right up there with turkey...taste is quite a bit different though... 
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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway. So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? You're attracted to the wrong people? Stop being attracted to them? Obviously you don't like it, so why keep doing it? Humans, right up there with turkey...taste is quite a bit different though... 
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cause we were conditoned to want what we can`t have,..
,maybe love to you is the "wanting " of someone emotionally detached,. think back,.who`s attention did you need but never got,.. growing up ? |
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I cant just stop doing it, thats the point. It feels good at first, great actually and the more challenging it is (like for example due to distance) the more determined i get!
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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway. So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? You're attracted to the wrong people? Stop being attracted to them? Obviously you don't like it, so why keep doing it? Humans, right up there with turkey...taste is quite a bit different though... You should try my Fred Fingers...haha, they are kind of like fish sticks only I'm using Fred's...err...no, they are just fish sticks...yep, just fish sticks, nothing to see here, move along... 
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in other words,.we`re just following familar patterns we learned growing up,..what`s familar,..
the only way to break the pattern,.. is to take a chance on someone maybe you`re not falling for,..and let it evolve,..( if it will ) check out the movie " Kevin" |
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I don't understand either. they want you. then they don't. and back in forth. when a younger women comes around. Eyes are glued. when she turns him down. Here he comes.... Gets real old after while....
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It's the thrill of the hunt that excites ya.
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I cant just stop doing it, thats the point. It feels good at first, great actually and the more challenging it is (like for example due to distance) the more determined i get! That sounded a bit masochist JMO but i guess we all go through it sometime |
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pffffffffttt
 i have an 'ology' in the wrong guys!
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cause we were conditoned to want what we can`t have,.. ,maybe love to you is the "wanting " of someone emotionally detached,. think back,.who`s attention did you need but never got,.. growing up ? This strikes me, since I've not always felt love from people in my family, from either side really, especially my mom and dad both. Perhaps in seeking relationships now, I seek that love I never really felt, which is why I feel like I'm missing something without it. |
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It's just the thrill of the hunt & the chase...it does get boring eventually...
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it happen's to every one !
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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway. So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? What are you chasing? Looks, or attitude. My guess is the guys that do like you don't have one of them. Are you looking for love or just a hangout crush. Nothing is wrong with you, you just have to figure out what it is you want, then go after it. Yes you are a very sexy woman, but dont walk around with that, "I know I'm sexy attitude, and don't try to attract a guy by being sexy on purpose, we like natural sexy, not pushy sexy. Figure out who you are and what you want first. |
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I cant just stop doing it, thats the point. It feels good at first, great actually and the more challenging it is (like for example due to distance) the more determined i get! that`s obsession,..nothing to do with actual love,.. very few of us actually know what actual love is suppose to feel like,. we think if it`s a challenge or hard,.. it must be the real,..not always,.. it`s almost like an addiction,.and addictions are not good for us,.. |
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My guess. You are just a glutton for punishment.
You probably ( just a guess ) go for the " bad boys " bhecause, subconsciously, you see them as a challenge. I mean, what women WOULDN'T want to " tame " the bad boy?? lol |
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Edited by
robert1652
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Sat 08/08/09 07:04 PM
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So the further they are the better you like it?
Well then.................  I am green and far away and I have transport and can come up and pick you up  |
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