Topic: Why do i always fall for the wrong guys?
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Sat 08/08/09 07:27 PM
Good evening, I am Leo. There is nothing wrong with my you dear.There are many people like you, who are extra strong and it all challange is very important to you. If you conquer by the powers that you have as a woman, with out saying a single word, then for you the challange has been met and you then loose interest immedietly. There is nothing to look forwards to. You are not alone. There are many women that have similar situation and men as well. It is not a problem you should worry about. You are just simply ahead of them. Stay that way. You are safer. Ther are a lot of Cheaters in all arena, that would put you in danger. Any questions you can reach me at ldgvi1@gmail.com
I hope i have shed some light on the situation.
Have a great week end.

Leo G.

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Sat 08/08/09 07:29 PM
i dont think i am looking for a father figure, lol
for some reason though i am attracted to strong men, like firefighters lol :)

but not boys
somehow i believe that if they are a little older they will know better how to make me feel good, a real man knows...
boys dont...

John1932's photo
Sat 08/08/09 07:30 PM

experience is within the person not the age...

Thats true, but in her mind, people her age or younger don't have that.
We know form experience that isn't true, but she hasn't gotten that far yet, LOL

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Sat 08/08/09 07:31 PM
i think its different for women than its for men.
girls mature sooner emotinally, am i wrong?

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 08/08/09 07:33 PM

i dont think i am looking for a father figure, lol
for some reason though i am attracted to strong men, like firefighters lol :)

but not boys
somehow i believe that if they are a little older they will know better how to make me feel good, a real man knows...
boys dont...


Strength equals protection. Giving you a feeling of safety maybe?

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Sat 08/08/09 07:33 PM
YOUR off to a GREAT time here with this post and to meeting all the guys a girl could want,wink,
I wish ya NUTIN but LOVE and happiness here,,wink, and a goodnight.

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 08/08/09 07:34 PM

i think its different for women than its for men.
girls mature sooner emotinally, am i wrong?


Not wrong but not exactly right either.

TxsSun's photo
Sat 08/08/09 07:34 PM
You are not alone on this one. I do as well.

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Sat 08/08/09 07:34 PM
prciesly!

John1932's photo
Sat 08/08/09 07:34 PM

i dont think i am looking for a father figure, lol
for some reason though i am attracted to strong men, like firefighters lol :)

but not boys
somehow i believe that if they are a little older they will know better how to make me feel good, a real man knows...
boys dont...


Yea, boys want you to make them feel good, and men thrive on making you feel good. Well, go start a fire somewhere and cry out for help, you will be surrounded with firefighter and police. lol

I think you want a man to put out that fire burning deep within you and...... nevermind off topic...


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Sat 08/08/09 07:37 PM


i dont think i am looking for a father figure, lol
for some reason though i am attracted to strong men, like firefighters lol :)

but not boys
somehow i believe that if they are a little older they will know better how to make me feel good, a real man knows...
boys dont...


Yea, boys want you to make them feel good, and men thrive on making you feel good. Well, go start a fire somewhere and cry out for help, you will be surrounded with firefighter and police. lol

I think you want a man to put out that fire burning deep within you and...... nevermind off topic...



i am surrounded by them all day long every day! may be thats why :)

John1932's photo
Sat 08/08/09 07:37 PM

i think its different for women than its for men.
girls mature sooner emotinally, am i wrong?

Yea thats true, I am 37 and still act like a kid sometimes.
But of course some ladies like a kid at heart and some dont. it is a matter of finding your preference.

Stay in the forums with us for a while, have fun and chat along with us, over time you will begin to see things and different people and get a better understanding of what your looking for.


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Sat 08/08/09 07:41 PM



i dont think i am looking for a father figure, lol
for some reason though i am attracted to strong men, like firefighters lol :)

but not boys
somehow i believe that if they are a little older they will know better how to make me feel good, a real man knows...
boys dont...


Yea, boys want you to make them feel good, and men thrive on making you feel good. Well, go start a fire somewhere and cry out for help, you will be surrounded with firefighter and police. lol

I think you want a man to put out that fire burning deep within you and...... nevermind off topic...



i am surrounded by them all day long every day! may be thats why :)


When you limit your options you limit your choices.

John1932's photo
Sat 08/08/09 07:43 PM



i dont think i am looking for a father figure, lol
for some reason though i am attracted to strong men, like firefighters lol :)

but not boys
somehow i believe that if they are a little older they will know better how to make me feel good, a real man knows...
boys dont...


Yea, boys want you to make them feel good, and men thrive on making you feel good. Well, go start a fire somewhere and cry out for help, you will be surrounded with firefighter and police. lol

I think you want a man to put out that fire burning deep within you and...... nevermind off topic...



i am surrounded by them all day long every day! may be thats why :)

AHHHHH, there you go, see what talking things out can do.
Are none of them acting interested, are they single, have you made it known that you are are interested in them? Some guys have respect, and if they are attracted to you they will never let on because they fear you wont want an older guy. Some dont want a younger lady, but some don't care.

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Sat 08/08/09 07:44 PM
WOW, i didnt expect that when i posted this. But you people with all your replies got me into a deep thinking now :)

John1932's photo
Sat 08/08/09 07:48 PM

WOW, i didnt expect that when i posted this. But you people with all your replies got me into a deep thinking now :)


Thats what we do, we are here to help.
stick it out, you will be glad you did...

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 08/08/09 07:48 PM

WOW, i didnt expect that when i posted this. But you people with all your replies got me into a deep thinking now :)



Thinking is good.

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Sat 08/08/09 07:53 PM
Edited by Modela on Sat 08/08/09 07:54 PM

I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway.
So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become!
What is wrong with me??


That's why I don't date so i don't fall for the wrong guy... solve my problem...happy

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 08/08/09 07:58 PM

i dont think i am looking for a father figure, lol
for some reason though i am attracted to strong men, like firefighters lol :)

but not boys
somehow i believe that if they are a little older they will know better how to make me feel good, a real man knows...
boys dont...


Quit dating boys? Am I the only one seeing a direct answer to this problem?

If one thing isn't working out for you, change it or adapt to it. Not difficult, surely not impossible, and it may even make you happier...

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Sat 08/08/09 08:00 PM
aww jeez, someone just make some "lawwww of attraction" reference like you mean it. noway

cmonnnn laww of attractionnnn. *rolls eyes*