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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway. So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? YOU don't want just any RICHARDHEAD,(sorry, they won't let us say d`i`c`k) OPPS,wink, Anyway,,,,,lol,So what seems natural to you, is really playing with guys, and sleeping with them for awhile, then, THEIR OLD NEWS, to your inner thoughts, and SOMETHING HAPPENS, ANYTHING,,and you ,,,,,RUN,,to get away from them,don't take their calls, block their numbers, let the machine get it,lol And THATS JUST LIFE FOR YOU... If you want to STOP THAT, then meet a dude, and don't sleep with him,,for a LONG time,,,,see how your interest in him keep feeling,,,if they go down,,,,when you can't just be with him and have companionship,w/o sex with him,,,then all the above is you...Now If you do well with that,,,then Its something that happen to you as a child, that you need to talk with someone about.. THAT WILL BE 12,780 Dollars,,and come back next week for your follow-up,wink,lol,lol REALLY,,good luck with finding,,,YOU.. |
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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway. So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? What are you chasing? Looks, or attitude. My guess is the guys that do like you don't have one of them. Are you looking for love or just a hangout crush. Nothing is wrong with you, you just have to figure out what it is you want, then go after it. Yes you are a very sexy woman, but dont walk around with that, "I know I'm sexy attitude, and don't try to attract a guy by being sexy on purpose, we like natural sexy, not pushy sexy. Figure out who you are and what you want first. i dont walk with that attitude (i dont think so at least), most of the time i dont have time to worry about what i look like. I do want love, true love, forever love, may be i am just being naive though, i dont know. i am a little confused now. |
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cause we were conditoned to want what we can`t have,.. ,maybe love to you is the "wanting " of someone emotionally detached,. think back,.who`s attention did you need but never got,.. growing up ? This strikes me, since I've not always felt love from people in my family, from either side really, especially my mom and dad both. Perhaps in seeking relationships now, I seek that love I never really felt, which is why I feel like I'm missing something without it. sadly our parents or caregivers are not experts in loving,..( they did the best they could ) but that is why we must be the parent now,.and give ourselves what we didn`t get growing up,..why leave that to total strangers miles away,..we`re truly the only ones who know what is good for us,.. how to look after us,.. |
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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway. So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? What are you chasing? Looks, or attitude. My guess is the guys that do like you don't have one of them. Are you looking for love or just a hangout crush. Nothing is wrong with you, you just have to figure out what it is you want, then go after it. Yes you are a very sexy woman, but dont walk around with that, "I know I'm sexy attitude, and don't try to attract a guy by being sexy on purpose, we like natural sexy, not pushy sexy. Figure out who you are and what you want first. i dont walk with that attitude (i dont think so at least), most of the time i dont have time to worry about what i look like. I do want love, true love, forever love, may be i am just being naive though, i dont know. i am a little confused now. |
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So the further they are the better you like it? Well then.................  I am green and far away and I have transport and can come up and pick you up  lol |
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Maybe the good guys look too much like your family to be sexually appealing. If you are looking for a lover long distance it might be one of two things; you really like your life over all and really aren't all that eager to ditch it or you just feel another location will give you new challenges to master.
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Edited by
John1932
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Sat 08/08/09 07:14 PM
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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway. So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? What are you chasing? Looks, or attitude. My guess is the guys that do like you don't have one of them. Are you looking for love or just a hangout crush. Nothing is wrong with you, you just have to figure out what it is you want, then go after it. Yes you are a very sexy woman, but dont walk around with that, "I know I'm sexy attitude, and don't try to attract a guy by being sexy on purpose, we like natural sexy, not pushy sexy. Figure out who you are and what you want first. i dont walk with that attitude (i dont think so at least), most of the time i dont have time to worry about what i look like. I do want love, true love, forever love, may be i am just being naive though, i dont know. i am a little confused now. OHHHH True love,,, ok gotcha. ok My number is 555 555 1234. Come and get your love...  Ok here is the deal.. You said there are guys that are interested in you, but your not interetsed in them, why are you not interested in them? Do they have kids? Is it they way they look? are they fat? too skinny? Look at the guys that you are not interested in that do like you, and find out what it is that you dont like. Hun, you have to figure yourself out before you can figure anyone else out. |
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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway. So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? 
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Well, for once, i am not attracted to guys who are close to my age, they have to be AT LEAST 5 years older. FOr some reason i ve always thought that guys my age are still kids and wont be able to understand me as well, they dont have enough experience, i might be very wrong but that is my opinion from previous experiences i have.
I also like guys, or find them attractive if there is a reason for me to look up to them and admire them for whatever they do and who they are. I dont know. Does that make any sense? |
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So the further they are the better you like it? Well then................. I am green and far away and I have transport and can come up and pick you up You forgot to tell her about the !@#$ probes! |
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Well, for once, i am not attracted to guys who are close to my age, they have to be AT LEAST 5 years older. FOr some reason i ve always thought that guys my age are still kids and wont be able to understand me as well, they dont have enough experience, i might be very wrong but that is my opinion from previous experiences i have. I also like guys, or find them attractive if there is a reason for me to look up to them and admire them for whatever they do and who they are. I dont know. Does that make any sense? Are you looking for a father figure? |
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I thought it might be nice to get some objective opinions since i am here anyway. So why is that? I always get attracted to the wrong guys, the ones that i know i can't get, the ones i know it s wrong to even think about, the ones that i know will be difficult to get due to different reasons. WHy? WHy? At the same time there are really nice guys out there who i know like me and want to do things for me all the time, and the more i know they like me the more not interested i become! What is wrong with me?? People always want what isn't necessarily good for them. If it isn't with booze, it's with food. If it's not with food, it's with drugs or cigarettes. If it's not with drugs or cigarettes, it's with who we date. To quote David Lee Roth (who was talking more about music, but it also applies to the dating scene), "To me... rock music is a lot like dating... I'm constantly surprised by the choices some people out there make.". So here's what you do- make a list of all the traits that attracted you to all your previous ex-boyfriends. Be as specific as you can... list as much as you can, from physical attributes to personality. Everything. Once you've made that list, go about dating the exact opposite. And I'm talking the EXACT opposite, too- zig when the list says "zag", and the rest of it. |
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Edited by
John1932
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Well, for once, i am not attracted to guys who are close to my age, they have to be AT LEAST 5 years older. FOr some reason i ve always thought that guys my age are still kids and wont be able to understand me as well, they dont have enough experience, i might be very wrong but that is my opinion from previous experiences i have. I also like guys, or find them attractive if there is a reason for me to look up to them and admire them for whatever they do and who they are. I dont know. Does that make any sense? Yes, it makes perfect sense,  Your in love with me, dangit, why do I do this to women?  Just kidding..  Ok, how close were you to your father? |
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Edited by
Phuque
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Well, for once, i am not attracted to guys who are close to my age, they have to be AT LEAST 5 years older. FOr some reason i ve always thought that guys my age are still kids and wont be able to understand me as well, they dont have enough experience, i might be very wrong but that is my opinion from previous experiences i have. I also like guys, or find them attractive if there is a reason for me to look up to them and admire them for whatever they do and who they are. I dont know. Does that make any sense? Father figure? Damn it, Motown! This is the 2nd time in THIS thread that you have read my mind & beat me to it! |
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Well, for once, i am not attracted to guys who are close to my age, they have to be AT LEAST 5 years older. FOr some reason i ve always thought that guys my age are still kids and wont be able to understand me as well, they dont have enough experience, i might be very wrong but that is my opinion from previous experiences i have. I also like guys, or find them attractive if there is a reason for me to look up to them and admire them for whatever they do and who they are. I dont know. Does that make any sense? |
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Well, for once, i am not attracted to guys who are close to my age, they have to be AT LEAST 5 years older. FOr some reason i ve always thought that guys my age are still kids and wont be able to understand me as well, they dont have enough experience, i might be very wrong but that is my opinion from previous experiences i have. I also like guys, or find them attractive if there is a reason for me to look up to them and admire them for whatever they do and who they are. I dont know. Does that make any sense? Father figure? Damn it, Motown! This is the 2nd time in THIS thread that you have read my mind & beat me to it! yea, i think we are all hitting on something here, and I don't mean the pipe either..... 
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Well, for once, i am not attracted to guys who are close to my age, they have to be AT LEAST 5 years older. FOr some reason i ve always thought that guys my age are still kids and wont be able to understand me as well, they dont have enough experience, i might be very wrong but that is my opinion from previous experiences i have. I also like guys, or find them attractive if there is a reason for me to look up to them and admire them for whatever they do and who they are. I dont know. Does that make any sense? If she is looking for a fatherly type figure, age makes all of the difference |
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Well, for once, i am not attracted to guys who are close to my age, they have to be AT LEAST 5 years older. FOr some reason i ve always thought that guys my age are still kids and wont be able to understand me as well, they dont have enough experience, i might be very wrong but that is my opinion from previous experiences i have. I also like guys, or find them attractive if there is a reason for me to look up to them and admire them for whatever they do and who they are. I dont know. Does that make any sense? GUYS FALL all over beautiful ladies,,,and attentions do get bored sometimes ,huh,,,wink,lol |
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Well, for once, i am not attracted to guys who are close to my age, they have to be AT LEAST 5 years older. FOr some reason i ve always thought that guys my age are still kids and wont be able to understand me as well, they dont have enough experience, i might be very wrong but that is my opinion from previous experiences i have. I also like guys, or find them attractive if there is a reason for me to look up to them and admire them for whatever they do and who they are. I dont know. Does that make any sense? Father figure? Damn it, Motown! This is the 2nd time in THIS thread that you have read my mind & beat me to it! Hey, you know what they say about great minds. |
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experience is within the person not the age...
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