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Topic: over 50 dating
vivian2981's photo
Wed 09/23/09 02:38 PM



being a trucker presents its own problems out here for dating


Hey Wayne, you met Betts....didn't you take her out to dnner???what drinks

yes he did buy me dinner, and he also offered to take my daughter and her BF but they went off on their own somewhere.He is a nice manflowerforyou


And he thinks you are a SWEETHEART!:banana: :banana:

carold's photo
Wed 09/23/09 03:19 PM


Last Saturday night I went on the first date I've been on in 26 years (not counting 25 years of marriage). I put forth effort and it just didn't fly. It's like falling off of a horse and you don't know what caused you to fall but you know you have to get back on and try again. sad2


Jeez Katz! sad2 Sorry it didn't work out...frustrated When that has happened to me, and it HAS, I just throw it back at him, laugh and say 'sorry man, you just blew a good thing....let me know how it works for you'
I met a man one time. I had heard that he wouldn't take anyone out without sleeping with him...he said if he put out $100.00 on dinner and the meet, he expected to get laid! He actual told me this!slaphead Well DUH!
Well I bought the coffee, and when he asked me to dinner, I told him sorry but I had a younger man waiting for me who didn't expect a woman to prositute herself for dinner. He flat out didn't know how to handle that..it was so funny, all the excuses he came up with!
LOL do I know this guy lol

Duffy's photo
Wed 09/23/09 03:42 PM
well im glad u all have had luck.
i haven't. it must be my deodorant.:tongue:

Sharris's photo
Wed 09/23/09 03:42 PM



Last Saturday night I went on the first date I've been on in 26 years (not counting 25 years of marriage). I put forth effort and it just didn't fly. It's like falling off of a horse and you don't know what caused you to fall but you know you have to get back on and try again. sad2


Jeez Katz! sad2 Sorry it didn't work out...frustrated When that has happened to me, and it HAS, I just throw it back at him, laugh and say 'sorry man, you just blew a good thing....let me know how it works for you'
I met a man one time. I had heard that he wouldn't take anyone out without sleeping with him...he said if he put out $100.00 on dinner and the meet, he expected to get laid! He actual told me this!slaphead Well DUH!
Well I bought the coffee, and when he asked me to dinner, I told him sorry but I had a younger man waiting for me who didn't expect a woman to prositute herself for dinner. He flat out didn't know how to handle that..it was so funny, all the excuses he came up with!
LOL do I know this guy lol

after all the weight loss, a man told me, he was sorry, but my stomach would not allow him to keep
it up. I kindly told him , his protrusion or lack of was strictly a making of his brain activity..
silly man..

Duffy's photo
Wed 09/23/09 03:57 PM
your stomach would not allow him to keep it up?
well so just exactly what was it your stomach was doing?noway

vivian2981's photo
Wed 09/23/09 04:01 PM



Last Saturday night I went on the first date I've been on in 26 years (not counting 25 years of marriage). I put forth effort and it just didn't fly. It's like falling off of a horse and you don't know what caused you to fall but you know you have to get back on and try again. sad2


Jeez Katz! sad2 Sorry it didn't work out...frustrated When that has happened to me, and it HAS, I just throw it back at him, laugh and say 'sorry man, you just blew a good thing....let me know how it works for you'
I met a man one time. I had heard that he wouldn't take anyone out without sleeping with him...he said if he put out $100.00 on dinner and the meet, he expected to get laid! He actual told me this!slaphead Well DUH!
Well I bought the coffee, and when he asked me to dinner, I told him sorry but I had a younger man waiting for me who didn't expect a woman to prositute herself for dinner. He flat out didn't know how to handle that..it was so funny, all the excuses he came up with!
LOL do I know this guy lol


Shhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!laugh

vivian2981's photo
Wed 09/23/09 04:04 PM




Last Saturday night I went on the first date I've been on in 26 years (not counting 25 years of marriage). I put forth effort and it just didn't fly. It's like falling off of a horse and you don't know what caused you to fall but you know you have to get back on and try again. sad2


Jeez Katz! sad2 Sorry it didn't work out...frustrated When that has happened to me, and it HAS, I just throw it back at him, laugh and say 'sorry man, you just blew a good thing....let me know how it works for you'
I met a man one time. I had heard that he wouldn't take anyone out without sleeping with him...he said if he put out $100.00 on dinner and the meet, he expected to get laid! He actual told me this!slaphead Well DUH!
Well I bought the coffee, and when he asked me to dinner, I told him sorry but I had a younger man waiting for me who didn't expect a woman to prositute herself for dinner. He flat out didn't know how to handle that..it was so funny, all the excuses he came up with!
LOL do I know this guy lol

after all the weight loss, a man told me, he was sorry, but my stomach would not allow him to keep
it up. I kindly told him , his protrusion or lack of was strictly a making of his brain activity..
silly man..


rofl rofl rofl rofl You've got to be kidding Sharris!!! laugh

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Wed 09/23/09 04:38 PM


Last Saturday night I went on the first date I've been on in 26 years (not counting 25 years of marriage). I put forth effort and it just didn't fly. It's like falling off of a horse and you don't know what caused you to fall but you know you have to get back on and try again. sad2


You seem like a pretty strong willed lady.
Might scare many of the men out there.
Keep looking, you'll find one.
Kiss alot of frogs, to find a prince (like me).
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: flowers pitchfork pitchfork :thumbsup: waving


Don't give up, Katz....Get back on the horse, and above all, BE YOURSELF.
You are a beautiful woman, and have a lot to offer.
From someone with many years of internet dating
experience, believe this: it is a numbers game.
You will, indeed meet many frogs....yet you will meet
friends as well...and somewhere..out there..is that prince.
Don't give up!

It is perfectly normal to email someone or even talk to
them for weeks/months...and then meet them.....and they
turn out to be completely different from what you were
expecting.

You will meet men with whom you have no common interest,
men with whom you have no chemistry....but beware, above
all, of those who misrepresent themselves. And it happens
often.
Just be careful, protect yourself, but don't stop
trying. You said it yourself:"you know you have to get
back on and try again. sad2 " My advise: Don't be sad.
Just do it...

I have met a bunch of frogs...and kissed a few....
Have had men swear they were in love with me before
we ever met....as if that were possible!...
But I refused to be anyone except ME, which is as
it should be, and they were the ones who were the most
surprised...they were just frogs, among frogs....
And yet,the positive friendships I have forged have
made it all worthwhile.

Most of what Old Sage said makes sense...Yes, you do appear
to be a strong woman...my advise would be: BE who you are.
Don't worry about scaring men off. If you scare them off,
they were not for you, and you don't want to compromise
who you are. Ever....

:thumbsup: smile2 :smile: :wink: :thumbsup:

no photo
Wed 09/23/09 04:41 PM




Last Saturday night I went on the first date I've been on in 26 years (not counting 25 years of marriage). I put forth effort and it just didn't fly. It's like falling off of a horse and you don't know what caused you to fall but you know you have to get back on and try again. sad2


Jeez Katz! sad2 Sorry it didn't work out...frustrated When that has happened to me, and it HAS, I just throw it back at him, laugh and say 'sorry man, you just blew a good thing....let me know how it works for you'
I met a man one time. I had heard that he wouldn't take anyone out without sleeping with him...he said if he put out $100.00 on dinner and the meet, he expected to get laid! He actual told me this!slaphead Well DUH!
Well I bought the coffee, and when he asked me to dinner, I told him sorry but I had a younger man waiting for me who didn't expect a woman to prositute herself for dinner. He flat out didn't know how to handle that..it was so funny, all the excuses he came up with!
LOL do I know this guy lol

after all the weight loss, a man told me, he was sorry, but my stomach would not allow him to keep
it up. I kindly told him , his protrusion or lack of was strictly a making of his brain activity..
silly man..


Good for you!
drinker :smile: :wink: laugh :banana:

carold's photo
Wed 09/23/09 04:54 PM

well im glad u all have had luck.
i haven't. it must be my deodorant.:tongue:
Luck who me lol you don't want to hear my story lol

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Wed 09/23/09 05:01 PM


well im glad u all have had luck.
i haven't. it must be my deodorant.:tongue:
Luck who me lol you don't want to hear my story lol


Sure we do, Carold! And Imagem...thanks for the nice words. This man and I emailed and he called everyday for a couple weeks. I think I was in love with the attention and when it didn't work out I had no cool-down time and I was bummed. He is from another country and I can just see me now in some relative's kitchen with a bunch of women speaking in a different language. So, what I say now after a flop date is...."NEXT!!" slaphead

carold's photo
Wed 09/23/09 05:03 PM
Pretty much sounds the same lol

Sharris's photo
Wed 09/23/09 08:25 PM

your stomach would not allow him to keep it up?
well so just exactly what was it your stomach was doing?noway

just being..there..I guess..You be upfront ..and where does it get you....hahahhaha..up front hhahhahh

Sharris's photo
Wed 09/23/09 08:30 PM





Last Saturday night I went on the first date I've been on in 26 years (not counting 25 years of marriage). I put forth effort and it just didn't fly. It's like falling off of a horse and you don't know what caused you to fall but you know you have to get back on and try again. sad2


Jeez Katz! sad2 Sorry it didn't work out...frustrated When that has happened to me, and it HAS, I just throw it back at him, laugh and say 'sorry man, you just blew a good thing....let me know how it works for you'
I met a man one time. I had heard that he wouldn't take anyone out without sleeping with him...he said if he put out $100.00 on dinner and the meet, he expected to get laid! He actual told me this!slaphead Well DUH!
Well I bought the coffee, and when he asked me to dinner, I told him sorry but I had a younger man waiting for me who didn't expect a woman to prositute herself for dinner. He flat out didn't know how to handle that..it was so funny, all the excuses he came up with!
LOL do I know this guy lol

after all the weight loss, a man told me, he was sorry, but my stomach would not allow him to keep
it up. I kindly told him , his protrusion or lack of was strictly a making of his brain activity..
silly man..


rofl rofl rofl rofl You've got to be kidding Sharris!!! laugh

no really, I'm cereal

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Thu 09/24/09 12:45 AM
Here's the plan: the next guy that presents himself to me will have to undergo a series of questions put to him by my friends on Mingle. You know, things like "Would you say a woman is most like a (a)best friend to be taken care of gently and respectfully (b)a watermelon in a cardboard box (c) snow tires. You guys should be able to narrow things down for me. flowerforyou

synergized's photo
Thu 09/24/09 07:57 AM

Here's the plan: the next guy that presents himself to me will have to undergo a series of questions put to him by my friends on Mingle. You know, things like "Would you say a woman is most like a (a)best friend to be taken care of gently and respectfully (b)a watermelon in a cardboard box (c) snow tires. You guys should be able to narrow things down for me. flowerforyou


Too cute!laugh

vivian2981's photo
Thu 09/24/09 09:44 AM

Here's the plan: the next guy that presents himself to me will have to undergo a series of questions put to him by my friends on Mingle. You know, things like "Would you say a woman is most like a (a)best friend to be taken care of gently and respectfully (b)a watermelon in a cardboard box (c) snow tires. You guys should be able to narrow things down for me. flowerforyou


Love it! We're here to help!laugh

carold's photo
Thu 09/24/09 01:06 PM
I need help laugh

carold's photo
Thu 09/24/09 01:08 PM
laugh

your stomach would not allow him to keep it up?
well so just exactly what was it your stomach was doing?noway

just being..there..I guess..You be upfront ..and where does it get you....hahahhaha..up front hhahhahh
funny lady laugh

vivian2981's photo
Thu 09/24/09 01:24 PM

I need help laugh


Carol!! Girl why do you need help??? Whatcha need? We're here for you too!laugh

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