She might have gotten EXCITED by the "butt crack".
Bet she could get real EXCITED.

not exactly...when I am eating bacon,I don't want a bunch of PIGS staring at me

I bet you did too!!

I have made a couple of friends, but nothing long-lasting. I thought I had..met a guy on here..we messaged a lot..he was the one who brought up the subject of a future together...he phoned or messaged me almost daily. we live far from each other..after a few months, we met in person..sparks flew for both of us, (at least he said he felt that way)..we met again in July..after that I would hardly hear from him..I told him I felt he had lost interest in me, and he denied it. He makes no attempt to contact me now, so I know he lied. I am hurt that he could be so dishonest & insincere..there are a lot of people like that on these sites..which would explain why their mates dumped them? But I am still optimistic...they aren't all like that..at least I hope so.

Hi Fiseniale
sorry you had such bad luck.I am sure we all have been through the same thing a time or two, but don't get dicouraged!
Yes there are many many "players" on here but there are also a lot of good people!
Hopefully one of the good ones will find us!

Thank you for the kind words.

your welcome
Hey I see you are a Canadian too!

Yes...there are a few of us on here I guess

Everytime i get a chance yup i won't wait for the grass to grow under my feet im a mover and a make happen woman you've gotta.
L O V E my attitude!koolaid

Hey Koolaide
Haven't seen you in awhile
How are you doing?

HI THERE

HOW IS EVERYONE TONIGHT?

Hi Everyone
I'm new to M2:
I've been reading everyone's post, and wondering if there are groups that actually get together and have fun? Like planning an event some place or at each other's home for pot luck and just have a blast getting to know each other? Say like a Gal's night out or Co-Ed event. Something? If not, would you all be interested in getting something like that started?

I also feel it would take the pressure off.... Plus, statistics show that most people really meet better at parties. I think that's because you can see how a person is around others. Everyone checks everyone out indicretely, so to speak. Then when you meet back on the forums, You are joking, solving problems, sharing advise etc... with Friends you've already met. It seems better, funnier, and easier.

Something I've been wondering about, and I would like your feedback on this, please.

When we were in high school and in college, we have virgin expectations, a different level of excitablities. As life deals situations and we manage through them, hopefully growing through those life's events, we attain more insight etc whether it be positive or negative. Now that we are in our 50's, see things thru eventful eyes and hearts. Unlike as it was in the younger years. So why would our expectations be the same?
Dating rules have changed. Society has changed. Shouldn't our expecations change as well?
Basic dating methods haven't really changed that much. Other than now women are more in control than then. We pay for our own drinks, meals in order to maintain that independence and less obligated, right? I think the men like that to a degree. But there is a time a man needs to be a man and a lady should be a lady. So, the dating rules revert back alittle to the original attributes as in the past years.

What I feel has changed the most is Yes, our expectations about the feelings we want to feel when meeting someone. Back in younger years, you got that zing, flushed, gitty when meeting and on a date with the GUY. Now,should get those? We hope to, right? and perhaps some may still, but we expect it to as strong as it was then and last as it did back then. Now that we are more logical, non-viginic emotionally, physically, and spiritually, we hold back, have reservations due to prior experiences, apply too much expectations.
I could be wrong, it's just my thinking, but what if you just allowed yourself to merely enjoy what's there and not expect anything? When meeting, keep in mind, It's just an old friend you haven't seen in a while..... take the pressure off of yourself and your date... Have fun, loosen up, and just enjoy the moment as it is. If he askes you out again, great. If he don't, you haven't lost anything. You enjoyed yourself for that time. It's not about you not being good enough or any of that non sense.

Practice when those not so great dates on how to just let yourself feel freed and just be yourself. You have noticed haven't you, when you are out with a not so great date how different you are, as apposed to on a date with a guy/gal you really want?

Another thing, since the datig rules have changed, have you thought about making the first move? Why not ask him out for a change? I think men get tired of it always bearing the pressure of being the one to make the first move, don't you? Since we women are out in the forfront, why not go all the way... Get bold, be confident in who you are and go far it woman..... Get the man you want. Dont you think that's what men do too? If you ask a man out and he turns you down. so what? It happens to them all the time, do they give up? NOOOO in fact, if anything , it becomes a challenge and encourages even more incentive....
Thanks for listening to me spew..lol I was just wondering if my thinking was really that far off base.... Please, I would love you to share your honest opinions.
:-)

Well this is the internet you have to be careful who you meet and take your time. Sometimes sparks fly and then something likes this happens you never know which way it will go.

At this stage of my life

I have no problems making freinds or meeting men

I've reached the stage where my confidence level is high
I'm very extroverted
I love people and being around them
I'm a good listener and very talkative
I'm easy to be around
Etc

I don't feel the need to compete with other women
I have an air of sensuality that draws men toward me

I think it's the age!!! I really do !!!

Oh yeah I agree girlie the more confident you get with age.

I really think it is Carol!!

I never felt like this before!!!

It's like being reborn really!!!

Or at this age you could give a flying f___ anymore lol just joking lol or maybe not lol