Topic: Question.
msmyka's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:11 PM
:angel:

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Mon 05/18/09 10:12 PM







Yeah, well. For some of us, it isn't all that easy.

But good on ya if it is for you.


Dude! Do you think I have something you don't? All you have to do is go out and talk to women. It is easy and it's FUN!


Uh huh.

Dude. You may not have experienced many, but there are only so many rejections and insults a guy can be willing to take sometimes.

Like I said, good on ya if it's easy for you.

For some of us, it simply isn't.

I honestly don't know if you have something I don't. My guess is that you probably do. What it may be I have no clue.




Guy did you ever stop to think that some don't see rejection as rejection? Or they're so used to it that it doesn't phase them?? There are guys that are so used to getting rejected they keep trying b/c who knows #100 or #200 might say yes... Get it????


Yeah. I get it. But I am definitely not one of them.

I think I have taken enough crap for one lifetime.

I think it's time to just go back to my hole and call it good.


Stop that.. You're having a bad night... A lot of people have bad nights but it's no reason to give up...


More like 1458 bad nights.....lol


come on bro your ok . as long as you think like that your going to bring yourself. got 99 problems but a chick aint one

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:14 PM

:angel:


Oh whatever. LMAO

For those of us who know better...we ain't buyin' it.

msmyka's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:15 PM

come on bro your ok . as long as you think like that your going to bring yourself. got 99 problems but a chick aint one


LMAO Oh man, corn fed suburban white boys like you can't really say stuff like that.... ur killin me here rofl

msmyka's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:16 PM


:angel:


Oh whatever. LMAO

For those of us who know better...we ain't buyin' it.


Well I never claimed to be a good actress, just a shenanigan-izer at heart bigsmile

SunnyMcleod's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:17 PM
Don't worry Myka....it's why trouble makers are so loved.
I'll back you up for surelaugh drinker

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:17 PM



:angel:


Oh whatever. LMAO

For those of us who know better...we ain't buyin' it.


Well I never claimed to be a good actress, just a shenanigan-izer at heart bigsmile


That you are. And you are SO good at it. :-)

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Mon 05/18/09 10:18 PM

Uh huh.

Dude. You may not have experienced many, but there are only so many rejections and insults a guy can be willing to take sometimes.

Like I said, good on ya if it's easy for you.

For some of us, it simply isn't.

I honestly don't know if you have something I don't. My guess is that you probably do. What it may be I have no clue.



If I have something you don't it's that I talk to a woman without having any expectations. I walk up to her, say hello, shake her hand and talk to her about something interesting to HER. Women aren't rejecting you. They are rejecting your approach. Just talk to one and see how it goes. If she doesn't like it try something else with the next one. It takes time, but you can become comfortable chatting with anybody.

Now, before I get flamed for suggesting "all women are the same" let me say that for the most part all PEOPLE are pretty much the same. Becoming good at attracting the others is sort of like playing a video game without a save function. With every new person you are starting from the begaining. It's a game. Just have fun playing it and you'll meet someone.

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Mon 05/18/09 10:20 PM
I would not expect to be or agree to be exclusive with someone after one date because you can't possibly know if the person is interested or even what they are really like from one date.

However I do think it is grossly unfair to continue to accept dates with someone you have gone out with several times and decided to keep looking.

I think if you don't see someone naturally spending their date time exclusively with you that they are just not that into you and you need to move on.

I personally have never seen dateing as a competition between anyone. I do know if I thought a man was thinking of me as competeing with anyone I would drop him like a hot potatoe. If you want to be with me it has to be about likeing me for the individual I am an how I treat you not seeing yourself as a prise.

Mostly because that is the ultimate in selfishness but because it would be also clear that I would see that person as very likely to cheat whenever someone that was the flavor of the day came along.

I do think if a guy finds himself consistently falling out of his dates interests then he has to do some serious self assessment about what he brings to the dateing process and the kind of women he is dating. If he dally's around about asking for dates he shouldn't be surprised if someone else comes up with and invitation and it being accepted.

I realize dateing can be expensive but if you are into a woman you need to use your imagination and make dateing a real priority.


msmyka's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:22 PM

Don't worry Myka....it's why trouble makers are so loved.
I'll back you up for surelaugh drinker


When ARE you going to come to Cali? You know you want to drinks

SunnyMcleod's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:24 PM


Don't worry Myka....it's why trouble makers are so loved.
I'll back you up for surelaugh drinker


When ARE you going to come to Cali? You know you want to drinks

Oh geez that would be fun/illegallaugh Or almost illegal fun would be nice.
We'll have to do it up. A couple of geeky drunk girlsdrinks :laughing:

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Mon 05/18/09 10:24 PM


come on bro your ok . as long as you think like that your going to bring yourself. got 99 problems but a chick aint one


LMAO Oh man, corn fed suburban white boys like you can't really say stuff like that.... ur killin me here rofl


if only you knew. lol. BOI

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:24 PM
I think there is a subtle misconception in this thread.

I never, at any point, stated that this was based on a one date type of deal.

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Mon 05/18/09 10:25 PM
section 8. dont have to be a thug to come from the hood.

msmyka's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:26 PM



come on bro your ok . as long as you think like that your going to bring yourself. got 99 problems but a chick aint one


LMAO Oh man, corn fed suburban white boys like you can't really say stuff like that.... ur killin me here rofl


if only you knew. lol. BOI


I live in So Cal kid, you got nothin I haven't seen or heard before smokin

I know everyone thinks of cali as one giant beach but don't forget where those WEST COAST gangs be reppin from slaphead

SunnyMcleod's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:28 PM
Edited by SunnyMcleod on Mon 05/18/09 10:30 PM

section 8. dont have to be a thug to come from the hood.

laugh laugh laugh laugh So I can be a rap super star? And live large?

msmyka's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:29 PM


section 8. dont have to be a thug to come from the hood.

laugh laugh laugh laugh So can be a rap super star? And live large?


Well he DOES already have Baby Mama Drama rofl slaphead

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:31 PM
Oh good Lord.

We have a kid at the factory who thinks he's a rapper. he's a chubby white dude. I keep telling him he can call himself MC Chubby or DJ Dumbass.

he walked up to a friend of mine and told him that he ( the wannabe ) was from " the bad side of Sebewaing ".

We about fell over laughing. This town has less than 2000 people. There IS no bad side. It's barely big enough to HAVE sides.

SunnyMcleod's photo
Mon 05/18/09 10:34 PM
Hey man, weirder things have happened. Look at the Jonas Brothers

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Mon 05/18/09 10:37 PM

Oh good Lord.

We have a kid at the factory who thinks he's a rapper. he's a chubby white dude. I keep telling him he can call himself MC Chubby or DJ Dumbass.

he walked up to a friend of mine and told him that he ( the wannabe ) was from " the bad side of Sebewaing ".

We about fell over laughing. This town has less than 2000 people. There IS no bad side. It's barely big enough to HAVE sides.


YO' Wat up in Da up north hood, say Wat????

No kidding. LOL