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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Tue 08/19/08 09:03 PM
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is it because of fear of rejection?are some men really that afraid to approach a pretty woman? Its simple they are intimidated and they probably dont think that they can hold up to your standards..............we are all cursed if you are too pretty, too intelligent, too confident, and high self-esteem = no man Well..when we are shown..time...and time....and time again that we AREN'T up to your " standards " how can we think that we ARE? Someone once said that any lie can be turned into the truth the more often it's told. Well....how many times do we have to be shown or told that we aren't up to snuff before we start to believe it? |
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is it because of fear of rejection?are some men really that afraid to approach a pretty woman? Its simple they are intimidated and they probably dont think that they can hold up to your standards..............we are all cursed if you are too pretty, too intelligent, too confident, and high self-esteem = no man Well..when we are shown..time...and time....and time again....how can we think that we ARE up to your standards? Someone once said that any lie can be turned into the truth the more often it's told. Well....how many times do we have to be shown or told that we aren't up to snuff before we start to believe it? a ****ing men |
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its an excuse... they use when they just dont want to date ya i think
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Edited by
Tanzkity
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Tue 08/19/08 09:37 PM
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is it because of fear of rejection?are some men really that afraid to approach a pretty woman? Its simple they are intimidated and they probably dont think that they can hold up to your standards..............we are all cursed if you are too pretty, too intelligent, too confident, and high self-esteem = no man Well..when we are shown..time...and time....and time again that we AREN'T up to your " standards " how can we think that we ARE? Someone once said that any lie can be turned into the truth the more often it's told. Well....how many times do we have to be shown or told that we aren't up to snuff before we start to believe it? I think thats just bs you guys have really been screwed up with your own insecurities............listen if you keep looking for a particular woman and you get dissappointed by them is it not the women you want to blame or maybe you should blame yourself...................men in here say they dont care about looks but im going to really argue about that all the guys in this site say they dont care about looks but..............when they email me its about my looks and how pretty i am...........no guy has ever said wow what a big brain you got...........come on, you guys get sidetracked by beauty all the time....................thats why even a 80 year old man if he could have his way or had enough money would have a 20 on his arm in a heartbeat before someone his own age.......... |
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Edited by
Beachfarmer
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Tue 08/19/08 09:45 PM
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Geeez....a "little" credit please.
Won't lie.....very visual...appreciate beauty....and I don't think ANYONE is 'clicking" on brains here when checking out members (eer um...leave it alone please...ya know what I mean).It's the "picture" that we click on (both genders). but...the story goes...... No spark. No ignition. No fuel. NO FIRE! |
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Geeez....a "little" credit please. Won't lie.....very visual...appreciate beauty....and I don't think ANYONE is 'clicking" on brains here when checking out members (eer um...leave it alone please...ya know what I mean).It's the "picture" that we click on (both genders). but...the story goes...... No spark. No ignition. No fuel. NO FIRE! You know I have to say those are truly  wise words...........
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Geeez....a "little" credit please. Won't lie.....very visual...appreciate beauty....and I don't think ANYONE is 'clicking" on brains here when checking out members (eer um...leave it alone please...ya know what I mean).It's the "picture" that we click on (both genders). but...the story goes...... No spark. No ignition. No fuel. NO FIRE! You know I have to say those are truly wise words...........
Aaaaw..TY Tanzkity
So...got at least a "bit" of fuel Gotta work on the spark....  really need my bic flicked!
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But I am a gambler. So you can't win if you don't play. I'm batting around 50% on the icebroken (wins) and rejections (losses). As in true gambling- it pays to hedge your bets in your favor before letting them dice roll. Look your best. Be your best. Anyone shallow enough to judge clear intentions is not worth the bet in the first place.
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Rejection?
Rejection? Rejection? Rejection? If I'd have let any of all those rejection slips stop me from writing, I would have never had anything published....but, wait I HAVEN'T had anything published  
When I was in high school I assumed that the 'beauy queens' were only interested in the sports jocks. Then I learned that looks, female or male, are not as important as a lot of other traits. Give me a woman (please!) who is loving, kind, affectionate, will share laughs and tears with me. One with character and , yes one with old fashioned values, respects marriage vows, puts family first, etc. To me she will be most beautiful. 
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Geeez....a "little" credit please. Won't lie.....very visual...appreciate beauty....and I don't think ANYONE is 'clicking" on brains here when checking out members (eer um...leave it alone please...ya know what I mean).It's the "picture" that we click on (both genders). but...the story goes...... No spark. No ignition. No fuel. NO FIRE! You know I have to say those are truly wise words...........
Aaaaw..TY Tanzkity
So...got at least a "bit" of fuel Gotta work on the spark.... really need my bic flicked!
Oh well when that bic works you know where im at.............. 
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is it because of fear of rejection?are some men really that afraid to approach a pretty woman? Its simple they are intimidated and they probably dont think that they can hold up to your standards..............we are all cursed if you are too pretty, too intelligent, too confident, and high self-esteem = no man Well..when we are shown..time...and time....and time again that we AREN'T up to your " standards " how can we think that we ARE? Someone once said that any lie can be turned into the truth the more often it's told. Well....how many times do we have to be shown or told that we aren't up to snuff before we start to believe it? I think thats just bs you guys have really been screwed up with your own insecurities............listen if you keep looking for a particular woman and you get dissappointed by them is it not the women you want to blame or maybe you should blame yourself...................men in here say they dont care about looks but im going to really argue about that all the guys in this site say they dont care about looks but..............when they email me its about my looks and how pretty i am...........no guy has ever said wow what a big brain you got...........come on, you guys get sidetracked by beauty all the time....................thats why even a 80 year old man if he could have his way or had enough money would have a 20 on his arm in a heartbeat before someone his own age.......... 1) Of course....when we are tired of getting our egos pounded into dust....it's because we are insecure. 2) Who said I look for a particular woman? I've been rejected by all kinds. 3) Yes. We do care about looks. But it depends on what extent the guys base their actions on looks is the difference. 4) I have never emailed a woman to tell her how pretty she is. After all....I have seen MANY threads around here that let's me know that it wouldn't be considered a sincere thing to do, even if I really meant it. You ladies can look at it any way you want to. Guys are insecure....guys go only by looks...whatever floats your boat for you. We guys are the only ones who know what we really feel like and why we do a lot of the things we do, or don't do in this case. |
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think that a woman is out of their league by how she looks? I'm in my own league. 
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A confident and smart man wouldnt let a woman's good looks get in the way of getting to know her
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A confident and smart man wouldnt let a woman's good looks get in the way of getting to know her
The problem i have found. Most that are very attractive. The min they open there mouth, i lose interest.... |
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A confident and smart man wouldnt let a woman's good looks get in the way of getting to know her
The problem i have found. Most that are very attractive. The min they open there mouth, i lose interest.... 
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Edited by
JulieMP
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Tue 08/19/08 10:15 PM
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I took the question to be that the man felt the woman was not goodlooking enough to be in his league. I seriously misconstrued the q I guess.
I think the goodlooking people league together while the plain looking people league together, that is usually the case. They just feel more at ease that way I suppose. |
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I dont put people in leagues....
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I dont put people in leagues....
Doesn't mean they don't exist. |
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think that a woman is out of their league by how she looks? 
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A confident and smart man wouldnt let a woman's good looks get in the way of getting to know her
I'm confident enough within myself....and I am smarter than a few.... Smart enough to know that bashing your head into the same old wall is a pointless thing to do. |
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