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I couldnt' agree more. And truth is dependant upon ones individual perspective.
To some red is red, to others red is any shade from maroon to what ever other colors of red there are. Although the same thing is being said it's construed in many different interpetations. As history shows one persons fact is another persons mission. ie: I grew up KNOWING FOR FACT there were 9 planets.....oops .... just found out within the last year....there's only 8. Whats the truth? |
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Wed 07/23/08 07:41 AM
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Edited by
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Wed 07/23/08 07:41 AM
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Why is it that the (one) that is looking is seemingly the one at fault. As for putting the spark back. That has been an ongoing quest for me but after 2-3years of trying to do so. (With back rubs 4 out of 7 days a week) taking over all of the daily "duties" becoming Mr. Mom and carrying on a full time job just so she doesn't have to do anything except go to her outside the home job. I would say that she let the spark die and nothing is done on that side to rekindle it. I'm sure i'll get responses as: why not leave? Kids are most important is the answer before asked. What a crock. Been there, done that, and have the divorce to show for it. What makes you think that it is good for your children to observe their parents in a loveless marriage? What sort of precedent does that set for them? Stop being so damn selfish. |
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Have your wife join the site!
Then we will see if your still looking in here.   |
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curious as the excuse to stay for the kids cause you care so much? hummmm cause what will it do to the kids when they happen to find out that daddy is a cheat? will they hate you? will they love you more and respect you more? or will they follow the pattern you have set in their adulthood? and if they do this will the be leading a happy adulthood?
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curious as the excuse to stay for the kids cause you care so much? hummmm cause what will it do to the kids when they happen to find out that daddy is a cheat? will they hate you? will they love you more and respect you more? or will they follow the pattern you have set in their adulthood? and if they do this will the be leading a happy adulthood?  Exactly |
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No the kids are stable. We don't fight argue or belittle, slam, or any of the other things. The kids see 2 parents working hard to make them happy, provide a beautiful home, and work toward our kids futures.
Thats what the kids see. |
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No the kids are stable. We don't fight argue or belittle, slam, or any of the other things. The kids see 2 parents working hard to make them happy, provide a beautiful home, and work toward our kids futures. Thats what the kids see. would they see that less under different circumstances? |
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No the kids are stable. We don't fight argue or belittle, slam, or any of the other things. The kids see 2 parents working hard to make them happy, provide a beautiful home, and work toward our kids futures. Thats what the kids see. So, what happens when they find out you're cheating? |
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Why is it that the (one) that is looking is seemingly the one at fault. As for putting the spark back. That has been an ongoing quest for me but after 2-3years of trying to do so. (With back rubs 4 out of 7 days a week) taking over all of the daily "duties" becoming Mr. Mom and carrying on a full time job just so she doesn't have to do anything except go to her outside the home job. I would say that she let the spark die and nothing is done on that side to rekindle it. I'm sure i'll get responses as: why not leave? Kids are most important is the answer before asked. I agree but what's worse? Having a bad marriage and the kids knowing it (and trust me, they will/do know) and then finding out their dad's dishonest, because they will find out? Or leaving and forging a better life for everyone? Seems to me you're trying to justify something inexcusable. |
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Wed 07/23/08 07:52 AM
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No the kids are stable. We don't fight argue or belittle, slam, or any of the other things. The kids see 2 parents working hard to make them happy, provide a beautiful home, and work toward our kids futures. Thats what the kids see. |
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Edited by
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Wed 07/23/08 07:51 AM
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No the kids are stable. We don't fight argue or belittle, slam, or any of the other things. The kids see 2 parents working hard to make them happy, provide a beautiful home, and work toward our kids futures. Thats what the kids see. You really are selfish. Don't you think your children can see beyond the facade??? They may be children, but they are not ignorant or blind. Don't kid yourself. Incidentally, there is no way in hell you are going to sway any one of us with your excuses. You are wrong! Either deal with it or continue on your path but don't expect anyone here to condone what you seek. |
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No the kids are stable. We don't fight argue or belittle, slam, or any of the other things. The kids see 2 parents working hard to make them happy, provide a beautiful home, and work toward our kids futures. Thats what the kids see. You'd be surprised, in YOUR mind that's what you "think" the kids see.. Kids are VERY smart! And trust me, once your wife finds out of your cheating ways..those kids will KNOW. |
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No the kids are stable. We don't fight argue or belittle, slam, or any of the other things. The kids see 2 parents working hard to make them happy, provide a beautiful home, and work toward our kids futures. Thats what the kids see. HA!!! Kids see much more than what you think they do. You can not hide unhappiness. Go to MARRIAGE counseling, if that does'nt work- divorce. But do NOT sit here trying to make up excuses for your cheating. If handled well two divorced people can do the same thing for their children that you claim you are doing for them now. JMO |
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No the kids are stable. We don't fight argue or belittle, slam, or any of the other things. The kids see 2 parents working hard to make them happy, provide a beautiful home, and work toward our kids futures. Thats what the kids see. You'd be surprised, in YOUR mind that's what you "think" the kids see.. Kids are VERY smart! And trust me, once your wife finds out of your cheating ways..those kids will KNOW. |
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If this is so open and things are being done "the right way"....
...."for the kids".... Perhaps there might be more response if you start looking for a boyfriend for her...then intentions might be viewed as more "pure". |
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I think we've spent too much time on you already...
This is the site you should be on.. www.datemarriedwomenlink.com. I'm sure you've seen the advertisements, they're all over this site. Just know..eventually, you WILL get caught!! Then you can say "goodbye" to what you consider your "happy home". Price you gotta pay...... as the saying goes: YOU PLAY, YOU PAY! |
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I think we've spent too much time on you already... This is the site you should be on.. www.datemarriedwomenlink.com. I'm sure you've seen the advertisements, they're all over this site. Just know..eventually, you WILL get caught!! Then you can say "goodbye" to what you consider your "happy home". Price you gotta pay...... as the saying goes: YOU PLAY, YOU PAY! oops the site is www.MarriedDateLink.com |
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I'm not wanting or expecting anything from anyone on here. Quite the contrary. Input and different opinions are very accepted and considered.
I haven't cheated on her Yet. Yes I'm thinking about it and have thought about it but not yet have i done it. The more information I gather the clearer my decision will be as to or not to. I don't go to bars, to many responsibilities to waste time on that. Don't have time for friends, sporting events, etc. Actually I don't even know if i would be able to cheat on her. Don't know where I would squeeze in the minutes but....... |
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Yada yada yada. I'm outta here. I say we let this thread die.
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