I dated a guy for 2 YEARS that said he was divorced, and he was as married as can be, and lived with his wife, right in this same town! We were out of town every weekend, and he wanted to do something every night (I need my space). He's VP of the second largest company in this City, and I'd been to his office, met some of his friends, etc. I found out purely accidentally FINALLY that he was married, the SOB! I couldn't believe it! I ended up feeling like the one with no morals, due to his deception! At least if people cheat, they should let the person know they're married, so they don't turn someone into an adultress that didn't want to be! There are plenty of people with equally loose morals that would date them whether they were married or not, so leave the rest of us alone. I wanted to call his wife anonymously and apologize---I felt so awful! Boy, could I have loaded her up with 2 years of love letters, mushy cards, etc. that the jerk gave me. Can't have been much of a marriage as little time as he could have spent with her, but it was still a marriage! Jerk! Think I'll run a background check on anyone before I ever date again. Sorry, still makes me livid when I think about it!

The only person who has the ability to cut this guy anything is God, himself, and his wife.