Thanks for all of the insight. It is greatly appreciated.

I'm not wanting or expecting anything from anyone on here. Quite the contrary. Input and different opinions are very accepted and considered.
I haven't cheated on her Yet. Yes I'm thinking about it and have thought about it but not yet have i done it.
The more information I gather the clearer my decision will be as to or not to.
I don't go to bars, to many responsibilities to waste time on that. Don't have time for friends, sporting events, etc.
Actually I don't even know if i would be able to cheat on her. Don't know where I would squeeze in the minutes but.......

No the kids are stable. We don't fight argue or belittle, slam, or any of the other things. The kids see 2 parents working hard to make them happy, provide a beautiful home, and work toward our kids futures.
Thats what the kids see.

I couldnt' agree more. And truth is dependant upon ones individual perspective.
To some red is red, to others red is any shade from maroon to what ever other colors of red there are.
Although the same thing is being said it's construed in many different interpetations.
As history shows one persons fact is another persons mission. ie: I grew up KNOWING FOR FACT there were 9 planets.....oops .... just found out within the last year....there's only 8. Whats the truth?

Why is it that the (one) that is looking is seemingly the one at fault. As for putting the spark back. That has been an ongoing quest for me but after 2-3years of trying to do so. (With back rubs 4 out of 7 days a week) taking over all of the daily "duties" becoming Mr. Mom and carrying on a full time job just so she doesn't have to do anything except go to her outside the home job.
I would say that she let the spark die and nothing is done on that side to rekindle it.
I'm sure i'll get responses as: why not leave?
Kids are most important is the answer before asked.

yep i'm beginning to think so.

Are there not any married women on this site who are looking?

Seems as tho when I posted that I was a MWM I became a untouchable.

Aren't we all looking for the same? Something missing in life. ie: Passion, touch, desire, want, etc.

Wow...Thanks for the replies.

I find sweats and a pony tail out the back of a cap a major turn on.
Sweat shorts and a t-tank no bra or underwear works too.

Any ladies in the Sacramento area?