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I'm 46 and still single and trying to find that special heart out there somewhere, I don't know if I will find it, I hope life will bring us together, just gotta keep on looking.
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I am 38. I was with my girl for 15 years. We have broken up gotten back together a few times over the years. I know we love each other deeply but for some reason can't seem to stop hurting each other. I am so scared that I will never meet someone and feel like i did about her. i am also equally scared that I WILL. I don't think I will ever feel like I did when I was with her with anyone else. My heart is ripped open and drove over by a 18 wheeler. I am so scared. Now I just want to find someone to at the very least take my mind off of her but that is not fair to them. I don't know what to do I just want to sit down and bawl. Sorry folks thanks for letting me vent. :((((
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why is it that I am almost 35 , divorced , and feel like I will never meet somone special again Because you haven't met me. No i'm kidding, Don't feel bad, Keep your chin up, and your heart going. Its been a very long time that I have met anyone. But my heart still beats and I know she's out there waiting for me somewhere. |
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You will met someone special again...everyone is special in their own ways...we just have to find that special trait in everyone
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im 33 im divorced my marrage did not work because of my job. how ever the dateing seen has changed alot since i was last out there. all i tend to atracked are females that are gold diggers. i just ment one about 6 weeks a go 25yr, she worked and went to school. thats cool. well her computer broke down so i went and put a lap top on my charge card so she can still do her schoolwork. she was at my house about 90% of the time any way. then she got a fine for some thing and barrowed the money from me to pay it so she would not have to do some jail time. the other day she was visiting her parents out of state and some thing happened and she had to have some sergery so she stayed with her parent the last couple of days. well yesterday while i was at work she called me told me she was at my place picking up her things and was moving back in with her parents out of state. when i got home i noticed she took the lap top. i felt so used that it was not funny. she called me and said she would pay me so much a month for the computer. i will belive it when i see it. i'm such a fool.
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Given the title of this thread...here's some real hope :) I just got my (egads I'm 49 now) new driver's license and my kids about fainted when they compared the 8 years ago photo to the current...for good reasons :) (and I'm not far behind in the faint!)
Just goes to show you can get waaaay better with age and you 30-somethings are just barely getting started :) Life gets better if you let it and attractive? Heck yes and with unbelievable yet to come for all of you:) Peace 
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sat 12/06/08 08:09 PM
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im 33 im divorced my marrage did not work because of my job. how ever the dateing seen has changed alot since i was last out there. all i tend to atracked are females that are gold diggers. My life story, except I never got married. I was the other way around. I have given up good paying jobs for someone, because of the location, while others were only 'looking' to see how much $ I have. When they found out I am no Rockefeller, they moved on. |
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im 33 im divorced my marrage did not work because of my job. how ever the dateing seen has changed alot since i was last out there. all i tend to atracked are females that are gold diggers. i just ment one about 6 weeks a go 25yr, she worked and went to school. thats cool. well her computer broke down so i went and put a lap top on my charge card so she can still do her schoolwork. she was at my house about 90% of the time any way. then she got a fine for some thing and barrowed the money from me to pay it so she would not have to do some jail time. the other day she was visiting her parents out of state and some thing happened and she had to have some sergery so she stayed with her parent the last couple of days. well yesterday while i was at work she called me told me she was at my place picking up her things and was moving back in with her parents out of state. when i got home i noticed she took the lap top. i felt so used that it was not funny. she called me and said she would pay me so much a month for the computer. i will belive it when i see it. i'm such a fool. Not all women are like that. But you should maybe not offer any money or monetary items of value to these ladies. Be patient, you will find the right one! Cheers! |
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why is it that I am almost 35 , divorced , and feel like I will never meet somone special again 'cause you're newly single. give it awhile. and you'll have to pick n choose. |
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why is it that I am almost 35 , divorced , and feel like I will never meet somone special again yes, that sounds bad, but you're nice, really. a real sweetheart. they'll begin to find you, and then............well |
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42 here and single now for 2 yrs
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why is it that I am almost 35 , divorced , and feel like I will never meet somone special again  we get more picky and less tolerant...I know I would rather be by myself then deal with someone Im not really into.....you could be the best guy in the world but if theres no physical chemistry Im not at all interested
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why is everyone so obsessive about aging process and meeting someone...i realize that when we all grow older its a natural part of life...but please..give me a break..what is wrong with being single and enjoying it..when the person that is supposed to come into your life gets there its when you dont look for them...i am open person to meet lots of people and learn and grow..but to sound so pathetically depressed about being alone...i am not...embracing life and the moments we have and looking within to grow is what life is really about...people can sulk about not having life as planned as they thought they would from teen yrs...or they can live it...moment to moment with realistic expectations...or not...lol and to the comment about becoming older and "less tolerant" ...thats a choice...you can grow as a person regardless of age or anything else..we may all be bombarded with all that life has to offer (postive and negative) but regardless of all the things ingrained along the way..choices make us who we are or who we want to be...
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I think it's because at our age.... we've all been burnt a time or two and whether we want to admit it or not... are scared to stick our necks out for fear of being hurt and rejected again.... TA _DA !!!!!! |
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why is it that I am almost 35 , divorced , and feel like I will never meet somone special again we get more picky and less tolerant...I know I would rather be by myself then deal with someone Im not really into.....you could be the best guy in the world but if theres no physical chemistry Im not at all interested I completely agree!! |
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ya try bein 37 a single father. all the women i meet want my daughter and not me lol. try ti tell them we come as a pair
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why is everyone so obsessive about aging process and meeting someone...i realize that when we all grow older its a natural part of life...but please..give me a break..what is wrong with being single and enjoying it..when the person that is supposed to come into your life gets there its when you dont look for them...i am open person to meet lots of people and learn and grow..but to sound so pathetically depressed about being alone...i am not...embracing life and the moments we have and looking within to grow is what life is really about...people can sulk about not having life as planned as they thought they would from teen yrs...or they can live it...moment to moment with realistic expectations...or not...lol and to the comment about becoming older and "less tolerant" ...thats a choice...you can grow as a person regardless of age or anything else..we may all be bombarded with all that life has to offer (postive and negative) but regardless of all the things ingrained along the way..choices make us who we are or who we want to be... absolutely!! I enjoy my life.. I don't feel I need to have a better half to complete it.. All I need is me, if someone else wants to be there that would be great too, but not a necessity... |
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Hey there everyone, newbie here. 38yr old male, look younger (28ish). Ok I did look 28ish BEFORE my divorce, damn stress! :-), married almost 20 years, divorced for 1+ yrs. 18 and 14 yr old sons. Just saying "hello"
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That might be but you need to put some more info in your profile....
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thanks samaranj...i think there is a stigma attached to people going on sites like this...then sometimes people tend to live out the stereotype in the way they communicate...like people start believing that they will "never find their someone"...first you have to look within and find your own soul to be able to even think about connecting with someone elses...whatever happened to feeling good about yourself..without the superficiality....and knowing who you were inside and truely liking yourself...you have to see the beauty within to see the beauty in someone else...
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