I tell people that I AM NOT OLD, my children are!

I think it is all about your attitude! I found love when I stopped looking for it.

I learned how to love myself for who I am again and not worry about finding love and then it found me.

Hello everyone,I'm 38 and everybody...well not everybody..tells me I'm cute,geeeezzz. I think I'm too old to be cute,LOL.I prefer to be called HOT,hahahaha! To be in a relationship with somebody is like a cycle.You meet somebody,you think he's the right one but then they disappear.we go on an on and on...whew! And at 38 I am wishing that I am with the ONE,but still not.he should be somewhere...

he should find me fast >>>>

I'm handsome

I'm thirty something.. and I still get carded ALL THE TIME... 20 somethings try to pick me up...lol

I don't look or feel my age.. it's only a number.

Keep my good looks too

It's kinda funny. I was just talking to a friend about this yesterday. We came to the conclusion that, once you have a few callusus it's harder to feel with the tough, scarred skin that replaces the original soft flesh we once had.

But somewhere, someone can get past it. Patience. So hard, I know.

Thirty and Flirty! Thirty-Eight Let's celebrate! With age comes wisdom and insight. Life is awesome! keep your chin up and roll with the punches... sooner or later your partner in crime will show up!

yes Pat you are a TOTAL LOOKER! sorry I didn't respond to you the FIRST time you announced that... LOL I will try to be more attentive in the future!

Maybe most of you will find someone, but what about the people who have physical problems, that stop them from doing a lot of things?? How many people out there would be willing to deal with someone who has a lot of problems? Not emotional baggage or anything like that.
I mean I have osteoarthritis of the spine, and it's stopping me from doing a lot of things including working. I'm only 36, still act a lot younger, but I sure as hell don't feel it. I'm also bipolar. I want to get out and do things, but it makes it a lot easier if I have someone to do it with. Just in case I need help. How many women are going to willing to deal with my problems??

Honestly, Hellboy, in the end it has a LOT to do with how well you get along with each-other. Looks do matter, but they can easily be augmented with personality if that personality clicks with you. Same can be said of "issues", of any kind.

What I mean to say is, enjoy life as well as you can, be happy, don't ***** and whine all the time about your particular issues (even if they can be more difficult than others'), and be a good friend, and she'll come along.

It's not that I'm whining, it's just that I'm realizing my limitations, and what I'm going to go through. I don't want anyone to feel sorry for me. And I have to be straightforward with anyone who might want to be with me.

I can understand that. I don't have your physical limitations, but I do have 5 children whom I have to be honest about, as well, and they can be just as much of a challenge when it comes to dating.

We all have something. That is both our curse and our salvation.

I turn 49 on Monday. Do I look my age?

and you look great Patti.

I dunno Wacky... I'd say you like a few million years old.

To GOds Chosen, agrees somewhat, but looks are not that important, its what is inside that God has chosen to let be shown in some cases

Tom

I dunno, Im 48, have a kid in college and another older than some of you and am a grandfather. I still get attention and even have a 32 year old married knockout chasing me around (not going down that path, lol). Im sure it has NOTHING to do with the way I look as I dont think I'll blow anyone over in that regard. Rather it has to do with attitude, personality and staying vital. Being yourself and being happy with that reflects well on oneself and people pick up on that. Not just with prospective love interests, but with anyone you meet.

howdy

seems rzepkow1 has it cold, but with that beautiful smile you will have to lock the doors