I can take anything I dish out. So shoot, I don't care. LOL

Hey you know everybody's talkin' about the good old days
Everybody the good old days
The good old days
Well, let's talk about the good old days
Come to think about it
As bad as we think they are
These will become the good old days of our children
Why don't we try to remember
The kind of September
When life was slow and oh so mellow
Try to remember
And if you remember
Then follow
Why does it always seem the past is better
We look back and think
The winters were warmer
The grass was greener
The skies were bluer
The smiles were brighter
Can it be that it was all so simple then
Or has time rewritten every line
And if we had the chance to do it all again
Tell me
Would we?
Could we?

I THINK YER GREAT

The reason why I don't post much on here is because of some rude comments made on my first one. But I just shook it off, but I am still cautious. I guess I am just like everyone else, I don't want to be embarrassed by any, and since everyone seems to read these posts, it makes it even harder to want to post again. But I guess there will always be some who find it amusing to belittle others for the sake to make themselves look better.

Please accept my apologies on behalf of those that jump ugly at newcomers... You are welcome on my thread anytime.

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/107510?page=28

Some people like to wait until you have been here awhile before they start belittling you.

Thanks alot Water

if ya don't like someone's personality than just avoid the person jmo

I do miss the old days

But i still say hi to the new people

That's true ... i try to stay away from the idiots

hmmmm..and in a few years these will be the good ol' days!

anyhow... I've been around here for awhile..I'm not in the click but, everybody (old &new) has always been nice & friendly...except for my prince charming he hides from me & ignores me completely! I think he's just playing hard to get!!

I'm not even new and my post's are ignored . Not that I make alot of effort to get anyones attention ... I just ramble in any post I find interesting .

I did like the site more so when I first joined as opposed to now . Some of the newer people are extremely cliquish and rude in my opinion . The sad thing is that I see so many people just following along in the rude behaviour like a gang of kids who think being mean is cool . Belittling people isn't cool and it doesn't make anyone seem intelligent .

Sometimes I do see a pack mentality. I saw it the other day and several of us spoke out against it. It was the person's first post, asking for help; and a pack of hyenas descended on her. Yikes.

... back in high school it never bothered me either ....always kinda marched to the beat of my own drum anyways...I don't need the in crowd...I need a man!

No problem and a belated welcome to JSH

I march to the beat of my own drum as well. My mom always said that about me. It didn't go over so well in high school but it works better for me now that I am older.

Your thoughts are echoed by many

Humm after reading through most of this it does amaze me that some think that in the beginning it was any better then it is right now.

When I first join the site it was only a few months after the site was created. Even at that time members were being harassed and belittled.

It is like a never ending circle just new ones that seem to like to put others down. So no matter if it is today next month or next year you will still have certain ones that tend to bash and attack others on the forums.

And in the mean time you will have those members that say it was better back in the day. Humm in the day of what when they ignored that it was happening to others. Seems the longer some are here they seem to finally notice the attacking or cutting down of others. But.......they fail to notice it back in the day for they at times were some of the ones doing the bashing and attacking. humm go figure.

Have I ever chimed in shshshshshh I think that everyone here at times has.

When I first got here there were post of over weight issues not put in a nice way either. Did I jab back at them heck ya I gave them my two cents worth for being so shallow of others feelings.

But regardless yesterday day, last week or last month or next month there will always be those who try to bring others down.

What most have to remember not to jump the band wagon and be one of those that do the same. I have seen many do it over post that made no sense or over spelling or over vulgar subjects.

Actually if we ignored those post they would not be able to put as much fuel on the fire and it get blown out of proportion as it does.

So even though we don't realize it we also help make things worse then they are.

Actually with the system that is in place now with the Mods, Abuse buttons ect... Which we did not have in the beginning things are handled different now and much quicker. Therefore things do not get as bad as they did when I first got here.

Now if only everyone would use those options instead of jumping on the band wagon and attacking back. Those that do these type of things could be dealt with sooner. So therefore use the options before you and help the Site to get rid of the trouble makers.

Take time to say hi to the Newbies and the members already here make this site a friendly site one that you would be happy to tell your friends about.

Complaining only brings out the bad issues but actions speak louder then words any day. It all depends on what we do to make it better.

*Okay Stepping down off my soap box*

agree with ya