Go back and read my original post... I did mention that it wasn't this site.

Posting this here was obviously a mistake. I was really emotional last night but can see things clearly today. I have spoken with him, told the truth and have NOT lost a friend. I had absolutely nothing to be concerned about.

Whatever you all may think I am NOT a bad person and am not in the habit of lying. To the person who called me fat, thanks alot. This is why I used that fake picture (because of people like you). My bored Saturday night 3 years ago turned into a social experiment and what I thought was proven and continues to be proven.

I am no longer in need of further opinions from any of you so admin is welcome to delete, lock or do absolutely nothing to my thread here.

To those of you who were the least bit supportive and understanding, thank you.

Woah! Hold up pople this did not occur on this site. I have no friends here as I barely ever log on here. The fake account was on another site and I only used it one weekend 3years ago when I met this person. I have not ruined his life, trust me he was never devoted to me in that kind of way. We talk alot but he dates and goes out. I have been more of a confidant for him and any romantic feelings for me are a recent development.


Yes my profile here is real who in the world would want to use my pictures in a fake profile.

I've goten away with him not seeing me on a wbcam for 3 years because I was able to take recent pictures whenever he asked. When this began it was just out of boredom. I get ZERO messages on these dating sites I posted her picture and my inbox was full in 5minutes.

I tried to convince her to meet him for me but she is getting married next weekend lol.

I think he could be the one if he wasn't so shallow. During the time that we have talked he has dated lots of attractive women and he is a really good catch.

I haven't talked to him today I think he may know something is up because last night during a conversation that didn't end until 8am this morning he kept saying that this was to good to be true and he just wanted to know that I was real.

Babyface - Never Keeping Secrets

Good idea Shasta.

Justin Timberlake - Never Again

I feel like i'm in that movie The Truth About Cats & Dogs only I don't think i'll end up w/the happy ending.

lol Well I know he hasn't lied i've seen him on webcam and we've talked on the phone.

Oh yes I know that and I wouldn't allow him to come here without telling the truth. I totally expect him to be mad... furious even and I would feel the same way.

I am sure what I am about to write will not get me any sympathy but I am all about telling the truth tonight. For almost 3 years I have been living an online lie. We all have at some point suspected people of using fake/someone elses photos and I am ashamed to say that I am guilty. I have used (w/her permission) pictures of a much more attractive cousin. 3 years ago I joined a similar dating site to this one with a profile using photos of myself and also a seperate profile using my cousins photos. I met a man on the other dating site and we have talked off and on for 3 years. He has no idea what I really look like because he thinks i'm my beautiful cousin. During our conversations (online and by phone) some of which have lasted longer than 12 hours i've spilled my heart to him and told him things that i've told noone else. I feel immense emotional attachment to this man and he expresses the same attachment towards me. Last night he said the timing was right and he was coming to visit me. Now I can't just let him come and be suprised I would NEVER do that, but I do not know if I should tell him the truth. How could he ever feel anything for the real me(he is way out of my league). I feel so ashamed for doing this to him and have tried everything I can think of to get out of this. I know the right thing to do is to tell the truth, get it over with and move on. I have never felt so much regret in my life because I know whatever I do it will hurt him.


I'm posting this here because I truly do want to hear some feedback and perhaps i'm a glutton for punishment. I've given up getting a date here looooong ago.

Grilled beef patty topped with blue cheese crumbles , 4 strips of fresh-cooked Bacon, sauteed onions, lettuce, tomato & creamy steakhouse sauce.

Cabbage Rolls.... we always make a huge pot of them and then they haunt me in the refrigerator for days until I eat all the left overs.

Human fingers should be on that ad.... I lost the tip of my right index finger in one of those things when I was 16.

Thanks all... but, I am trying to talk my way out of cooking this thing now.lol I don't think it will be any good.
He usually gives the turkeys away when he gets them.

I think it is going to be all dark meat if i'm not mistaken?

My BIL hunts wild turkey and this year we decided to cook one of them. I have never had wild turkey and I have no idea how to cook it. Any suggestions?

Stick With Me Baby by Robert Plant & Alison Krauss

Doesn't Have To Be This Way by Alison Krauss & Union Station

Seven Wonders by Nickel Creek

I live in a very small town and I will sometimes smile but not usually. I am a very shy person and it is akward for me when people say hello I do try to smile but it's hard. I almost have a heartattack when strangers say hi , how are you? it makes me nervouse as I never know the correct response.I know that sounds stupid but is true for me.
God forbid I see someone I am acquainted with I usually try to avoid them completely so I don't have to say anything.