Topic: JSH before vs. JSH now
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Fri 05/16/08 09:46 PM



lol I'm not part of anyone's clique, I post and talk to everyone whether they want me to or not laugh laugh flowerforyou


but everyone wants you cuz you're funny, Jillflowerforyou
blushing flowerforyou ty but you friggin crack me up all the time


back at you babe!

My, we ARE an unfriendly bunch, aren't we?

Winx's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:46 PM
Lex, I can't relate to why people would be actively hostile to newcomers. That's awful.

Jill298's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:47 PM




lol I'm not part of anyone's clique, I post and talk to everyone whether they want me to or not laugh laugh flowerforyou


but everyone wants you cuz you're funny, Jillflowerforyou
blushing flowerforyou ty but you friggin crack me up all the time


back at you babe!

My, we ARE an unfriendly bunch, aren't we?
laugh laugh totally... are you in my clique or am I in your clique??? huh

hikerchick's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:48 PM
I do know what you mean, Miguel; I have wandered into a thread now and again where no matter how witty my repartee was, it was ignored because I wasn't one of them.

But most people on here are not like that.

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Fri 05/16/08 09:48 PM
I'm not clique-worthy. Which is good, because I don't subscribe to cliques. I'm friendly to almost anyone, tolerant of most, and only hostile when breathed upon in an unkind manner.

Are there cliques? Sure, but just like in life, you learn to either be part of it, or take your views/thoughts/jokes elsewhere.

No different than going into some neighborhood bar. Everyone knows a bar where the people inside think it's their own little world... either accepting of newcomers, or hostile towards them. You go on and find yourself your own place in the world.

Much as you can do in the online world. (And not JUST with JSH.)

JMNSHO (=

flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker drinker flowerforyou flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:50 PM





lol I'm not part of anyone's clique, I post and talk to everyone whether they want me to or not laugh laugh flowerforyou


but everyone wants you cuz you're funny, Jillflowerforyou
blushing flowerforyou ty but you friggin crack me up all the time


back at you babe!

My, we ARE an unfriendly bunch, aren't we?
laugh laugh totally... are you in my clique or am I in your clique??? huh


I have been told I have a clique but I beg to differ. I have way too many friends on here to keep them all in one group. Some of them don't even know the other ones..so how can it be a clique? A clique is by definition a close group that exludes other people. you and I get along with everybody, except, of course, the morons. But who cares about that?

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Fri 05/16/08 09:50 PM

Lex, I can't relate to why people would be actively hostile to newcomers. That's awful.


When I posted my first thread, I was greeted with one of the most vulgar responses you can imagine. And my post was about a strange e-mail I had received from a site member. I almost left the site right then and there. I thought, "If this is how they treat new people here, what's the point?" But I stuck around and things started to change.

The one who posted the bad response was later banned for using the site to send threatening and vulgar e-mails to a man in his 70s who was here looking for friends....

hikerchick's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:51 PM

I'm not clique-worthy. Which is good, because I don't subscribe to cliques. I'm friendly to almost anyone, tolerant of most, and only hostile when breathed upon in an unkind manner.

Are there cliques? Sure, but just like in life, you learn to either be part of it, or take your views/thoughts/jokes elsewhere.

No different than going into some neighborhood bar. Everyone knows a bar where the people inside think it's their own little world... either accepting of newcomers, or hostile towards them. You go on and find yourself your own place in the world.

Much as you can do in the online world. (And not JUST with JSH.)

JMNSHO (=

flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker drinker flowerforyou flowerforyou


I don't think Jace wants to be my friend anymore because I didn't know who Stephen Hawking was. brokenheart sad brokenheart sad brokenheart

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Fri 05/16/08 09:52 PM

I don't think Jace wants to be my friend anymore because I didn't know who Stephen Hawking was. brokenheart sad brokenheart sad brokenheart


That IS pretty egregious....

glasses

hikerchick's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:53 PM
When I posted my first thread, I was greeted with one of the most vulgar responses you can imagine. And my post was about a strange e-mail I had received from a site member. I almost left the site right then and there. I thought, "If this is how they treat new people here, what's the point?" But I stuck around and things started to change.

The one who posted the bad response was later banned for using the site to send threatening and vulgar e-mails to a man in his 70s who was here looking for friends....


I saw it done last night to a woman who was looking for help with her daughter. It was her first post and some of the responses she got made me cringe. They were downright mean. I was embarrassed.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:54 PM


I don't think Jace wants to be my friend anymore because I didn't know who Stephen Hawking was. brokenheart sad brokenheart sad brokenheart


That IS pretty egregious....

glasses


I'm an accountant. Ask me about section 78 gross up or the foreign tax credit.

Have mercy!!!

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Fri 05/16/08 09:55 PM



I don't think Jace wants to be my friend anymore because I didn't know who Stephen Hawking was. brokenheart sad brokenheart sad brokenheart


That IS pretty egregious....

glasses


I'm an accountant. Ask me about section 78 gross up or the foreign tax credit.

Have mercy!!!
laugh laugh

Jill298's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:55 PM

When I posted my first thread, I was greeted with one of the most vulgar responses you can imagine. And my post was about a strange e-mail I had received from a site member. I almost left the site right then and there. I thought, "If this is how they treat new people here, what's the point?" But I stuck around and things started to change.

The one who posted the bad response was later banned for using the site to send threatening and vulgar e-mails to a man in his 70s who was here looking for friends....


I saw it done last night to a woman who was looking for help with her daughter. It was her first post and some of the responses she got made me cringe. They were downright mean. I was embarrassed.
thats just wrong:angry:

Winx's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:56 PM


Lex, I can't relate to why people would be actively hostile to newcomers. That's awful.


When I posted my first thread, I was greeted with one of the most vulgar responses you can imagine. And my post was about a strange e-mail I had received from a site member. I almost left the site right then and there. I thought, "If this is how they treat new people here, what's the point?" But I stuck around and things started to change.

The one who posted the bad response was later banned for using the site to send threatening and vulgar e-mails to a man in his 70s who was here looking for friends....


Posting one's first post is difficult to do. But..to be shot down when you have finally dared to do it...grumble

He was banned. Karma.bigsmile

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Fri 05/16/08 09:56 PM
i don't get the "proprietary thread" concept
where the op takes some kind of weird ownership
control of their thread...

i view threads as conversations that have been started
rather than shrines which are under construction...

noway laugh

Winx's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:57 PM

When I posted my first thread, I was greeted with one of the most vulgar responses you can imagine. And my post was about a strange e-mail I had received from a site member. I almost left the site right then and there. I thought, "If this is how they treat new people here, what's the point?" But I stuck around and things started to change.

The one who posted the bad response was later banned for using the site to send threatening and vulgar e-mails to a man in his 70s who was here looking for friends....


I saw it done last night to a woman who was looking for help with her daughter. It was her first post and some of the responses she got made me cringe. They were downright mean. I was embarrassed.


Oh, that was absolutely horrid. That poor woman had already suffered enough.

Jill298's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:57 PM


When I posted my first thread, I was greeted with one of the most vulgar responses you can imagine. And my post was about a strange e-mail I had received from a site member. I almost left the site right then and there. I thought, "If this is how they treat new people here, what's the point?" But I stuck around and things started to change.

The one who posted the bad response was later banned for using the site to send threatening and vulgar e-mails to a man in his 70s who was here looking for friends....


I saw it done last night to a woman who was looking for help with her daughter. It was her first post and some of the responses she got made me cringe. They were downright mean. I was embarrassed.


Oh, that was absolutely horrid. That poor woman had already suffered enough.
I didn't see it

hikerchick's photo
Fri 05/16/08 09:58 PM

i don't get the "proprietary thread" concept
where the op takes some kind of weird ownership
control of their thread...

i view threads as conversations that have been started
rather than shrines which are under construction...

noway laugh


I have actually been asked by people to get out of their thread; at which point I remind them that this is a public forum. That was why I wrote my Hey Hey You You parody.

Shaden's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:00 PM
I like when all are respectful to another with that in mind you gotta learn to politely comeback. Some hide behid their keyboards like some hide behind the telephone, in areas of rudness and brassness.explode

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Fri 05/16/08 10:01 PM

I don't think Jace wants to be my friend anymore because I didn't know who Stephen Hawking was. brokenheart sad brokenheart sad brokenheart


Are you effin kidding me? You DON'T (do not?) know who Steven Hawking is?? <bangs head on desk>