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Tue 12/08/09 04:47 PM


I get emails wherein the person doesn't even introduce themselves; they call me "hon" or some other ridiculous pet name; and start a conversation in the middle! slaphead

If they saw me in real life -- their approach would be different. I expect the type of manners and advance via email as if they were seeing me at the gym or store.

Unfortunately, that is one of the down-falls of online dating. Social skills are lazy. sad2



I try and have a conversation,in the format,I would at a social event.Many tend to get way to personal, for me it's a red flag.And I will back away.

As for finding a soulmate, anything is possiable. You have to be open minded,as well as a open heart.

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Tue 12/08/09 12:12 PM
Welcome, Good luck to both of you.flowerforyou

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Tue 12/08/09 11:42 AM
Personally I blame the parents,that go along with it.Makes you wonder if she uses handicap tag in car as well.

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Tue 12/08/09 08:30 AM
Hello and Welcome!

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Tue 12/08/09 07:28 AM
Hello and Welcome....Just stay in the forums, truly some great people here as well, you'll get to know others,as well they will get to know you. Good Luckflowerforyou

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Tue 12/08/09 06:48 AM
You might want to put something in your local paper. As your thank you...so others may see there is goodness, in our lives around us.:heart:

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Tue 12/08/09 04:06 AM
No thats just my typing errors with not enough coffee,and not having reading glasses on....hey such is life...i'm not perfect by any means...I'm ok with that:wink:

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Tue 12/08/09 04:03 AM
will you just hand me the remote...i'll so it,,,flowerforyou

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Tue 12/08/09 04:01 AM
Ahhh Thank you.I still like my job..lol

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Tue 12/08/09 03:54 AM
lol... sorry i'm such a mom..my sons 23 in collage..so still in the habits.

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Tue 12/08/09 03:53 AM
Yes thats the best...guess I have peanut butter too and homemade blackberry jam available also.

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Tue 12/08/09 03:46 AM
uhh much better..ok bagels for all with cream cheese.drinker

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Tue 12/08/09 03:35 AM
ahhh lol sweet,need a bud to stand with you at airport..lollaugh

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Tue 12/08/09 03:31 AM
Good Morning...uhh coffee coffee..always need that kick start...next thats coming is snow snow snow..so need the coffee coffee ...good morning alldrinker flowerforyou

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Mon 12/07/09 12:17 PM

Depends on your belief as well.

To get married to your best friend for love...to be willing to work on and be completely committed to a relationship. Spiritually, emotionally, and physically. If you are taking religion into it as well to be in the 'right' eyes with God and to not be living in sin. That is some of the reasons



Some of the no's include, being able to know you have your freedom, to not worry about divorce or the financial/emotional effects of it...you know the saying 'stay out of the fire' so to speak.



agree totally..

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Mon 12/07/09 12:12 PM
Wouldn't date someone I work with.Can be way to much drama if it didn't work out.Rules are rules for a reason.

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Mon 12/07/09 12:03 PM
Hello, and Welcome

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Mon 12/07/09 11:57 AM
As I stated before I'm not against drinking, you failed to get that point, as well as understanding a reason you have to get trashed to feel your having a good time...

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Mon 12/07/09 10:30 AM


Hey I guess if you arn't mature enough to handle it's effects then don't do it. Personally I run my life, not the alcohol I drink. But i'm still going to go and blow off steam whenever I need to by getting buzzed and relaxing with my friends.

Most people are too thick to understand that usually alcohol isn't the problem, it's the person that drinks it.

I've had friends get in wrecks with drunk drivers and while being drunk ... and every time people equate it to the alcohol. But the person decided to get in the car, and decided drink way to much (drink at all really) before hand.



yes you are the "rule" and not the "exception" too! I love to drink beer and have drank for twenty years. I am very healthy, never had a DUI, and I love my beer and will enjoy it till I die! Some people are just prudes and judge others for it! It is irritating because it's in my own family. My sister hates drinking and when we have get togethers there is always alcohol around and she hates it! She always bitatches about it, her poor man gets in trouble if he hangs out with the "drinkers". lol..... some people are just so uptight and prudish they take all the fun out of things! When there are get togethers at her house she is always sure to point out no alcohol allowed, so i bring a twelve pack and make her kick me out! If she didn't make such a point of no alcohol i just wouldn't drink at her functions but you know in her opinion anyone who enjoys drinking regularly is an alcoholic. "bullcrap"! So now she makes sure everything is a kid function lol.... i guess she won i stopped bringing beer. but her functions last about two hours before everyone cuts out and few people show up. Mine half the neighborhood end up over there and they last all night long! Damn...why do some people just refuse to have fun? I mean not all people drink but you dont have to hate on others who do!


I'm not against people who have a drink,it's when they get trashed and think thats when they are having a good time....hmm something wrong with that picture, that you can't have a good time with out drinking, and or have to getting trashed.
I drink, or have a few drinks(meaning 2 not 5,6,7,8), when having to drive, never.

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Mon 12/07/09 10:12 AM


Would you meet the person above you?
for coffee



looks like we are the only 2 here,lol cheers!drinker i'll share a coffee..lol