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Fri 12/11/09 03:11 AM

Damn, Sometimes I think I should join the club.
Lie like crazy to attract a partner.

My life in a nutshell,
I have a good job, Southern attire, serious but joke a lot to avoid most stress, somewhat of a home body, remodeling my home is my biggest joy at the moment, Love to take something that looks like crap and make it look new again, so... between work and remodeling it don't leave a lot of free time.
I don't need to get drunk to enjoy life.
Dinning out is a treat not something I do often.
I tell it like it is, and not into bs..ing just to find someone.
They can take me as I am or keep walking.

That said....
Seems all of the women I have met want the BS.
As if the more a guy can lie and make himself appear to be such a catch, Even if it is CLEARLY bull...thats the one she wants.

Is reality and down to earth really such bad traits in a guy??


As the rest have stated just be yourself.
Sad to say most are tring to find a perfect mold,and and really not willing to blend with anyone, just want want want.
Woman that have ethics,common sence,traditional values,morals,live with in their means, do put themselfs available,as well as some men.
Seems what we attract is not even close.Usually with in a 30 min. or less conversation you get the just of what someones looking for.And if you try and end conversation, then the lying starts..as oh you took it wrong , I didn't mean it that way etc....Just stick with your standards.

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Thu 12/10/09 07:39 PM
popcorn, extra butter...and pass the rolaids later.ohwell

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Thu 12/10/09 07:37 PM
Can some one share their popcorn please???And be honest that you want to share??slaphead

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Thu 12/10/09 07:29 PM

Not a thing wrong with a person that knows what they want. Heck at my age my kids are grown do you realize how hard it is to find someone my age that don't have small kids talking under 10? Tougher then I thought. Even though I would not turn my back on the idea but would rather meet someone that has kids already grown or darn near it. bigsmile


Ditto!!:thumbsup:

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Thu 12/10/09 04:52 PM
Hmmmm... I look at it this way, why lie.all comes out anyway.When some doesn't like my answer, they don't have to.But hopefully we can respect view points of others, we just don't have to agree.As for not starting out with truths,is only hurting yourself in the long run.

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Thu 12/10/09 04:33 PM
Take your time, and do not rush into anything.If and when a few months pass you have a better idea,what both of you want.

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Thu 12/10/09 04:26 PM
Your a very nice looking gal, stay with your eithics.This person truly is not worth your time.Guessing he just looking for a good time with the cam.Delete him ,and call it a day..

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Thu 12/10/09 04:17 PM
Hello and Welcome....very cold in WI..lots of snow

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Thu 12/10/09 04:15 PM
waving Hello

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Thu 12/10/09 04:14 PM
Hello and Welcome both of you!flowerforyou

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Thu 12/10/09 07:44 AM
hmm Well...Hello and Welcome...join the forums, post often.

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Thu 12/10/09 06:57 AM
I am happy, I have all the comforts of home,and friends,and pay my bills,and my health.Now sharing thoses comforts would be a added plus.I'm very thankful just being responsible,and live with in my means.:heart:

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Thu 12/10/09 06:42 AM

Does have anyone have any tips on dog training. My dog is gonna drive me INSANE. He has serious seperation anxiety, even if I just leave the room. My neighbors complained that when I'm gone he barks, ALL day long. He flipped out and scratched up my door frame just while I was outside putting salt out for the snow. I have a kennel I put him in when I'm gone just so he won't destroy anything. I did just order a barking collar (not a shock collar ) to see if that helps. I need some ideas. flowerforyou



You might want to try and use something of yours in his cage,Like a pillow case,a throw you have covered up with,a old pair of sweats,so your scent is in the cage.That what I did worked like a charm.

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Thu 12/10/09 06:33 AM
Whew,,sorry but your still married,state that, your not even legally seperated.Your mentioning your x .... she is not an X.And yes this is a dating site.If your looking for FWB state that.Come on lets be honest here!!slaphead

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Thu 12/10/09 03:37 AM


Whether or not he didnt care when he smoked is a moot point. He rented a smoke-free apartment, this means no smoking in the building, if the neigherbor upstairs is smoking inside then he is breaking the rules. The smoker should it outside or he should be the on that has to move not the person that rented a smoke free apartment.



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I'd talk with the other tentant first,and ask if the could go back and smoke outside like before,reminding them it's a smoke free building.If that doesn't work contact your landlord.You shouldn't have to move.And guessing this is the most civil way of handling the problem.As your your landlord, they should have in their contract,if caught smoking in building,a eviction would be served.

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Thu 12/10/09 03:22 AM
This friend of yours needs to focus on the positives of his life today.The past is the past..even tho his mother wasn't the role model.To my understand he's the role model for himself what not to be.Only he alows the hurt in of the past.Today is a new begining,for all tomarrows.He does not need her approval,only his own on how he's conducting his life today...Best of luck..stand strong!

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Thu 12/10/09 02:45 AM
Welcome ,Good Luckflowerforyou

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Thu 12/10/09 02:44 AM
Hello and Welcomeflowerforyou

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Wed 12/09/09 03:13 PM
Hello and Welcomeflowerforyou

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Wed 12/09/09 10:12 AM
Welcome, Join the forums, good way to mingle.