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Sat 12/12/09 08:10 AM
Welcome to Mingle...profile looks good:thumbsup:

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Sat 12/12/09 06:38 AM
First date, should be kept simple,maybe out for dinner, or coffee.Depends on the amount of time, you both feel at comfort with.

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Sat 12/12/09 06:30 AM


:heart: Do you think that physical attributes are more important to maintaining a successful relationship or do you think friendship maintains a relationship?:heart:


Friendship it a must for me, I don't care how gorgeous he is, that is going to fade and where will I be if he isn't my best friend.




:thumbsup: flowerforyou

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Sat 12/12/09 06:25 AM

So what's the consensus lately regarding how soon you meet someone?

Would you consider it a red flag if you talked to someone one evening for a few emails and exchanged pictures and they suddenly ask if you would like to go out?

If you do see some red flag material here...what is it?


Personally,I don't see any red flags based on what you posted.As well don't know how your e/mails went.I think the person truly just wants to meet you.Good Luck!!flowerforyou

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Sat 12/12/09 03:53 AM
Fred Flinstone mobile...it' looks like one..lol Black Aztec Rally, I do like the SUV. but miss my big girl truck.This is more practical.:thumbsup:

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Sat 12/12/09 03:37 AM
Whew...when reading this thread,I thought to myself,I'm so glad I never had to all this with my son(he's23).I didn't push my beliefs on school events.I let him get involved,and suported his choices.I am a christian,but let my son at an early age deside what works for him.And yes he chose to be a learning christian,and has an open mind to what others believe.But doesn't have to practice what others preach.

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Sat 12/12/09 03:14 AM
I think both single moms or dad, that are raising kids alone,have a great responsibility.And feel thats should be first.When dating for me a man that has children at home,as never been an issue.They have a mom...i'm not there to replace her.I have a son 23 he's in collage,been on his own for 5 years.So I do understand being a parent, with responsibilities.

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Sat 12/12/09 02:47 AM
Welcome to Mingle..Good Luck

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Fri 12/11/09 07:21 PM
I think she is just protecting herself,but it could be something you have said that gave her the feeling she needed a friend there.And guessing she wants to meet just not alone with you.See what happens.

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Fri 12/11/09 06:02 PM

Mine isn't one there! sad Guess I how I sleep is a combination of foetus and freefaller.


Me too... oh well could have worse traits,I guess

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Fri 12/11/09 05:55 PM
I like the forums here in general.If someone comes along the way of intrest...great.flowerforyou

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Fri 12/11/09 05:47 PM
Personally when I read all the neg posts, if I feel have some worthy comment,i'll reply.But my true thoughts are..heck my lifes really not that bad...i'm lucky I don't have thoses issues...but willing to be a good listener.Doesn't mean i'll agree with your thoughts..flowerforyou

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Fri 12/11/09 05:40 PM
Wow! great to see a man that can cook, as well as proud enough to post what they made..Good for you!!!(if you breath with your mouth when chopping onions, you don't tear...my great grands advice... works for me.....and no cheating with the nose or your ..well going to tear up..tears :thumbsup:

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Fri 12/11/09 07:44 AM
Great profile,nothing wrong with posting your longterm intents.

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Fri 12/11/09 06:36 AM

I would like to add most of the pics people do put up are 5+ years old...and 50lbs lighter...so until you actually meet them...lololol...most men have to have a physical attraction first...then the personality...jmo


Yes you may be right on the pics being posted.And I will agree, you need that physical attraction as well.I tend to change hair color shades,so I try and keep pics current.Or with in 6 months.

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Fri 12/11/09 06:27 AM

coffee 24x7!

$.02 drinker





Cheers!drinker

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Fri 12/11/09 06:04 AM
Hello and Welcome
Not everyone has a current pic.If you join the forums you'll get a feel what some are like,as well they can get to know you.Personality does count more right???Beside 20 yrs from now no one looks the same,but the personality usually stays consistant.

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Fri 12/11/09 04:09 AM
I use to have friends over often for dinner.Lets say 3 /4 times a week.I hate eating alone...what I have found is men over eat,because they don't get homecooking often.
Also I have a few that even ask for leftovers,usually thats my single g/f's...
Then you have the couples that come over, now they bring their adult kids.They don't ask they just show up, eat and leave.
Makes me truly wonder where manors apply??
For myself when invited for a free meal,I was raised to take in to consideration how many at the table,if everyone will get some, on the serving i'm taking.
As for all you can eat places,I take only what I can eat..i'm not wasteful.And No I don't gorge.

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Fri 12/11/09 03:56 AM
bad habits:
1)drink to much coffee
2)smoke cigs(I like smoking)and yes I know it's bad for you..duh
3)when laughing to hard ,I have made snort noises..can't help it..lol
4)always cook for 6, and have to give it away,my freezer is full.
5)alway to well stocked in pantry,you'd think I have a bomb shelter.
6)I talk a lot, but listen as well,my friends call me the cell phone killer.
7)I'm to giving,always helping people,when I know they can just help themself, and they are just to lazy..but i'm getting better with that one.

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Fri 12/11/09 03:23 AM
I just read your profile,seemed like it had good content,but you might want to leave out the negitive on woman,I'm sure it would help.Also right behind that your offering massages??.personally I'd ditch both comments.The rest of your profile looks good even with out a pic..