Your right where are they???
Seems most have been burnt and feel it will happen again, some like being a player,some like the idea more or better,some just want better then what they got rid of. Sort of sad that people have agendas with what they look for.Just be yourself!!

While adding honesty and communication...what about common sence, responsibility,ethics, values....are they so lost??? Usually if you fined a person with common sence, most likly you'll have all the other needs fulfilled as well.

I expected to see and read a bit of everything here...found that
As for friends, sure some nice chat friends.
People with common sence.....hmmmm ok a few.
Dating??? jurys out on that one yet, keep trying..ha
Relationship hhmmm have to find the trusted friend first and go from there....so possiable.

If fishies were wishes, hmmmm no net, just be darn sure of your wish with your fish, i'm not greedy.

I tend to read profiles as well as join the forums.Seem many times what someone typed in their profile,is far from the truths of their actions, when posting in forums.
Haven't been here for about a month.
So thought I'd mingle back again.

hello and welcome

Welcome!!

Hello and Welcome,
From a middle aged average person.

I have come across a few that lie to be lying.I'm sure there are just as many woman as men.

What I hate is they ask for more pics,and I'm thinking hmm I have 7 and you have maybe 1,hmmmm.Most have cell phones they can sent to computer, so no one has any excuse.

But my thoughts are deception right off the start. Or red flags flying.

True tail signs...You are always responsible for your actions.
Only you can correct them.
And other to deside if your worthy.
Live and learn from your mistakes, take ownership,repair and go on.
You have to be worthy of yourself.

but that doesn't mean you still can't be a coffee friend.

I'm a christian, so that pretty much means huge conflict.So no

Yes take time to listen better, and depend more to my gut instincts.

Aww tough question.But my first thought was this.

Hold you for all tomarrows,for tomarrows never come,because we have another tomarrow.

A player to me, either male or female.
Someone thats after,sex,material things,or money.They will do or tell you what you like to hear.To get what they want.And then on to the next,when they are finished with you.

Sort of like a revolving shoe rack,Try on, then on to the next.And your tossed in the heap.

I was married,and together 26 yrs. Married is Married/Divorced is Divorced.Took me over 1 yr for my divorce,but it was mutual.You know those lawyers..sheesh.

I didn't date, until the gable dropped in court, i'm married still.
Reason why is out of respect for my x, but more for myself.

For me only, I can't live with the idea, someone may class that as cheating, and still married.

Fresh as apple pie here!
Went to bed early,Got up early...feeling great!

That was a wonderful movie...I have given that movie as an add on to wedding gifts... hopefully they got the message.

Hello and Welcome,
I'm from southern Wis, south of Madison.Join the forums there are a few here from Wis.

ok..took memos for when I get to 60,Someone will have to remind me where I put it then ok...or do I leave it in my will?

OHHHH your a saint ty ty ty