My parents were 15 years apart, and my Dad got sick and died a long time before my mom.. She was alone a very long time.. That's just them, but age is more than a number it's years.

Odds are not in your favor, but that doesn't mean you can't be happy with what you have right now - as long as that is enough.

I am guessing, again, if everything was perfect you would not be on a dating site asking for advice.

If you ask for opinions, not everyone will tell you what you want to hear.

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Set phone to Sleepytime music, check all the lights and doors, brush teeth, wash face, and go night night.

Not my goal, but it does seem to work out that way sometimes.



Same thing M-F , 7-4, Work.

This is very relative to what the mistake was, and who we are talking about.

The app can be slow for me too, vs the web site.

Keep in mind it's FREE --- and I think it works better than the other freebies out there.

I think people should date who they want to date - regardless.

That being said, I was married to a "Tejano, Latino, Hispanic" (pick a term)... man for 15+ years, and race came up a LOT during our marriage.

There were issues with some of his family, and friends as well as him. I had to listen to derogatory statements being made about my own race, as if I wasn't sitting there, or as if I wasn't white.

So - at this point in my life it would be one thing to date someone of another race, but never again would I wish to date someone with racial issues. Does that exist?

...at my age, forever just might be possible


Does infinity exist ...




As a concept, yes it does; with regards to a relationship - I don't know.

Sourdough ciabatta, ham, roast beef, turkey breast, salami, bacon, lettuce, tomato, olives, cucumber, oil & vinegar, touch of mayo and honey mustard.... I think they already call this a club.

But my point is this.

If a "nice guy" with average looks feels entitled to seek out the "hot and glamorous" women out there, and reject the more "average looking " women with great personalities, then why are they so surprised and critical of the "hot/glamorous" women who reject the "nice guy" with average looks in favor of the "hot alpha" male. Is it not the same principle of PREFERENCE at play?



Thank you! I have always wanted to ask that question, regarding this topic.

I think your point is well made!

It's a little true about the English language thing - and not necessarily because the girl is a grammar Nazi --- the bottom line is -

There are a LOT of scammers on free dating sites (no fault to the admin., I can't imagine how they can police such a thing)...

So, men and women - I'm sure - look for clues to try and guess if the person sending them a message is real / genuine, or someone looking for financial gain.

No offense to those from other countries, but certainly if someone sends me a message claiming to be local but types very broken English - I have to wonder if they are telling me the truth.

Since there are so many, most times I just block and move on - I don't even bother to reply. It's my loss if someone was actually sincere, local, etc.

Good Morning, & Happy Halloween!

Love it!

I would guess, and that's all I can do - since I don't know you or him.

He is afraid you will dump him for a younger man - the only question is when.

The outcome of this is going to tell the average person living in the USA how much the voice of the people has on the government and big money.

To me this is not just about the native Americans, it's about the rights of the average person over the will of government and the money machine that controls it.

Thanks Mike, very kind of you to say..

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