Ugh if it's free then why is no1 replying. I don't talk about my dick or say hey baby I'm literally bored af and don't know anyone where I live

You have been here for one day.. what did you expect.. instant replies?.

That's coz they're all currently dead

Idk on tinder n stuff they did but true ur right

It depends on what your messages are like. Are you just saying "hi", "how are you" or "I like you", you're not likely to get many responses.

And I'm not sure of the pool in your area on here. But it could be like mine and all of them are no longer active.

If you'll ask a girl like me, I rarely reply to people saying " I like you " you're beautiful , hi ... it's all nonsense! I'm more interested to someone who read my intro, that way I'll know who's really genuine. :))

idk. it could be the gun talk and the graveyard photo ?
i don't think many women go for that stuff...

anyway welcome to mingle....good luck

Dude, you just joined this website.
Also, others aren't logged into this website 24/7.
You have to have patience.

I'm the new kid on the block here so my opinion may not mean much, but, There is life outside of this website and if you are that desperate to get into a relationship, Not many people will write you and they may not have a high opinion of you. I am sure there is someone meant for you, but, like others have said, you have to wait a time and don't sweat it like you are.

Argo, I was thinking the same thing quite honestly!

what if someone would rather get to know you personally vs just reading a bunch of facts about you.....

Yes absolutely right

You have to write a beautiful masterpiece of a message with all the right words in it and without any mistakes of English language or typos for your message to have a chance to even be opened, no guarantees it'll even be read, though.
And if it is read, the woman at the other end would probably characterise your message as "too good to be true" and discard it.
So let's recap.
If your message is too simple = discarded.
If it is too elaborated = discarded.
Conclusion: You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't.
So don't waste your time. Don't massage anyone until they message you first.

Lol.
You just have to keep on hoping for the best. Hahaha

It's a little true about the English language thing - and not necessarily because the girl is a grammar Nazi --- the bottom line is -

There are a LOT of scammers on free dating sites (no fault to the admin., I can't imagine how they can police such a thing)...

So, men and women - I'm sure - look for clues to try and guess if the person sending them a message is real / genuine, or someone looking for financial gain.

No offense to those from other countries, but certainly if someone sends me a message claiming to be local but types very broken English - I have to wonder if they are telling me the truth.

Since there are so many, most times I just block and move on - I don't even bother to reply. It's my loss if someone was actually sincere, local, etc.

AMEN.....