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If you are seeing someone and you find out that person is carrying on an online flirting relationship with some other person 500 miles away is that cheating? If your dating partner doesnt get sexual but just keeps the flirting to the forums does that make a difference in whether or not its cheating? If cows could fly would you have to scrape cottage cheese off your car after parking under a tree? ==============================part 2 All right Im going to add more to this op question. I travel a lot and I have a couple of boyfriends that are far away. We met in person while I was traveling not on a dating site. I am curious if I flirt with guys on mingle forums if my boyfriends might get offended. Should I tell them I an here? I am afraid they would make an account and start drama. Is online forum flirting even real? Flirting with anyone when the first party thinks you are in a relationship is wrong. You not only hurt everyone involved by breaking their confidence in themselves, their trust in you, and your credibility as being an honorable person you are betraying your self respect. Don't expect to end up with a good mate if you can not BE a good mate. Do I think talking in forums on a date site is flirting? Depends what you say and how you say it. I do think it puts the burden on you to prove that is is only fellowship and not flirting. I am not sure I would mess up something promising by just proveing you can get attention. They are not serious relationships you have to read the follow up post to see me saying that. The men know that I see other guys and they knew it when I started the relationships. What they didnt know was that I was going to get online. |
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(two up) yes like Mr Big but they kissed so that was different.
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Not to me. A boyfriend is any guy that I kiss on the lips often. I do other things but thats the minimum. If Im lip kissing a guy then we are boyfriend girlfriend. I dont even lip kiss the guys who are just friends with benefits because Lip kissing in not a benefit. you'll have sex with a guy who's nothing but a friend, but refuse to allow him to kiss you?? wow! WOW!! thank God i'm of another generation. Its called a friend with benefits. You never watched sex in the city? |
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Edited by
Stacy1987
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Thu 11/27/08 12:12 AM
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(4 up) One minute you are making fun of me and the next minute you are being nice so where do I put you on my naughty and nice list?
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if you aint with just one person. it aint any kind of relationship at all.but too all there own It is what it is no matter how you define it. You can call my relationship whatever you wish but nothing changes what the guys and I do together. |
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First...I have a question about your Part 2 Question: Do all your boyfriends know about eachother? Only 2 boyfriends. One guy knows because he is all laid back. The other guy doesnt know anything. I guess I better not tell him about the forums then. I only see the guys a few times a year when I travel to them or they travel to me. Im not ready to settle down with one guy right now because there are way too many guys out there in the world that I might like. I consider what you are calling boyfriends are men that you are dating. To me a boyfriend is someone that is the only man in my life. Not to me. A boyfriend is any guy that I kiss on the lips often. I do other things but thats the minimum. If Im lip kissing a guy then we are boyfriend girlfriend. I dont even lip kiss the guys who are just friends with benefits because Lip kissing in not a benefit. |
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Scenario: you are in a fullfilling relationship . Why would you spend time in virtual world when real world is right there . I think time spent away from your significant other is either one of two things , Shopping for something other than you have . Or escape into fantasy . Either one makes me think it's a kind of cheating , with time more than anything else . Hmmm I wonder if I made my case ? You didnt read all the post in the thread (and I understand, why would you, too much about nothing). I am not in an exclusive relationship. Im in two fun relationships and I dont want to mess up my fun. |
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Now that you mention it, there was a mindy whose posts were quite similar. Things that make you go hmmm.... I have been reading these forums off and on (with my room mates profile) and I dont remember seeing her. I havent read much in the last week but Ive read a lot so what was her screen name?  Well, that explains it then. Im convinced  Whatever floats your boat. This thread isnt about her so she can go make her own blonde thread if she needs arrention. This threads about what I forgot. |
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Edited by
Stacy1987
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Wed 11/26/08 11:53 PM
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Let me guess, Mindy is another blonde forum poster thats young and likes to flirt. Is she from Kansas too? i was thinking that maybe she was the roomate you said you helped with 'snooty posts' as you mentioned in another thread. Toto!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Toto? How many times do you think Ive heard that one? 
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Now that you mention it, there was a mindy whose posts were quite similar. Things that make you go hmmm.... I have been reading these forums off and on (with my room mates profile) and I dont remember seeing her. I havent read much in the last week but Ive read a lot so what was her screen name? |
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Let me guess, Mindy is another blonde forum poster thats young and likes to flirt. Is she from Kansas too? i was thinking that maybe she was the roomate you said you helped with 'snooty posts' as you mentioned in another thread. My room mates names not Mindy. Are you saying that Mindy lives in Kansas too so thats why you thought she was my roommate? We need to move. |
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Topic:
Cartoons as pictures.
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(one up) When I first saw the one you have now I thought you were a female. I have heard that a couple of times. Unfortunately...Snoopy never opened an advice stand....lmao Also....keep in mind that had you looked at it a little closer....it does say JustAGuy2112 above the " Doctor Is In " part. :-) I did notice. A girl pic and a guy name but it didnt matter at the time, not until you said bondage bear. 
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Topic:
Cartoons as pictures.
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(one up) When I first saw the one you have now I thought you were a female. BY the way...just a hint.... The best way to let people know you are referring to their post is to hit the " Quote " at the bottom of the post. :-) I know. I use quotes usually but not always because over quoting makes the page too long. |
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but the young ones are always seeking to much attention Its not too much until you lead the local news. yea i can see it now.. blondy gets in trouble with someone she met online as where she being attach by the guys wife I tell guys that I dont date married men. I know the guy could lie but I dont date liars either.  Thats very wise of you Mindy.I feel the same way. Let me guess, Mindy is another blonde forum poster thats young and likes to flirt. Is she from Kansas too? |
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Shame shame. Married men need love too. thats why they have a wife |
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LOL Mirror! I hate inside jokes.
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Topic:
Cartoons as pictures.
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(one up) When I first saw the one you have now I thought you were a female.
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Topic:
Cartoons as pictures.
Edited by
Stacy1987
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Wed 11/26/08 11:38 PM
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(addressing two up) A bondage bear would make me click because its an unusual pic. The one you have now is just an average cartoon that fits the forums but does nothing for those searching the profiles looking for a guy.
Bondage bear Just you mentioning it got me to click your profile. okat I saw that bondage bear and  that would so make me click. (addressing one up) Okay then? |
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but the young ones are always seeking to much attention Its not too much until you lead the local news. yea i can see it now.. blondy gets in trouble with someone she met online as where she being attach by the guys wife I tell guys that I dont date married men. I know the guy could lie but I dont date liars either. |
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but the young ones are always seeking to much attention Its not too much until you lead the local news. |
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