my thoughts? finger nails not more then a quarter an inch past the end of the finger, trimmed nicely polished ( taken care of) my yourself not a nail salon. as for the feet. shorter in length of course but taken care of. Painting is an option for that. Hey I even have set down and painted ladies toes before. No biggie to me.
Some ladies need pedicures, some don't.

I don't do grass... cutting..... or flower beds anymore .. all that is planted comes back every year. so that ends those problems.

Blackberry cobbler with french vanilla ice cream and a cup of coffee.

figures a woman would say that! what happened to being honest? and just say no thanks I am not interested in you. so don't bother to contact me again... the "it's me not you" is like telling someone they have a chance still. Maybe he can win you over?... go for the truth here



sorry mschrissy

Where I live we are not supposed to have pets. But everyone does. BUT I do not have any pets. Have no desire to have pets either . To me there are a nusiance. Always trying to find someone to take care of them when you have to go somewhere, like vacations or even for a weekend getaway.

I enjoy the fact that I can just go at any time I want. besides there are the vet bills, food and from what I have seen of some people they are attached at the hip with their pets. I had 5 horses at one time and that as any horse owner will tell you is costly and hard work.

your problem as I see it is this... you have expectations.. and when it doesn't happen you want to know why.. The first woman is probably a habitual dater knowing she can have a night out with any man she so chooses. cut and run I say with her.

the second one? well what can I say you yourself said it your both overweight? so is it possible you have double standards? sounds like it to me. JMO

Oh boy , can't wait to see how this works out for him..... better check back in , ooohhh let's say 20 years and see how he made out with that concept?

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Buy the mobile home park I live in, get a franchise resturaunt ( olive garden)( Red Lobster) in the town nearest to me. after I paid off all my bills of course , This is so that It will continue to be an income... Give enough to my closest family members to help them. Lots to charities, none to churches. Don't believe in "church doctrines" set up food programs for the poor elderly, and help them. and the list goes and goes..

yes wish I could be in love again... yes I miss loving someone. and no I don't know that love isn't for me. because I know just how much it means to me.

yeah I have wondered why that happens.. so one day while trying to figure it all out.. I quit my good paying job and retired. said screw all those idiots. Now I am happy because I don't have to deal with any of it. some hated me, admired me loved me.. so what I come first now.


there is that old adage you can please some of the people some of the time and most of the people most of the time but you can never please all the people all the time... so why even try?

come on I am still waiting to hear your side of this "how many times" their own support group makes me think 5-8 times.

whoop there it is... misery and for the record. 2 of the three marriages I had were not my fault for ending. adultry/ and one couldn't do anything with out mommy's approval.. the one was my fault I gave up on it.

I am 60 and feel like 35. or somedays like 12

cook woman... its cheaper

I tend to over think things I guess. I just know about who I am. And I do understand the love of your child being priority. Others will come and go.. But your child is a part of you always.

Not saying anybodys choice is wrong here.. of course after a divorce I would say my son. With out hesitation. But if I am dedicated to someone and love them as deeply as I know I can?. Someone I would willingly die for. Then it makes it a hard choice.. nothing can ever replace my son And I can never have another.. But I would rather die for the ones I love then to see one of them die.

very very little make upor none at all... to many women I see , I have to ask others .."is the circus in town? the clowns are here"

both in lewe of my life. If your willing to be with someone, love them and be willing to die for them and lose them you would be unhappy if you lost them , either one. ..Yet I wouldn't want them to be unhappy either.


tough choice huh?

3 times

first one was 4 years younger had 1 child from that marriage, 12 years

second one was 12-13 years younger , no children, 13 years no children

third, 25 years younger, married 6 years together 8years, no children




would I do it again? sure.