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Topic: Who Would You Save....
beautyfrompain's photo
Fri 04/24/09 04:30 PM
from dying if you had to make a choice: your spouse or your child?

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Fri 04/24/09 04:33 PM
My child

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 04/24/09 04:34 PM
my child without a doubt...

njmom05's photo
Fri 04/24/09 04:34 PM
My child without a doubt

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 04/24/09 04:34 PM

My child without a doubt


:laughing: jinx!

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Fri 04/24/09 04:47 PM
I would probally,die,trying to save, them both.ohwell tears

TBRich's photo
Fri 04/24/09 04:48 PM
My child

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Fri 04/24/09 04:50 PM


My child without a doubt


:laughing: jinx!

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crazysillygirl's photo
Fri 04/24/09 05:05 PM
my child of course!!!!

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Fri 04/24/09 05:07 PM
No question there. My child.

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Fri 04/24/09 05:20 PM
both in lewe of my life. If your willing to be with someone, love them and be willing to die for them and lose them you would be unhappy if you lost them , either one. ..Yet I wouldn't want them to be unhappy either.


tough choice huh?

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Fri 04/24/09 05:24 PM

both in lewe of my life. If your willing to be with someone, love them and be willing to die for them and lose them you would be unhappy if you lost them , either one. ..Yet I wouldn't want them to be unhappy either.


tough choice huh?


DD I think we go into relationships and have children knowing that the children come first.. If a child doesn't then what kind of parent are we? As I answered I would know and expect that my spouse would answer the same (were I to have a spouse that is)...

The harder question for me would be saving a parent or child and of course it'd be the child but I'd feel like I betrayed my parents... But they raised me that way and would have chosen their children as well....

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Fri 04/24/09 05:28 PM


both in lewe of my life. If your willing to be with someone, love them and be willing to die for them and lose them you would be unhappy if you lost them , either one. ..Yet I wouldn't want them to be unhappy either.


tough choice huh?


DD I think we go into relationships and have children knowing that the children come first.. If a child doesn't then what kind of parent are we? As I answered I would know and expect that my spouse would answer the same (were I to have a spouse that is)...

The harder question for me would be saving a parent or child and of course it'd be the child but I'd feel like I betrayed my parents... But they raised me that way and would have chosen their children as well....


Not saying anybodys choice is wrong here.. of course after a divorce I would say my son. With out hesitation. But if I am dedicated to someone and love them as deeply as I know I can?. Someone I would willingly die for. Then it makes it a hard choice.. nothing can ever replace my son And I can never have another.. But I would rather die for the ones I love then to see one of them die.

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Fri 04/24/09 05:32 PM



both in lewe of my life. If your willing to be with someone, love them and be willing to die for them and lose them you would be unhappy if you lost them , either one. ..Yet I wouldn't want them to be unhappy either.


tough choice huh?


DD I think we go into relationships and have children knowing that the children come first.. If a child doesn't then what kind of parent are we? As I answered I would know and expect that my spouse would answer the same (were I to have a spouse that is)...

The harder question for me would be saving a parent or child and of course it'd be the child but I'd feel like I betrayed my parents... But they raised me that way and would have chosen their children as well....


Not saying anybodys choice is wrong here.. of course after a divorce I would say my son. With out hesitation. But if I am dedicated to someone and love them as deeply as I know I can?. Someone I would willingly die for. Then it makes it a hard choice.. nothing can ever replace my son And I can never have another.. But I would rather die for the ones I love then to see one of them die.


I understand and agree except.... You married and loved them and were devoted to them now you feel the way you do b/c of divorce... So my point is, there are "others" that we can and will love... I think "love" is something we think we're in until it's over, but the love for our children is undying and unconditional... Not picking on your answer, it's just that your answer brought another perspective or a deeper one to elaborate on.. happy

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Fri 04/24/09 05:38 PM




both in lewe of my life. If your willing to be with someone, love them and be willing to die for them and lose them you would be unhappy if you lost them , either one. ..Yet I wouldn't want them to be unhappy either.


tough choice huh?


DD I think we go into relationships and have children knowing that the children come first.. If a child doesn't then what kind of parent are we? As I answered I would know and expect that my spouse would answer the same (were I to have a spouse that is)...

The harder question for me would be saving a parent or child and of course it'd be the child but I'd feel like I betrayed my parents... But they raised me that way and would have chosen their children as well....


Not saying anybodys choice is wrong here.. of course after a divorce I would say my son. With out hesitation. But if I am dedicated to someone and love them as deeply as I know I can?. Someone I would willingly die for. Then it makes it a hard choice.. nothing can ever replace my son And I can never have another.. But I would rather die for the ones I love then to see one of them die.


I understand and agree except.... You married and loved them and were devoted to them now you feel the way you do b/c of divorce... So my point is, there are "others" that we can and will love... I think "love" is something we think we're in until it's over, but the love for our children is undying and unconditional... Not picking on your answer, it's just that your answer brought another perspective or a deeper one to elaborate on.. happy
I tend to over think things I guess. I just know about who I am. And I do understand the love of your child being priority. Others will come and go.. But your child is a part of you always.flowerforyou

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Fri 04/24/09 05:39 PM
I have neither but I could imagine I would try to die in their place.

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 04/24/09 05:55 PM

I have neither but I could imagine I would try to die in their place.


That works IF your spouse is their parent and you can trust them to raise your child.. Otherwise I'd stick around to make sure my child was raised the way he should be...

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Fri 04/24/09 06:15 PM
My child & then perform CPR on my wife......Check pockets repeatedlybigsmile

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Fri 04/24/09 06:55 PM



..hmmm let me see now..i have to make a choice...well the ole lady's been on the rag lately...hmmm the kid has been a bit of a smartazz lately...let me think...let me think...anyone got a coin...laugh jk

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Fri 04/24/09 06:56 PM




..hmmm let me see now..i have to make a choice...well the ole lady's been on the rag lately...hmmm the kid has been a bit of a smartazz lately...let me think...let me think...anyone got a coin...laugh jk


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