Which one? I'm fairly attached to each of them!

Nope, I'm a klutz and I lay claim to all the scars I've got. Since I can't change me, I've found myself fantasizing about hitting the "reset button"; sell everything and disappear with no forwarding address, maybe a different country.

Thankyou :)

Are you asking if I wished I were someone else?

Its the sole reason I'm on here. Its a mood killer story, so I'll tell it some other time.

My father looks younger than he is. When I grow my beard, I easily look my age or just a little older.. when I shave my face many of my co-workers get confused and think I'm a new intern lol.

I'm wearing a kilt with shoulder holster and 1911. what's odd about my name?

Dangerous question in mixed company. I would have set the alarm earlier on July 3rd, 2007.

Can't miss me, I'm the one in the red hat!

Am I the only one that read this and though "But you can just eat the icing off"...

all humor aside, I find I need to have some sort of attraction to someone to go out on a date with them... the date is to find out of there's something meaningful behind the attraction.

Alright, time for me to get down and dirty with some info. I had this arrangement a while ago (2004) after coming out of a bad relationship. What happened was simple; I had a crush on the girl earlier (I'm loyal to no exception, so I made no moves even while in a bad relationship where the other person wasn't so loyal); after that fell apart I started hanging out with the person more often. One major ice storm later and a comfy fire, she starts making some moves. One things leads to another and she lays down the fwb clause. Things progress for a few months, lots of booty, and hell, this was a serious ego boost after watching my 3 year relationship fall apart. Then it gets weird. I'm a stubborn SOB, I'll stick to any contract until its renegotiated, but she started developing emotions for me.

Long story short, she introduced me to my wife. I was the innocent bystander as my fwb tried to hook up with my (future) wife and used me as the bait, and while my (future) wife used my fwb as bait to get me in the sac.

Morale of the story: someone always gets attached, and this is the make or break point.

Alas, due to tragic circumstances I'm back on here, trying to keep my head above board and return back to the noble / knightly / boy scout way of life :) Good luck to everyone else in the endeavours!

I'm not rub'n it in!

Thanks for the compliment, Fran! When I swam all the time, and some times in the summer, they are a grey blue, almost silver.

Nothing like being 6'1" to not worry about women in heals :)

One thing I learned from the first time, always get tested after (and hell, during) a relationship. Its an honest thing to do for your potential next partners and your own health. So if you don't think you were cheated on, do it anyway - piece of mind.

Yes to an extent. I didn't spread anything around, but her friends found out about it and it went down hill from there. She ended up losing friends. Family? They really liked me, but you know the saying about blood and water.

Good luck and welcome!

updated with more pictures from my hat collection... seriously, I love fedoras, and no, I'm not bald.

So I know I missed the topic a little, so here's my 2c. Yes, I think its a problem when they list "sex" as an interests... who isn't interested in that? However, if you are only on here for that, then I guess its good its listed first because it helps to weed out those here for general dating / relationship building.

Yes. I have a fun little rivalry with my father in law and uncle. Big? Probably not terribly big, not as big as the GaTech v. Uga game this week! Last time we won against them, I was still in college time to go back for that phd I've been wanting.

Damn. How the heck could I miss that! I hope gatech doesn't want my degree back for my epic geek fail.