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Topic: Friends with benefits?
CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:16 AM
Someone I know here is thinking about proposing it to someone. I wrote an "indecent proposal" letter for someone once and she got what she wanted.

SOOOOO ...

Have you ever come right out and asked someone for such an arrangement - by email OR verbally?

Try to keep it clean ... but help me convince her to "just do it!" pitchfork

Tazz42's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:27 AM

Someone I know here is thinking about proposing it to someone. I wrote an "indecent proposal" letter for someone once and she got what she wanted.

SOOOOO ...

Have you ever come right out and asked someone for such an arrangement - by email OR verbally?

Try to keep it clean ... but help me convince her to "just do it!" pitchfork




CB< just forward the letter to her!!!!!


And for the lucky lady about to discover the "benefits" it is a great idea....but make sure that neither of you are going to loose site of the Friends part of it!

CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:30 AM
I sent her the letters already Tazzy .. She has two from which to choose.

Where's Gloria Steinem when you need her? noway

cosmeticxeyes's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:31 AM
it didn't work out so well for me. i had one arrangement like that and because we were friends, he felt like he'd hurt my feelings if he told me he'd found someone he was genuinely interested in. in turn, i lost a friend.

Tazz42's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:32 AM

I sent her the letters already Tazzy .. She has two from which to choose.

Where's Gloria Steinem when you need her? noway




There's always Dr. Ruth!!!

CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:45 AM
I understand they don't work out always and it sucks. I'm trying to find out about the circumstances in which people ASKED for it. (ie: Was there rejection, success, awkwardness, what?)

I think to do an FWB, you need to pick an occasional sort of friend on your periphery and not someone central to your life. This way, if you lose him/her, it won't be AS painful.

CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:46 AM
Is it too late for you and I Tazz?? :tongue: flowerforyou love

Tazz42's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:48 AM

Is it too late for you and I Tazz?? :tongue: flowerforyou love



You would have to mud wrestle (naked) with Salmonstalker and then I may have to decide afterwards!drool drool drool drool

krupa's photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:52 AM
Friends with benefits can be a good arrangement as long as both parties are on the same page....it is especieally useful when your friend will approach a potential love on your behalf and encourage the hook up......Helped my good friend get married that way....in turn she got me more *ss while out clubbing than should be allowed!

no photo
Wed 11/26/08 10:59 AM
Friends With Benefits

sounds like something high school/college age people do
noway what whoa

no photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:03 AM

Friends With Benefits

sounds like something high school/college age people do
noway what whoa



I'm thinking everyone who has posted is out of high school and college.

I don't have anything to add to this though, cause I've never asked someone about this kind of situation.

CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:11 AM

Friends With Benefits

sounds like something high school/college age people do
noway what whoa



I agree. I don't want to grow up, I'm a Toys 'R Us kid. drinker

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:13 AM
AW CB....

I wanted to do FWB with Cowboy Cop....and I am usually so opposed to it.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:15 AM
I am still waiting for someone to offer me one million dollars for one night with me.rant rant rant laugh laugh laugh

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:20 AM
laugh laugh Like Robert Redford? laugh laugh

You do like blondes now... okay....

buttons's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:21 AM
Ive done it once is that you want to hear?laugh

CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:21 AM
Edited by CleanBathroom on Wed 11/26/08 11:22 AM

AW CB....

I wanted to do FWB with Cowboy Cop....and I am usually so opposed to it.


We need an entirely autonomous forum to address your issues Lilith! laugh laugh

Want IM sex or is it too early there? pitchfork :tongue: laugh

GOOF: Will ya' take a check?

Tazz42's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:23 AM

I am still waiting for someone to offer me one million dollars for one night with me.rant rant rant laugh laugh laugh




I have a post dated check....drool

lilith401's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:23 AM
I'm on EST silly....laugh

But at work for the next ten minutes then heading out...

CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 11/26/08 11:25 AM

I'm on EST silly....laugh

But at work for the next ten minutes then heading out...


I know. I was being facetious.

So that's a yes I guess? laugh

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