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Mon 11/10/08 05:41 PM

Thanks for the insight.

To the ladies who feel like a 'piece of meat'. Think of yourself as a prime cut :)

Be assured that you are not - and neither are men. Most of us are sentient beings - and are just seeking human contact and comfort.



So well said, I agree that we are sentient beings. But I want the cuddling,the holding, and the affection side more than men. How do you feel about this?

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Mon 11/10/08 06:42 AM
romantic, caring, loyal, affectionate, spoils me with his actions and words, educated,& masculine

I live in reality and this man is a fantasy, he does not exist.

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Sat 11/08/08 05:53 PM
I work in health care and see the problems discussed here every day.
I live in rural TN and the population is poor and 90% is on Tenncare a state run health insurance.
I see that those 90% do not need the medical care they are receiving most are mentally ill and make thereselves sick physically.
80% are on hydrocodone and klonopin (pain and nerve pills) and they do not need them.
It's the poor working class like myself that needs affordable healthcare.
The mess that national healthcare is in will take decades to fix. I will not be here when that happens just have to make the best of it.
I will use ER only for real emergencies and pray my health is good.
I am diabetic but my levels are good.
Just something to think about


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Fri 11/07/08 05:22 AM
That we know we are not perfect, we are nurturing, romantic and our emotions & feeligns are so different from men

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Thu 11/06/08 02:38 PM
Ok I hope more men comment on this "meat" thing.
Men look at women like a piece of hanging meat to eat us. Oh my goodness this makes me never want to have sex again.
I hope to goodness this is just your opinion on sex and not the typical male's view.

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Thu 11/06/08 04:05 AM
I appreciate this post. Because so many guys want the barbie doll on this site. They list you cant be overweight. Well I have found that most of the guys posting this are not all that when it comes to a gut or looks.
Its what in the heart that counts. My heart is huge just waiting for the man to come along that appreciates me for me.
Very hard to find almost impossible.
Sometimes I loose faith and hope.
But I like the forums on here and ya'll are great thanks for posting that it has made my fat butt ha ha feel better about myself

No perfect barbie here just sincere and loving

Gentlefaith

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Thu 11/06/08 03:59 AM
Hi Marie
I went thru almost the same thing as you have with my previous job. I didnt get along with my boss she was very intimated by me I dont know why I am a people lover and have no enemies.
But she made my life a living hell. I was called into the human resources office to explain our working relationship she lied about everything and since she was the "boss" I ended up being humilated. I quit that job due to stress and panic attacks. I now have a better job still stressful but nothing like trying to deal with her everyday. I make less money but I get along with my boss now.
Just hang on you are going thru alot right now with your dad and job i took care of my daddy when he was going thru his cancer. I worked full time had 2 small children and was his caregiver.
It is really hard but you are such a strong woman you can do this.
I am thinking about you and wishing you only good things to happen in your life time heals alot.
Love ya and appreciate you
Terri

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Wed 11/05/08 03:26 PM
Dictator Obama PROMISED "change" for Americans. I see a socialist country coming as a form of his "change" for America.
I do not feel safe when another terrorist attack hits America.
At least McCain had the experience of being in the service to protect us when this happens again.
What experience does Obama possess? Just that he wants to end the war.
Our soldiers our mocked what a shame this country has come to elect such a dictator.

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Wed 11/05/08 03:07 PM
Marie you are in my thoughts and prayers.
You have always been there for me now I am here for you let me know if you need to vent talk pray i am here for you girl.


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Wed 11/05/08 05:21 AM
Wake me up when its over. It's really scary to be an American when Jan 09 arrives.
I fear for my safety against terrorists and for my paycheck becoming smaller and smaller.
Obama wolf in sheep's clothing! Socialist country is what we will be.
I so hope I am wrong

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Tue 11/04/08 07:03 PM


so whats up did any of you m/f find anyone you want to be with yet or are ya still looking????flowerforyou love ohwell


I have never met any one from this site. I have from other sites though. There are dry spells... and sometimes... well, when it rains it pours.

Internet dating has to be the scariest thing I have ever done. ( I am not scared easily either, I am a trucker and have had to spend the night in some places that can sare you gray!!! )

I have been on here, ( JSH/M2 ) for over a year.

It seems to be that people are either here to play games, or have such high expectations, that no-one could possibly live up to them.

I'm not quite sure why I keep my membership here, except for the excellent forums, this is the driest site I have ever belonged to... With one exception... E-Harmony... that place is expensive and in 2 months I didnt get one reply.

Being a BBW in the dating world is hard enough without the high expections of men who want a mature, sexy, baggage free, kid free, smoke free, alcohol free, Barbie-Doll model.

OK. I admit that sounded harsh. Not all men are like that, but I seem to run into a lot of them.


kat68 couldn't agree with you more on this topic.
I state on my profile no "barbie"perfection here just sincere. But still have had my share of "jerks" from here and other dating sites.
Some though have turned in to e mail friends and thats it they are too far away from me on this date.

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Tue 11/04/08 04:16 AM
Where I live men and women both use "hon" as a form of downhome affection and we all like it here. Guess its where your from. It's being nice. Better than saying hey you or #@$*. No one takes it as being disrespectful.
When I lived in Houston it wasnt used nor in Mississippi but here in Tennessee all the time.
Just affection ya'll

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Mon 11/03/08 06:46 AM
Like your response gave me some things to think about thank you!

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Mon 11/03/08 06:46 AM
thank you for reading my topic and responding it puts a whole new light on this subject.
I think he is just a jerk.

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Mon 11/03/08 05:42 AM
Why is it that a man is all gung ho when you first starting talking? You really click with each other and share much in common.
Then all of a sudden he quits talking to you and you did nothing to cause this. I am still the same person he was all gung ho over at first.

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Wed 10/29/08 06:09 AM
I am on several dating sites and they are all the same most men just want a one nite stand and to play games. I am giving up on these sites. Full of losers. And I have wrote on many posts here and started topics still no serious men interested.
Good luck

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Mon 10/27/08 05:42 PM
Edited by gentlefaith on Mon 10/27/08 05:44 PM

You're against Obama because...he says the right things?


No I am not against Obama because he says the right things? I am not against anyone.
I am just stating my opinion as everyone on this post does.

He only "says the right things" because he tells Americans what he thinks they want to hear.

The "right things" will be backed up with his actions once he is in office.
Time will tell!

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Mon 10/27/08 05:41 PM
Edited by gentlefaith on Mon 10/27/08 05:42 PM

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Mon 10/27/08 07:52 AM
I guess its because I am older and wiser ha ha
But in my younger dating days I would be someone else not my true self. Just to impress him.

Not these days I am me take me or leave me. I am not here to impress anyone.
Just taking life one day at a time.

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Mon 10/27/08 07:25 AM
Edited by gentlefaith on Mon 10/27/08 07:27 AM
After reading all the political posts on here and the different opinions expressed, I have come to the conclusion that as humans and Americans we agree to disagree on politics. Which is fine and normal. Just like in a relationship you are not totally agree with everything your partner does or says.
Personally Obama scares me with his views on "changing" America. I see him as a wolf in sheeps clothing, beneath his charsmatic charm and his eloquent speeches. During the debates and speeches given he always has the "right" things to say.The "right" answers to all of America's problems.
Humm he would make an excellent televanglist!
I hope I am wrong in my intutions.If not we have not seen the worst of economic times and downward spiraling of America.

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