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Age is just a number !
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age is a just a number what a crock of **** there's a certain look people get as they get older crinkles around the eyes skin starts to sag hair turns gray or falls out.. even body hair might be turning gray now ya might find someone older that keeps themselves in good shape and he might be a skinny guy..but as he ages he is gonna get that pancake flat behind and his skin will get that certain look that old people get but compared to a twenty year old? they have lost muscle mass and bone density there is not turning back time..reflexes and stamina are going to slow |
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* Some of us might remember the Bobbitt case 
* Lorena Bobbitt made headlines in 1993 after chopping off her husband John Wayne Bobbitt’s penis which resulted in a trial where she was found not guilty by reason of temporary insanity. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_and_Lorena_Bobbitt 
* Have you noticed how a couple that have been together for a very long time look and often act the same in thoughts and deeds. * Almost as if they are a mirror reflection of themselves. * Are You or I reflecting, the best person that you can be. 
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Well everyone has very strong ideas about what makes a person cheat. .... But what makes you stay faithful to your mate, through the times that you find them "unlikeable"... through the times when you arent feeling "magic" in the relationship etc If you've never succeeded at being faithful before, maybe you can refer to the people you know who have 
If you found the right person who loved you as much as you loved them, you would not want to hurt them. Cheating hurts the other person. I was lucky to have had a wonderful marriage. Lots of financial ups and downs. But we worked as a team to get us back on track. As the saying goes.. there is no "I" in team. We both loved and adored each other. It never crossed my mind to want someone else... I hope it was the same for him. So, the answer what made us both stayed faithful to each other, the answer is love. 
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where is my mr. right?
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It's so true what they say...stop looking and he will appear. Also he most likely isn't on a dating site
==========000 ((((dodges eggs)))) |
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That's quite a question. I have always stayed faithful to who I'm with. I guess my (gotta be careful with my wording on here) personal belief is that if I feel the need to cheat then I am no longer that interested in him. That's just how I am. I am definitely a one man woman.
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Well that just made a whole lot of sense
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So this is the first attempt I've made at online dating. A little background about me, I am a child at heart, I met my husband and I was a super social happy person, we have 2 awesome sons together. In ten years he never remember Christmas, a birthday, Mother's Day, anniversary... And I always made excuses "that's a guy thing for you" but he was what I now know to be verbally avusive which turned into physical abuse. I have finally gotten strong enough to part ways with him and everyone keeps telling me how I will meet a man who will cherish me blah blah blah. But I started to wonder- do men really do all that romantic stuff or is it just a thing from movies and books? And am I being selfish even looking? Should I wait til my kids are grown (they are 6 and 8) and would men be interested in a platonic first relationship... So many questions! Thank u for taking the time to read my ramble... I appreciate it :) |
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Is it so wrong
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That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me. I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse. Whatever doesn't turn you on, doesn't turn you on. I find it completely ridiculous and childish, that people can't respect your preferences. disagreeing doesn't mean disrespecting who are we to decide who someone else wants or doesn't want to date? we are the people to whom a question was posed,,,,lol is it so wrong? seems like a question to me a comment would just be,, I like white guys and perhaps fewer would respond,, I rarely do when people use the forums as their profile Who cares! |
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Is it so wrong
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Thanks all for replies. Seems certain few did not like my choices( shame on the bully replies) I now just block people who are ignorant and rude to me. I also have sent this topic to correct authorities so they can view the bitterness certain people dish out on here for others choices. I don't seek a mixed race relationships and don't need to be called a white whore or have sexual abuse given to me because of my choices. On this note I leave this topic for you to debate over. None of it changed my view in fact it made me more determine white only. |
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Is it so wrong
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I really don't know what the discussion is about, she like englishmen let her have her preferences why further discuss. Not sure why the post is been posted 
[/quote I totally concur with you....and as a compliment, you so well bring out a quality stipulated in your profile. My take...... This thread has turned to be personal and draws attention to self rather than the subject matter. Can we please let whatever happens in the inboxes remain what it is....personal and private? I respect the lady's preference or taste but please let's not be drawn to referee a match held in the inbox. I think I saw a caveat in the posting rules..... For records, scammers and fakes cut across all races. I had a nasty inbox incidence with a UK guy. He apologized later but not before I politely made him face his ugly ghosts! Character is the mark of a good man. It does not reside in racial genetics. Oh, no! With all due respect.....  
--------------------------------------------------------------------- ** ** Prejudice, racial discrimination, stereotype, racial profiling is often seen in closed unenlightened societies. 
* Individual personalities for a relationship should take preference. 
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bump However one looks at it....it is still my right and my business. |
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Is it so wrong
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That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me. I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse. Whatever doesn't turn you on, doesn't turn you on. I find it completely ridiculous and childish, that people can't respect your preferences. disagreeing doesn't mean disrespecting who are we to decide who someone else wants or doesn't want to date? we are the people to whom a question was posed,,,,lol |
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Is it so wrong
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That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me. I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse. Funny how women that won't date blacks, have no issue with sleeping with cousin Billybobdannyfrank. It's really funny when they decline a date, just as they're on the way to a tanning salon. 
It's p r e f e r e n c e .. not racism |
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Is it so wrong
Edited by
Candiapples
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Mon 05/16/16 08:40 PM
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That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me. I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse. No it is NOT wrong, to date who you want. And don't put up with the ' You must be racist ' b@llsg@t either. That is guilt manipulation. They hope.It will work.
Men have always gone for what they like, love, lust after. If you are attracted to some type & not others. Then that is just you being you. Start telling people to mind their own damn business. Just say " Your approval is NOT desired or required " 
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Is it so wrong
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Hey Blondie...I love this phrase " it's none of my business what people think of me"
Everyone is an individual and sadly people continually force their ideals and ideas on others. Do whatever the "H" you want! It's nobody's business |
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You have to care..... if an older woman goes with a younger man....she is a cougar.....if a guy goes with a younger woman, he's a dirty old man....lol....and some worse names too....just saying.. 
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The one that got away
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EenieMeanie Mine Moe
Catch a husband by the toe If he Hollars Let him go My mother said he was the one with the very most doe. Yeah right..... I still don't remember 
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The one that got away
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I was trying really hard to think of one. I guess nobody got away  
Or else I just don't remember, in which case it doesn't matter now 
Lucky you then i guess
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The one that got away
Edited by
Candiapples
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Mon 05/16/16 03:12 PM
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I was trying really hard to think of one. I guess nobody got away
Or else I just don't remember, in which case it doesn't matter now
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Age Gap
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I think in some ways it would matter ... as a older women I see some of these young guys ... and think ... ok he is way to young lmao but sure are nice looking ... and more then likely I would feel jealous all the time ... if in a relationship ... with them ... and I don't want that emotion... to old for that ****... so I would like to be somewhere in between with someone who wants to enjoy life with me ... and not have to think ...great... all he does is look at girls and women's *****... always looking for something more... then we would have ... so yep ... in some cases age will matter... |
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How good should sex be?
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Good enough to see him again
Better than chocolate
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