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Wed 09/24/14 05:31 PM

What are the ''QUATLITIES OF A GOOD WIFE''?
A good husband laugh

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Wed 09/24/14 05:31 PM

What are the ''QUATLITIES OF A GOOD WIFE''?
A good husband laugh

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Wed 09/24/14 04:55 PM

you gotta respect your girl, be loyal to her, be honest with her about everything and you gotta appreciate her all the time if you ask me
:thumbsup:

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Wed 09/24/14 04:47 PM

I have tried everything to keep a man happy. Doing all the housework, cooking for them, shopping for our food, and helping them with work, and of course in the bedroom. It seems that the more I do the more they want and when it's not enough they abuse. I have thought of course it must be the wrong guy so I have tried changing the guy for a different guy but it's always the same in the end. So what is the secret to keeping a man happy?

Don't become their mat. Its nice to do things for him but after while he loses respect for you.

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Wed 09/24/14 04:40 PM



what about a woman with plural men. if it's about economics and a better life. since people say the man is supposed to be the provider. why not have a woman be the queen bee.


Whatever arrangement you and they decide on. Just make sure you don't get into anything abusive.

I'd hate to see you more wounded.


^^^^^^ this is very kind.

I thought you were being facetious with your original topic so I was being a smart aleck. I apologize for that.

after reading further I understand the idea behind the question.
never having been involved in anything but a monogamous relationship, I could see the idea of being roomates but not of sharing a partner.

however, I do know of a family a couple of houses away from me for whom this has worked for almost 18 years.

I don't know the full circumstances only that he has his wife and concubine in the same household. for whatever reason, he had to become her protector.
the kids of both women were raised together all as equals.
so I guess if it's something that works for everyone and isn't harming anyone do whatever works for you.
"Willing" to try anything :)

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Wed 09/24/14 04:38 PM
Edited by Candiapples on Wed 09/24/14 04:40 PM



what about a woman with plural men. if it's about economics and a better life. since people say the man is supposed to be the provider. why not have a woman be the queen bee.


Whatever arrangement you and they decide on. Just make sure you don't get into anything abusive.

I'd hate to see you more wounded.


^^^^^^ this is very kind.

I thought you were being facetious with your original topic so I was being a smart aleck. I apologize for that.

after reading further I understand the idea behind the question.
never having been involved in anything but a monogamous relationship, I could see the idea of being roomates but not of sharing a partner.

however, I do know of a family a couple of houses away from me for whom this has worked for almost 18 years.

I don't know the full circumstances only that he has his wife and concubine in the same household. for whatever reason, he had to become her protector.
the kids of both women were raised together all as equals.
so I guess if it's something that works for everyone and isn't harming anyone do whatever works for you.
Oops!

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Mon 03/31/14 05:42 PM

.. yes you have to have confidence within yourself..
.. the Internet is a nice.. medium.. in which to gain that extra bit. of boosting up. so to speak.. complete strangers.. support your position your point of view.. on topics... they compliment you on ... your attributes... it helps your self esteem... you start feeling better about your own self... and then with this new found... confidence within yourself... you walk out your front door.. feeling great.. and it is reflected.. to those around you.. making you appear more attractive.. the type of person they would like to approach get to know better... and before you know it.. presto... you are dating somebody in your own city or town... someone real.. tangible.. and then you use your common sense... get to know all about them... slowly steadily.. building a real relationship... on trust. visual facts........... dating sites... are more to the point.. social sites.. really should just be used.. to help bolster your confidence... and your communication skills.... It is my opinion... you should always be able to find.. someone within your own region... the universe does not put things out of your reach.... so to speak....phD..flowerforyou

I agree very much with this. Reality is alot more fun as I see it :smile:

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Mon 03/31/14 05:15 PM

I'm not very reliant on books. If a guy i'm attracted to, isn't attracted back, then I move on. I can't make one love me.

This :smile:

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Mon 03/31/14 03:33 PM


It is so fake... pretending to have a conversation when all we are really thinking about is having sex with each other. That is what it all comes down to anyway.

You miss the important part.
It is the conversation that makes them want it with you.
No convo=no happy ending.

Hmmm! reminds me of massages and Happy Endings bigsmile

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Mon 03/31/14 03:30 PM


You would do great back in the cave man days

The men sniffed the crotch of the women, roughly bent them over and went about their business..then clubbed her over the head when he was finished laugh


they dragged the women to the right spot by their hair, too...and i think the clubbing came before the sex, like nowadays...

laugh Naw I'm prety sure it was afterwards..who wants to bleep a wet noodle? That way she won't complain about how selfish he is spock

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Mon 03/31/14 03:10 PM
You would do great back in the cave man days

The men sniffed the crotch of the women, roughly bent them over and went about their business..then clubbed her over the head when he was finished laugh

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Sun 03/30/14 12:49 PM
Sitting here enjoying my early afternoon coffee since I woke up late.

I think this topic was started as a joke

I took my pic off for awhile once and never got viewed, put it back and the views, the friend adds and nudges started up again.

Shallowness is a fact with the majority of people oline

Ok I had my daily dose, have a great day everyone bigsmile waving

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Fri 03/28/14 07:04 AM
Seriously speaking..
There is something yoou can get to put in the toilet water to eliminate the smell. I forgot the name but I am sure you could find it online somewhere. In my line of work, we have learned that vicks up the nose also eliminates the smell :smile:

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Thu 03/27/14 07:29 PM
This is no lie
I dated a guy [briefly] who would always follow me into the bathroom to see what I was doing and wouldn't leave. It was a half bath and the door had no lock. He would stand there and talk while I was [trying] to poop! "ok I like closeness hun but this is just way too much for me" A gal just needs a bit of privacy.
I got smart and used the main bathroom with a lock but still couldn't poop cuz he followed me there too and kept begging me to let him in frustrated


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Thu 03/27/14 06:57 PM

.. okay for all you out there watching. after you're done here could you go over to . candiapples.. cougar .. cruise.. topic... she's feeling a little left out... let's just give her a pick me up...lol..jk

LOL no1
cute flowerforyou

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Thu 03/27/14 06:55 PM
Oh my!! Thanks for the laughs is right

Thinx its time to go back to reality waving

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Thu 03/27/14 06:50 PM
Over a thousand HITS
Unbelievable laugh

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Thu 03/27/14 06:46 PM
I don't really blame alot of the men.. Look at the world around us?

Life just isn't anything like it was 50 years ago

We have a medical name for everything we do and don't do now

Its so NOT our fault, we don't have to be responsible and accountable for anything we do[sarcasm]


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Thu 03/27/14 06:37 PM
Haha did it also forever change the way you thought about girls?

Evil big sis!! laugh

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Thu 03/27/14 06:29 PM


Sometimes I turn on the tap..flush a few times and yodel

http://youtu.be/iCKoCDhaC0c

hahahahahahahaha
(Though I am worried about when you have to hit the high notes.)

laugh I kinda worry too scared