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Thu 05/12/16 07:12 PM


Yeah! They have the privilege of meeting and dating the best looking jerk.

Yeah they have the privilege of landing that great job just to have to fight off the bosses advances and threats that if you don't put out...get out!

Yeah they have the privilege of being labeled ditzy .. ..just because

And usually the ones chasing her are the ones looking to get laid. Not taken seriously and usually they don't want to know her.

The good men won't go near her.

I don't know but am assuming that it may be an advantage to men to be more attractive but I could be wrong.


The one part of your I can agree with is assuming that an attractive woman is ditzy. She can be her own boss, hence not have to worry about anyone pushing up on her. She can be taken seriously because she has a gloss of strength, a presence of assertiveness. A good man won't approach her. But a gentleman who is very sure of himself will and do so with class that matches that attractive phenomenal women. I've seen such a woman.
She can be yes

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Thu 05/12/16 05:43 PM
Yeah! They have the privilege of meeting and dating the best looking jerk.

Yeah they have the privilege of landing that great job just to have to fight off the bosses advances and threats that if you don't put out...get out!

Yeah they have the privilege of being labeled ditzy .. ..just because

And usually the ones chasing her are the ones looking to get laid. Not taken seriously and usually they don't want to know her.

The good men won't go near her.

I don't know but am assuming that it may be an advantage to men to be more attractive but I could be wrong.

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Thu 05/12/16 01:59 PM

I am 52 years old and I do not want a younger man (maybe by a year or two, but not a decade).

I wouldn't want my oldest daughter, who is 32 to seek a relationship with a 52 year old man. I want her to enjoy her young life and date someone with the energy, youthfulness and spontaneity of a person within her age group.

So, I wouldn't rob a younger man of that freedom and learning experience.

I'm looking for someone who is a Christian, age 49 to 60 and who is generally satisfied in life -- as one should be at those ages.


Everyone is different...believe me. I know so many men and wome much younger than me who have way less energy than I do. My father had way more energy at 65 than I do now. People have preferences and who are we to make that judgement of what's good for them.

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Wed 05/11/16 10:50 AM
Edited by Candiapples on Wed 05/11/16 10:53 AM



Does anyone here believe that you have a soulmate out there?
Perhaps some things that didn't workout in the past, could've possibly been a way from God to eventually lead you to your destiny & your soul mate...
You can be so much in love with someone but that necessarily doesn't imply that he/she is your soul mate...I'm not sure if I really believe in it but certain situations & events in Iife can lead you to the one you meant to spend the rest of your life with in happiness and peace.....
If not then fate has other plans for you but somewhat it could have been experienced by certain individuals


I read that we have many soulmates. Some might come into your life at certain times. I do believe but not in just one.


you do realize what you read is just someones opinion on something that is undefinable? i mean, we really have no clue if we even have a soul, much less a match for one...

people should stop and think if they spend their lives looking for something that probably isn't even a "thing", their own minds will shut out people that could be a once in a lifetime thing because they didn't fit the bill as their soulmate..
Really? Of course I realize and I believe (you don't have too) that people we call "soulmates" come into our lives for a reason at the time. Maybe why some couples seem so perfect for each other at the time then they grow apart.
The question was "does anyone believe"

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Tue 05/10/16 08:20 PM

And why do young beautiful girls go with rich guy??

'Cause he has the money!!:banana:
lol now everyone is happy cept for the old poor guys grumble

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Tue 05/10/16 08:16 PM

Does anyone here believe that you have a soulmate out there?
Perhaps some things that didn't workout in the past, could've possibly been a way from God to eventually lead you to your destiny & your soul mate...
You can be so much in love with someone but that necessarily doesn't imply that he/she is your soul mate...I'm not sure if I really believe in it but certain situations & events in Iife can lead you to the one you meant to spend the rest of your life with in happiness and peace.....
If not then fate has other plans for you but somewhat it could have been experienced by certain individuals


I read that we have many soulmates. Some might come into your life at certain times. I do believe but not in just one.

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Tue 05/10/16 08:12 PM

WHEN WILL I BE LUCK TO GET A LADY AS MY LIFE PARTNER, BECAUSE I MET WITH SOMEONE HERE ON THIS SIDE BUT SHE PRETEND TO LOVE ME MUCH AND EVERYDAY WE DO COMMUNICATE BUT AS TIME GOES SHE CHANGED ONES.

I ASK HER WHY SHE SAID SHE IS OLDER THAN ME THAT'S ALL BUT I DENIED THAT BECAUSE TO MY OPINION AGE DOES NOT MATTER IN LOVE, TELL ME WILL YOU MARRY OR DATE WITH SOMEONE WHO IS YOUNGER THAN YOU OR OLDER THAN YOU, TELL ME YOUR OPINIONS PLEASE
nope

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Tue 05/10/16 03:45 PM




How do you guys feel about 20 year age gap relationships when both parties are over the age of 40?

Do you think the incompatibility factor is still too high?

I don't. I think if they both know what they want and get along it will work. Matureness is not gained by age. I think it comes down to the person. I'm 19 and act more mature than some 30 year olds ect. Many people are also uneducated some never fully developed due to drugs and alcohol.
I would always worry about that day I would become to old for him

Lol I guess that's why they say "take it one day at a time" If we live in the past or wait for what the future brings we will miss the present. Only the present is guaranteed since the past is over and the future hasn't happened yet
You know you are absolutely right. The present is all that matters

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Tue 05/10/16 03:38 PM
Why is it that wealthy men always go after young beautiful women?
Answer: cuz they can :banana:

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Tue 05/10/16 03:30 PM


How do you guys feel about 20 year age gap relationships when both parties are over the age of 40?

Do you think the incompatibility factor is still too high?

I don't. I think if they both know what they want and get along it will work. Matureness is not gained by age. I think it comes down to the person. I'm 19 and act more mature than some 30 year olds ect. Many people are also uneducated some never fully developed due to drugs and alcohol.
I would always worry about that day I would become to old for him

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Tue 05/10/16 03:25 PM
Edited by Candiapples on Tue 05/10/16 03:28 PM

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Tue 05/10/16 03:02 PM
I believe it can work if both are very secure and just do not care what other people think. For me, I just always felt silly and worried what my family would think. But that was a huge gap that I will never do again. It depends on how big the gap is too .

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Tue 05/10/16 02:45 PM
There really is no point if your looking for something serious.

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Tue 05/10/16 02:37 PM
Most cougars admit to this and seem to be quite proud of themselves.

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Tue 05/10/16 02:30 PM
Edited by Candiapples on Tue 05/10/16 02:39 PM
devil

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Sun 10/25/15 09:11 AM
lol I would love to be a fly on the wall when you tell a lady she has bad breath......

Although she's a bit ignorant to not have realized how offensive garlic smells to others who haven't eaten it...or...she doesn't care

Just offer her a mint as you pop one in yourself like another poster suggested happy

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Sun 10/25/15 08:51 AM
It comes down to...you get what you expect

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Sun 10/25/15 08:44 AM

well now you'd think that would be true

except..I have gotten messages even when my profile pic
was a cartoon huh
those were the scammers and desperados probably bigsmile

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Sun 10/25/15 06:36 AM
Men are visual - period.
They see a pic they like and go after it no matter what!

Now I have a vision of a panting dog (sheesh)drool tears

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Sat 10/24/15 11:56 PM
The ones who follow me around and post right after me. This gets my attention quickly but not always in a good way..................

Outside its the ones who follow me around.....haha! (Kidding)