I've been on several dating apps and haven't had luck finding a decent match. Why should a woman work so hard meeting someone?

You are definitely not alone. Many are wondering the same thing, I am still hoping that good things come to those who wait, and remain open.

Maybe love will find us when we are not even looking

maybe Mr. right was hit by a truck I'm joking

as a woman/ singlemom. right now I don't think about where is my Mr.right anymore, sometimes things happen when you least expected so just enjoy life and go with the flow...

I find many (men and women) once they get out of a relationship their values change (I mean what they want in a partner). They know what they had but want something more.
But I feel many expect too much and are a long time waiting for their so called Mr Right. You have to look at the big picture (about a possible partner), if you concentrate on one or two things about who your looking for you will miss some really nice guys/women.

I've been on dating sites for sometime and I see the same women (gorgeous women) who I thought would have no problems finding a guy. I guess women find the same thing in men.

I find being on the aged pension is a turn off to women. Plus I live in a small country town which dosen't help much.

Laurie

It's so true what they say...stop looking and he will appear. Also he most likely isn't on a dating site
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I know, right?

But I think the guys also work hard to meet someone.

In my case, I don't look anymore. I just hope that there is an old man out there who is not afraid to ask for directions... because I'm waiting.

Welcome to M2, Rubes
Join us here in the forums. We do a lot of whine and cheese parties.

I think that people who are divorced, dont always look for perfection in the next partner, but they do want something better than they had before ,which I dont think is unreasonable.

I would also say that those who have been in longterm relationships like 10 years or more prior to their divorce, are a lot sharper at detecting from early what seemingly insignificant issues will grow into insurmountable problems over the next couple of decades . They can see that monster coming from a mile away although its blurry from that far angle ,and they run in the opposite direction , which I think is wise

Those two factors will often keep a person from finding the right match quickly

He will come someday

now you know what men go through... but it's even worse...

I feel so bad when I hear people talk about finding mr. Right. I think that they should just how to find someone they're compatible with it. Sometimes these norms that were brought up with, muddy up the water. Find someone your compatible with. Then live your life in peace. If you start the relationship with no preconceptions you will be able to maintain a better relationship. Imo

There is a Mr Right and we need to stop trying to pick all the characteristics that we do and don't want and just sit back...relax and trust the universe to send him our way.

Did somebody say they're looking for a mr. Right..?.. how about a mr. Right now..lol .. how about a mr. Right only half of the time...

i am a single mom...cannot join the whine and cheese thing

I just saw him get eaten by a bear