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Mon 09/01/08 11:35 AM
Internet is just like RL, crazy people abound in both places..............

However, I have learned not to judge someone crazy when u only know part of the story.................

People who make empty promises, and lie to get what they want, and then drop another person as if they are a bag of potatoes.........well, it isn't just the person who is so upset that they actually drive out to their house to find out what kind of a person could do such a thing.........a fight ensues........etc....

Anyway, there are all kinds of "crazies" and it in a lot of cases, it takes two........

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Mon 09/01/08 11:29 AM
Perving is a natural part of anyone's internet life......... :wink:

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Mon 09/01/08 11:27 AM
Edited by Plainome on Mon 09/01/08 11:49 AM

What if your soulmate is married, or currently in another relationship?


If they are married, then they have a commitment to honor....unless it is an unhealthy relationship, they should remain married.

If in a relationship, that is up to them..........

It is our society that confuses lust with love, romance with sex, beauty with man-made perfection.......

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Mon 09/01/08 11:25 AM


I think its more about making a decision regarding who u wanna be with.

Firstly, before i met my boyfriend, i didnt have "potential" relationships around me. I found someone that made me happy. Does this mean hes my soul mate? maybe? maybe not, eitherway, i wanna spend the rest of my life with him, and that means i dont want any other man, just him.

Secondly, if ya feel ya have found ur soulmate, why the heck would u wanna date other ppl?

I hope a lot of ppl have found their soul mate, or at least view it that way....its nice being happy :)
What if your current boyfriend is not your potential soulmate? What if tomorrow you meet your true soulmate? Would you drop your current boyfriend that your happy being with for your soulmate?


That is up to you. A soul mate, doesn't have to be a sexual mate. A soul mate could be 95 yrs old when ur only 25. Ideally, I'd like to be partners with my soul mate, but that may not be possible.

If you are happy with ur current situation.........the choice is urs.

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Mon 09/01/08 10:37 AM
Thx for sharing, a good reminder of how we SHOULD prioritize our lives.....

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Mon 09/01/08 10:35 AM
lovely

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Mon 09/01/08 10:31 AM
Ya'll and ur french......now I gotta go look it up! :wink:

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Mon 09/01/08 10:29 AM
sad.........

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Mon 09/01/08 10:27 AM
thx for sharing.

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Mon 09/01/08 10:08 AM
Edited by Plainome on Mon 09/01/08 10:09 AM
Some people simply "get off" on the game........seriously.

Others haven't completely accepted themself yet, so still present a lie to others.....to boost their ego in a sense.

It's all pointless and always comes around full circle..........but people are still........well, people even on the internet.

Liars, cheats, posers all exist in RL, and the internet is is no different.....just more people are capable of communicating with one another over the internet all at once vs RL which make the numbers of such undesirables seem larger.........

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Mon 09/01/08 10:03 AM

It's always nice to see new faces :smile:
Very nice...keep posting flowerforyou


Thx, I will.

Thx for reading everyone......

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Sun 08/31/08 06:18 PM
Here's another:

Being

Being
By: Nancy Plano

Always seeking
Never finding
Always wanting
Never getting
Where is it
Frustration
Irritation
Unattainable
But desire drives
Onward I go
Explosion within
Something there
Unexplained
So unsure
Why the trial
Why the strife
Just want
To live my life
Who am I
Who are u
Who are we
What is truth
Hunger deep
Thirst within
Ever looking
Rarely seeing
Briefly viewing
Little weavings
Some big picture
Exists beyond
Vision shortsighted
Things converge
Will truth
Ever emerge
Sitting still
Contemplating
What it is
How to be
What makes u
What makes me
How about
We just be.....
Peaceful
Comforting
So simple
No thinking
No examining
Only sitting
No seeking
No finding
No wanting
No receiving
Just being.

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Sun 08/31/08 06:10 PM

I have recently come across two profiles that I doubt will ever find what they are looking for. One said "Looking for hot women" and the other said "Looking for big breasted women". Get real!!! No woman worth having is going to answer that.


And you'd think that no woman worth having would post nekkid pictures of herself on public website.........but many men go after them anyway..............

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Sun 08/31/08 06:05 PM

flowerforyou Its better to tell people what they want to hear in order to get what you want.flowerforyou


That is called manipulation.......... Of course, after dating a while, one would be able to see that on their own......

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Sun 08/31/08 06:04 PM

well like i keep my mouth shut unless im asked about my opion b.c ppl who know me will always know im always give an honest answer but ill say it as nicely as possible but i figured being an honest person id find an equally honest person to talk to maybe date i guess my hopes are waaaay to high!


There is nothing wrong with wanting someone who is honest........but others being honest with you also involves them trusting you, you must ask yourself if you have earned their trust??

Whether or not you are willing to date someone who is not as honest as you'd like them to be is up to you..........but, many people view honesty in different ways, believe it or not.

I personally would rather someone to tell me they are uncomfortable with answering a question, than to lie to me.....but I can't make people do anything.

Anyhoo, what was I saying??

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Sun 08/31/08 05:53 PM

There is a fine line between saying something because of honesty, and saying something that is just plain mean in the NAME of honesty.


That's true too.

One must also learn that not everyone needs to know everything about you all at once......... Some things are best left unsaid until someone knows you better.

It's a little hard to know for sure, what you are talking about.

Some people claim to be "honest" but really, the only "truth" they know.......is their own.

Giving your "opinion" without being asked, especially when it is harsh is not necessarily being honest........

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Sun 08/31/08 05:50 PM
Some people can't handle the truth........they've been living in their own lil world too long, and the truth is either scary, or hurts too much.

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Sun 08/31/08 03:29 PM
My current SO and I met online...........we've been living together for almost two years........

I think you have just as much of a chance, as in RL.

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Sun 08/31/08 03:26 PM
Howdy!

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Sun 08/31/08 03:16 PM
Hello......and welcome, from a fellow Newbie. (I learned not to spell it like boobie, lol)