been there and still going through it.i have no advice but at least you're not alone

hhhmmm I am a little disturbed by this thread. (And yes it is only one mans opinion) I think you would be a little more sucessful if you were a little more positive. Also, I think that the rules for this site are okay...they make the rules. In addition, I believe that if you are going to find someone you have to work at it. It is realy important to show everyone who you are and what you are looking for. Good luck and happy hunting my friend

I'm walking down the line
That divides me somewhere in my mind
On the border line
Of the edge and where I walk alone

Read between the lines
What's fµcked up and everything's alright
Check my vital signs
To know I'm still alive and I walk alone

The point is: girls LOVE attention from a good-looking guy. They will put up with him being a jerk so they can "try to change him" but we all know that's not gonna happen. Sadly, I think the problem is that if girls get attention from ONE good-looking guy online, they immediately filter out all the guys who don't match up, because they think "If I can get one hot guy to message me, surely I can get others". Do I feel bad for tricking them? Hell no! It was an experiment I'm glad I did because it shows the truth that girls are indeed more superficial than they claim to be... at least online. I can't say the same for a girl who first meets a guy in person.

On the flip side, being kind and courteous? What a load of crap! Girls hate that stuff. If they could have their way, they'd have a super hot guy treat them like total crap over a mediocre guy treating them like a queen. Like I said, with the fake profile, within the first message or 2, I was bringing up personal questions and most were very willing to answer. Now, some were questions I'd never ask from my real profile... I just have too much respect for a girl to ask that kind of stuff. But I suppose that's the problem. I care too much.

So whatcha tryin' to say? That I'm ugly?

hey did you take that photo in front of a mirror?
The writing is back to front
I will take a better photo for you

Problem solved. You rock, Lori! And when you rock, you rock hard. I love you.

OK, I read up on the difference between sleep and hibernation after searching for the help menu for a while. Suprizingly, the information I wanted was actually there, and even more suprizingly, easy to find. So the only difference I found was where the computer saves the information before it goes into sleep/hibernation.

And after reading this and trying switching the modes, it STILL made no difference in whether or not my computer stays in low power state. It STILL wakes back up after less than 2 minutes.

Earlier we questioned the automatic program/software/whatever updating. Sounded like a good theory. But surely my computer is not waking back up to update itself or another program EVERY TIME within two minutes of putting it into low power mode.

Any other suggestions? Menus I can look up? Settings I can change? Whatever?

Hello beautiful. Well here it is.

You are of the Elk for the Native Americans.

Clan - Thunderbird
Spirit Keeper - Spirit Keeper of the West
Moon - Long-snows Moon
Crystal or mineral - Obsidian
Tree or plant - Black Spruce
Color - Black

The elk is the largest and most regal member of the deer family, and its large antlers enhance its stately appearance. The elk lives in the woodlands. They seem to have a sense of responsiblity, because when the ground is covered with heavy snow, elks will take turns breaking up the snow to create a trail for others to follow. Elks often prance around or break into a gallop of joy, and can run at speeds of up to thirty miles per hour for short distances.

The elk has few enemies. Cougars, bears, and wolves will sometimes succeed in bringing down a sick or ederly animal, but no animal is to match for a bull in his prime. Before the start of the twentieth century, most elk were slaughtered, and frequently the only reason for killing them was to make two of their teeth into jewels!

People born under the sign of the elk need to guard against being overly argumentative and erratic or difficult when in intimate relationships. If you choose to work with the elk on a spiritual level, you will earn about strength, responsiblity, joy, speed, and protection. The elk represents insight, independence, and fearlessness.

Individuals who are born under the sign of the elk have a ntuarlly positive outlook on life and are enterprising and full of energy and vitality. Versatile and adventurous, they are eager to expand their range beyond the comfortable and familiar. They enjoy travel and exploring and their minds are continually searching for new experiences. They are ambitious and optimistic folk, and while they can be self-pitying at times, they are the first to admit that luck is often on their side.

People born under this sign are idealists, and this trait seems to keep them going when tye face disappointments. They are believers and they are willing to fight for their beliefs. They are both loyal and independent, and they manage to balance both traits. Keen students, they are always on the lookout for new experiences. Often intuitive and original thinkers, these individuals are better at adapting than inventing. They work well in collaboration with others.

lets hear them. what are your weird hang-ups when dealing with dating.

me? she has to have a paved driveway. i dunno what it is about it, but if she doesnt have a paved driveway, then we cannot date.

care to share?

Thats the sad part of "relationship oriented guys" they are so quick to materialize a relationship before a freindship sets in or real compatibality has been established. There is no harm in dateing, and mr. wonderfull is never all hes cracked up to be.

Are you an optimist or a pessimist? Do you rely on faith or logic?

Are our lives fated, or are we in control of our destinies? If you don't know the answers to these, don't worry. You're about to find out.

This test will judge you based on three characteristics (optimism, faith, and logic), and then assign a philosophy that most closely matches those characteristics. Remember to answer as honestly as you can, and the more time you spend thinking about questions, the better.

http://www.okcupid.com/tests/take?testid=7951811862379420906

Post your result here for everyone to see.

I'm Irish, Apache, Cherokee and Blackfoot.. I don't put other b/c my birth certificate says caucasian but I would if I weren't afraid they'd say "prove it"... LOL