If you completely change something about yourself, like your hair color and the person your seeing doesn't even notice, what does that say about your relationship.

that you're stuck in a rut, he's been drinking or the change was subtle

that you have to re-evaluate it. a partner should appreciate you, and notice the little things let alone the big, for if you give effort constantly, and don't get feedback, it's quite one-sided....no?

Your guy is legally blind?










Or "HELLO",,,HE DOESN'T care to NOTICE YOU in the first place...Lose him,,and start living again..

What were you expecting or hoping the reaction would be? Changing to get a rise out someone isn't always the way. Be true to you. If you are going to change anything, let it be something that you want because you want it. If they don't notice, okay. If they do better.

something is missing in it....

says get out............just sayin

Well it depends what you change.

If it is hair color or clothes if someone loves you as a person overall they might not notice.

Or if they notice they might not want to address it in an effort to let you make of it what you will.

Depending on how much the change costs and wheather you can afford it or not might be an issue.

If you change something they think you knew they liked about you they might think it is spiteful. Can't tell you the men who say they know their wives cut their hair only because they liked it long.

I do know guys often feel they are hanged if they do or hanged if they don't so they just shut up put their head down and try to stay out of the line of fire.

Yes some are just selfish or dense but they noticed you once so maybe you need to do more of what you did to catch their attention then.

when you say it with that smile.....priceless

run

Could be any number of things, but almost all of them lean towards not being truly interested in you...the other one's probably can't happen as they require a sequence of terrible things to happen to someone rendering them blind and mute.

By the way, I like your hair.

I think that you are just asking something you already know the answer to..............I dont want to speculate but if you are taking a haircut as a judge of how this person feels about you other things have went on in the past to give you this idea............we women have a way of looking at things and seeing the little details of things that men dont.........unfortunately men dont have the same type ideas.........we use every little thing as an analysis of how are relationship is or should be.............is that fair?

Let that change be for you !!!
Don't exspect someone to notice that way when they don't you will not be hurt. If he does notice that's a pulse. If he does not don't let that judge the relationship. Getting to know someone takes time and Patience's.

Tanz, you're on the money.

I've been desperately and wholly in love, to the point that I knew each change in my love's breath and motions...but for the life of me I could only stare stupidly and wonder what was different in her appearance. Perhaps days would pass, and I would ask, "Did you change your hair?"

She would let it bother me for up to one week and then tell me (if I hadn't solved the mystery).

Try this, if he does not notice you in Victoria Secrets lingerie then something is definitely wrong!

I have to agree with a few of the previous posts. I know I can be in love wholeheartedly but not notice subtle changes in hair color or style.

Judge him by his actions. If he's making the effort, doing the small things, making you feel special, then not noticing a haircut really isn't important.

Put a stick in it. It's done. Have ljcc throw rocks at him out of general stupidity too.

first mistake was wanting him to notice
he likes you for you not your hair
but i could be wrong and he could be a complete asshole that really doesnt care
i guess its up to you to find out

he needs to pay closer attention to you