I just sent you an email,..see if you can open it,..

what about sending mail,..have you tried ?

do you know what it is that is making you depressed,.or is it just an overall dark cloud,.. that will pass,..

I know how you feel,... was there 1 yr ago,..and sometimes it still feels like yesterday,..

how do you move on ? slowly,.ever so very slowly,..but everyday you get stronger,..

I`ll recomend a really good book that helped me understand why,..why it always feels like I`m always the only one putting energy into the relationship,..

it`s called,..

"Woman who Love too Much " bu Robin Norwood

an excellent read,..

take good care of you,..

may

you did yourself a favour,..

awesome

sounds like a modern day Cinderella story,..

I better write that down,...

just came back from my walk..( yes,.a very long walk )

and just finished reading through all your helpful suggesstions as to why outlook express was not responding,..

gratefully I didn`t "install" anything,..turns out,.the problem was with the service provider,.( and it was just outgoing mail )

but thankyou all for taking the time to respond,..

may

well,..I almost logged on to my providers page,..I was too afraid to hit the installation button,..( for help provider ) it`s not my computer,.

but I`m definitely having fun checking all this stuff out,..

I left the page in the infrmation bar for my Dad to look at,..

tx again caamken,.. for your help & resources,..I will show him this page as well,..

I am goin for my walk now,.before I get into something I can`t get out of,..lol

may

yes,...outlook express,.. thankyou,.. lol,..

I found the trouble shoot page and everything looks ok,..

but what is a providers web page ?

as you can see,.. I`m a little computer illiterate,..

appreciate the help caamken,..

well,.lol,..can`t send messages to myself,..

could you send me a message,..it will pop up in my windows mail,..

tx for the reply,.

yes,.I tried that already,.. ( from windows ) show it being sent but not received,.

maybe I`ll send myself a mingle message,..lol

goodmornin,..

not receiving mail on Windows XP,..

is there anything I can check ?

appreciate the help,..

or to put it another way,.

you are the only one who can make your dreams come true,..

you are the ONLY one who can make YOU

you`re 18,..

I`m sure you can think of something more exciting in your life than just getting a date,..

you know,.we really have this relationship / dating thing blown way out of portion,..

you`ll only be as happy as you are now as you`ll ever be with a ' date,.. ' I correct that,.you could be more miserable

just get excited living your life,.and somehow the dating really doesn`t take such a huge priority in it,..

how many people do you know who are in Al Alon or AA or suffered from abuse of anykind,.incest,.verbal,.physical,..all stems from the disease of ALCOHOL,..

addictions keep you stuck,.they keep you from facing real issues that need your attention,..

after smoking I had to give up drinkin cause the two go so well together,..

addictions can KILL you,..

you`ve healing in more ways than one,..

what did he do ??? ( or not do ? )

I think that was pretty interesting,..not only for my own perspective of potential mates,.but I found some of my own shortcomings on that list as well,..

tx for that,..