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What is wrong with me?...
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I'll admit that I did not read every post in this thread, but I read some of them and I think a few were off-topic a bit so I don't mind skipping to the end :) In answer to the original post, I must say: My friend, there isn't anything wrong with you. However, I would suggest that you be careful what it is you hope to obtain from a relationship. When you say "he was your only source of happiness" it implies that you aren't satisfied with the other areas of your life, and that you are looking for a relationship to escape from your problems. However, a relationship will not make you happy - a relationship can only build on the happiness that you already have. It's quite possible he's just not into you, or that he wasn't satisfied with the relationship. It's not about saying the right things or agreeing with all his ideas/plans/thoughts. You need to make sure you're being your own person. Nobody wants to date a robot (except for swingers just looking for sex)! He wants to date a person who has their own thoughts and their own ideas. Being a yes-girl just leads you down the path of abusive relationships and controlling boyfriends. Not everyone is made for everyone. I can relate, from personal experience, that it's hard to move on from someone you thought you were in love with. We imagine our life with a person, and when they're gone it's hard to imagine anyone else - but it's not impossible. Only in time will you really be able to accept that. You will date other guys. You will have boyfriends. You will get married, have a family, and be happy. And it won't be with him. However, even though we KNOW this is true, the hardest part is to EMBRACE it - and hope for the future that has yet to take place. You can't drive a car forwards when you're trapped looking in the mirror. I hope that helps! -Andrew so graciously put Andrew,.. 
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me
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NOOOOOoooo, my name is MARY! Welcome and have fun! ya you !!! |
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Hi Mary
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Hi Mary !!!
welcome to the party !!!! |
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What is wrong with me?...
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He provided my only source of happiness, now I have to find someone else, and I dont think I have time. Why can't I stop crying? find your own happiness within yourself and you won`t need jerks like that,.. 
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my husband told me the most beautiful thing in the world to him was seeing my smile when i came home from work, he said he waited all day for that. 
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Hypothetical Question....
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What to you is a reasonable time frame to "take a break" when someone ticks you off? How long do you wait to call them? if you`re the one whose ticked,..I wouldn`t be the first one to call,..cause it`s telling them that it`s ok to treat you that way,.. |
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Hypothetical Question....
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Interesting answers..... Here's another....if someone stops calling/emailing as they used to, but continues to say they love you...how does it look if you don't chase after them, but rather wait on them to make contact? Do you end up looking like you're disinterested, or merely giving them space? You end up looking like you`re not into playing those kind of games,..and hopefully,.. they will get the message,.. |
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There is One God looking down on us all. We are all the children of One God.
The sun, the darkness,the winds,..are all listening to what we have to say. Geronimo |
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Relatively New
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pull up a chair,.grab your favourite beverage,..start mingling,..GO
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LOST LOVE
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA  think I know why you`re single now,..
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The worst job I ever had was between jobs......for 2 weeks I pulled mobile home axles from under established mobile homes. The people would sell this company their weels and axles and be given a contract to use a brand new set if they ever wanted to move their home. I was the guy to go and remove the old sets. Anyone ever been under a moblie home that's been in the same spot for many years?????? how many more little inhabitants move into the basements ??? |
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LOST LOVE
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If you find your standards are too high.......Lower your standards This is so true, and it worked for me every time I was in a rut. Lower your stanards, and have the ugly ones fall all over you, then you can progress from there. looks are only a wrapping,..concealing the true beauty underneath,..but how would one know if you discard someone only on their looks,.. |
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LOST LOVE
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relationships aren`t the 'end all be all' in life,.. there`s so much more,..and if there isn`t,.than that`s where we need to focus our energy,..because if we are not happy with ourselves,.by ourselves,.we`ll suck the life out of our relationships,..
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well start with 'hey',..then go from there,..
'hay' itself will only get you horses,.. 
maybe tell them why ( if ) your interested in their profile,.. |
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no see i match with people and then they dont talk to me. lol. i try to talk to them like ill say hey but they dont say anything back, so i figure that they just arent into me. it doesn`t work like that,..you only get back what you put in,.. maybe a little more effort required,.. |
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Hmm...this could be fun
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sound like a real catch to me,..if she`s quick enough,.. great job !! 
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Are you too sexy for
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beauty is all in the eye of the beholder,..
without making somekind of contact,..eye,.,or a simple 'hullo' ,.how else will you know,.. you`ll be able to tell if your advances are appreciated,.if not,.then you`ve lost nothing but gained much,.because at least you tried,. |
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only you can see your matches,..
just go back to his profile and match with him again,..( right next to 'email him ' ) hope that works,.. |
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Just Venting!! Grr! *sigh*
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I agree with everyone about this guy, but I'm curious about something. I have seen many times people referring to "distance" and then saying that they are less than a couple hours apart. I assume everyone here are adults and probably most have drivers licenses. I don't see how people call this a long distance. yea specially since I was the one drivin there every freakin weekend!lol why ? how come he couldn`t make the distance ? I dunno, never really talked about it...I like driving, Im sure if it had gone farther we would have talked about it...cant do it all the time lol...oh doesnt matter now 
ahhhhhhh,..are you sure,..? speaking for myself,.I`m one of those who unfortunately who always DO more than my share,..and it always backfires,.. Woman who LOVE to Much -- excellent read |
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