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Dude do you like to be put down is that how you get your jollies? no i dont like to be put down but it seems to be all that ever happens Go back and really read the posts and you'll see that, even if you don't mean to do it, you're basically "asking for it", sort of like taping a "Kick me" sign to yourself. You come across as self-pitying and needy. If you examine yourself, really take an objective look at your self image and the behavior that results from your apparent low self esteem, then there is help. Ask your GP about therapy, or find and join a self help group. But I really, really, really recommend against whining on a public Forum. What if someone you like answers one of you emails , Googles you, and comes across this thread? Not good... Agreed the people that i liked have all shot me down so i dont care if they see it and anyone in the furture will see that i was stressed out |
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there are no single girls that are actually looking for a relationship and are willing to meet. all the single girls are single because they want to be and they like t toy around with guys like me. whenever you try and meet someone they always either make up an excuse or say its too soon. whatever happened t people actually wanting to go out? im looking for some kind of response or answer. Im playing nice today and not saying anything  ok you go ahead and play nice LOL!!! Nahhhhhhhhh..... Dude just go out and have fun, no girl should mess up ur night just because she cancels on you or says its too soon well it wouldnt bother me if it wass just one girl but its been everyone i have tried to date since my fioncee left me for a woman... OUCH!!!! Im sorry to hear that dude...It seems like your being really needy right now which is really making you unattractive to the opposite sex oh at this point im just sick of it all. this is me venting and trying to understand. im just so sick of being jerked around I think what your saying is I need a rebound and the best thing for you to do is be alone...Till your over this other girl nope i dont need a rebound girl i need a girl who wont lie to me for 2 years and then one day say that our relationship isnt going anywere while we are planning our wedding. im just frusterated because girls like to toy with my emotions. Dude your a pssy now seriously, people wont like that I said that to you, including you but thats what u sound like  im sure i do sound like that and im not mad at you for saying it its your opinin even if i disagree. Im surprised the girls havent told you yet give it time im sure they will. Isnt that a hint too step up and be a man? define be a man. Be in control of yourself and your emotions dude show some balls aka confidence ....How do you get that??? Good advice here dont ever be afraid of loosing anybody and dont feel like u need anybody to be happy controleing emotions huh? I havent had a relationship in almost 3 years, thats choice and thats control that doesnt sound like control to me LOL!!! Really what does it sound like? sorry to say it but that sounds pathetic |
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Dude do you like to be put down is that how you get your jollies? no i dont like to be put down but it seems to be all that ever happens |
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why stop people are finally saying what they want. Yes, but this will not end well. By the way, please stop quoting EVERYTHING. You can delete some of it or only address the poster in your response. well i dnt think it will end well but it will probably end up somewere noone wishes it to go but thats life. |
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there are no single girls that are actually looking for a relationship and are willing to meet. all the single girls are single because they want to be and they like t toy around with guys like me. whenever you try and meet someone they always either make up an excuse or say its too soon. whatever happened t people actually wanting to go out? im looking for some kind of response or answer. Im playing nice today and not saying anything ok you go ahead and play nice LOL!!! Nahhhhhhhhh..... Dude just go out and have fun, no girl should mess up ur night just because she cancels on you or says its too soon well it wouldnt bother me if it wass just one girl but its been everyone i have tried to date since my fioncee left me for a woman... OUCH!!!! Im sorry to hear that dude...It seems like your being really needy right now which is really making you unattractive to the opposite sex oh at this point im just sick of it all. this is me venting and trying to understand. im just so sick of being jerked around I think what your saying is I need a rebound and the best thing for you to do is be alone...Till your over this other girl nope i dont need a rebound girl i need a girl who wont lie to me for 2 years and then one day say that our relationship isnt going anywere while we are planning our wedding. im just frusterated because girls like to toy with my emotions. Dude your a pssy now seriously, people wont like that I said that to you, including you but thats what u sound like im sure i do sound like that and im not mad at you for saying it its your opinin even if i disagree. Im surprised the girls havent told you yet give it time im sure they will. Isnt that a hint too step up and be a man? define be a man. Be in control of yourself and your emotions dude show some balls aka confidence ....How do you get that??? Good advice here dont ever be afraid of loosing anybody and dont feel like u need anybody to be happy controleing emotions huh? I havent had a relationship in almost 3 years, thats choice and thats control that doesnt sound like control to me |
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First and foremost dont dwell on the negative. Second, ask someone worth wid. You are probably only asking those super skinny b*tches that wouldn't be caught dead out eating something anyway. Third, relax and just breathe. Fourth, CONFIDENCED, it's attractive. ok for the first. i dont normally let it get to me like this. second i ask out the people that actually can hold a conversation with me. third. i do my best but when i do yoga it normally stresses me out. fourth. im confident in person just online i cant prove anything so my confidence is gone. in person i have scars to show and stuff that i can use to prove what i say. i dont lie and i despise people that do. its all just rather disapointing Okay but scars don't mean ****, and a girl doesn't want to hear your life story on the first date. I date, but I don't tell guys for awhile that I was practically carved up and beaten by my stepfather. I tell them only if they ask. As for being confident, its a state of mind not something that can be 'proven' I mean, I am sexy as hell. Eventhough I have a scar bisecting my back, and one on my hip and some on my arms, I am amazing. scars mean smething to me...i actually find it atractive when i see someone has endured pain and cme away stronger. and yes you are sexy. i dont spill my life story on the first date unless its asked for. Yeah but girls dont think like that you fool, they think like girls and thats unattractive to them..Get it well i cant change who i am trust me i tried. i may be a fool. I didnt say change who u are, stop being so needy...See the girls are already playing the violin dude let them what should it matter to me anymore? |
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there are no single girls that are actually looking for a relationship and are willing to meet. all the single girls are single because they want to be and they like t toy around with guys like me. whenever you try and meet someone they always either make up an excuse or say its too soon. whatever happened t people actually wanting to go out? im looking for some kind of response or answer. Im playing nice today and not saying anything ok you go ahead and play nice LOL!!! Nahhhhhhhhh..... Dude just go out and have fun, no girl should mess up ur night just because she cancels on you or says its too soon well it wouldnt bother me if it wass just one girl but its been everyone i have tried to date since my fioncee left me for a woman... OUCH!!!! Im sorry to hear that dude...It seems like your being really needy right now which is really making you unattractive to the opposite sex oh at this point im just sick of it all. this is me venting and trying to understand. im just so sick of being jerked around I think what your saying is I need a rebound and the best thing for you to do is be alone...Till your over this other girl nope i dont need a rebound girl i need a girl who wont lie to me for 2 years and then one day say that our relationship isnt going anywere while we are planning our wedding. im just frusterated because girls like to toy with my emotions. Dude your a pssy now seriously, people wont like that I said that to you, including you but thats what u sound like im sure i do sound like that and im not mad at you for saying it its your opinin even if i disagree. Im surprised the girls havent told you yet give it time im sure they will. Isnt that a hint too step up and be a man? define be a man. Be in control of yourself and your emotions dude show some balls aka confidence ....How do you get that??? Good advice here dont ever be afraid of loosing anybody and dont feel like u need anybody to be happy controleing emotions huh? |
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Chris... stop and take a breather.... Kill the thread, JMO. why stop people are finally saying what they want. |
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First and foremost dont dwell on the negative. Second, ask someone worth wid. You are probably only asking those super skinny b*tches that wouldn't be caught dead out eating something anyway. Third, relax and just breathe. Fourth, CONFIDENCED, it's attractive. ok for the first. i dont normally let it get to me like this. second i ask out the people that actually can hold a conversation with me. third. i do my best but when i do yoga it normally stresses me out. fourth. im confident in person just online i cant prove anything so my confidence is gone. in person i have scars to show and stuff that i can use to prove what i say. i dont lie and i despise people that do. its all just rather disapointing Okay but scars don't mean ****, and a girl doesn't want to hear your life story on the first date. I date, but I don't tell guys for awhile that I was practically carved up and beaten by my stepfather. I tell them only if they ask. As for being confident, its a state of mind not something that can be 'proven' I mean, I am sexy as hell. Eventhough I have a scar bisecting my back, and one on my hip and some on my arms, I am amazing. scars mean smething to me...i actually find it atractive when i see someone has endured pain and cme away stronger. and yes you are sexy. i dont spill my life story on the first date unless its asked for. Yeah but girls dont think like that you fool, they think like girls and thats unattractive to them..Get it well i cant change who i am trust me i tried. i may be a fool. |
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there are no single girls that are actually looking for a relationship and are willing to meet. all the single girls are single because they want to be and they like t toy around with guys like me. whenever you try and meet someone they always either make up an excuse or say its too soon. whatever happened t people actually wanting to go out? im looking for some kind of response or answer. Im playing nice today and not saying anything ok you go ahead and play nice LOL!!! Nahhhhhhhhh..... Dude just go out and have fun, no girl should mess up ur night just because she cancels on you or says its too soon well it wouldnt bother me if it wass just one girl but its been everyone i have tried to date since my fioncee left me for a woman... OUCH!!!! Im sorry to hear that dude...It seems like your being really needy right now which is really making you unattractive to the opposite sex oh at this point im just sick of it all. this is me venting and trying to understand. im just so sick of being jerked around I think what your saying is I need a rebound and the best thing for you to do is be alone...Till your over this other girl nope i dont need a rebound girl i need a girl who wont lie to me for 2 years and then one day say that our relationship isnt going anywere while we are planning our wedding. im just frusterated because girls like to toy with my emotions. Dude your a pssy now seriously, people wont like that I said that to you, including you but thats what u sound like im sure i do sound like that and im not mad at you for saying it its your opinin even if i disagree. Im surprised the girls havent told you yet give it time im sure they will. Isnt that a hint too step up and be a man? define be a man. |
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First and foremost dont dwell on the negative. Second, ask someone worth wid. You are probably only asking those super skinny b*tches that wouldn't be caught dead out eating something anyway. Third, relax and just breathe. Fourth, CONFIDENCED, it's attractive. ok for the first. i dont normally let it get to me like this. second i ask out the people that actually can hold a conversation with me. third. i do my best but when i do yoga it normally stresses me out. fourth. im confident in person just online i cant prove anything so my confidence is gone. in person i have scars to show and stuff that i can use to prove what i say. i dont lie and i despise people that do. its all just rather disapointing Okay but scars don't mean ****, and a girl doesn't want to hear your life story on the first date. I date, but I don't tell guys for awhile that I was practically carved up and beaten by my stepfather. I tell them only if they ask. As for being confident, its a state of mind not something that can be 'proven' I mean, I am sexy as hell. Eventhough I have a scar bisecting my back, and one on my hip and some on my arms, I am amazing. scars mean smething to me...i actually find it atractive when i see someone has endured pain and cme away stronger. and yes you are sexy. i dont spill my life story on the first date unless its asked for. |
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Im surprised the girls havent told you yet Evidently though, the guys have yep |
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there are no single girls that are actually looking for a relationship and are willing to meet. all the single girls are single because they want to be and they like t toy around with guys like me. whenever you try and meet someone they always either make up an excuse or say its too soon. whatever happened t people actually wanting to go out? im looking for some kind of response or answer. Im playing nice today and not saying anything ok you go ahead and play nice LOL!!! Nahhhhhhhhh..... Dude just go out and have fun, no girl should mess up ur night just because she cancels on you or says its too soon well it wouldnt bother me if it wass just one girl but its been everyone i have tried to date since my fioncee left me for a woman... OUCH!!!! Im sorry to hear that dude...It seems like your being really needy right now which is really making you unattractive to the opposite sex oh at this point im just sick of it all. this is me venting and trying to understand. im just so sick of being jerked around I think what your saying is I need a rebound and the best thing for you to do is be alone...Till your over this other girl nope i dont need a rebound girl i need a girl who wont lie to me for 2 years and then one day say that our relationship isnt going anywere while we are planning our wedding. im just frusterated because girls like to toy with my emotions. Dude your a pssy now seriously, people wont like that I said that to you, including you but thats what u sound like im sure i do sound like that and im not mad at you for saying it its your opinin even if i disagree. Im surprised the girls havent told you yet give it time im sure they will. |
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there are no single girls that are actually looking for a relationship and are willing to meet. all the single girls are single because they want to be and they like t toy around with guys like me. whenever you try and meet someone they always either make up an excuse or say its too soon. whatever happened t people actually wanting to go out? im looking for some kind of response or answer. Im playing nice today and not saying anything ok you go ahead and play nice LOL!!! Nahhhhhhhhh..... Dude just go out and have fun, no girl should mess up ur night just because she cancels on you or says its too soon well it wouldnt bother me if it wass just one girl but its been everyone i have tried to date since my fioncee left me for a woman... OUCH!!!! Im sorry to hear that dude...It seems like your being really needy right now which is really making you unattractive to the opposite sex oh at this point im just sick of it all. this is me venting and trying to understand. im just so sick of being jerked around I think what your saying is I need a rebound and the best thing for you to do is be alone...Till your over this other girl nope i dont need a rebound girl i need a girl who wont lie to me for 2 years and then one day say that our relationship isnt going anywere while we are planning our wedding. im just frusterated because girls like to toy with my emotions. Dude your a pssy now seriously, people wont like that I said that to you, including you but thats what u sound like im sure i do sound like that and im not mad at you for saying it its your opinin even if i disagree. |
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First and foremost dont dwell on the negative. Second, ask someone worth wid. You are probably only asking those super skinny b*tches that wouldn't be caught dead out eating something anyway. Third, relax and just breathe. Fourth, CONFIDENCED, it's attractive. ok for the first. i dont normally let it get to me like this. second i ask out the people that actually can hold a conversation with me. third. i do my best but when i do yoga it normally stresses me out. fourth. im confident in person just online i cant prove anything so my confidence is gone. in person i have scars to show and stuff that i can use to prove what i say. i dont lie and i despise people that do. its all just rather disapointing |
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oh at this point im just sick of it all. this is me venting and trying to understand. im just so sick of being jerked around Didn't you say that at one time you liked being jerked around??? Hey, I'm just saying....... well mars pensivania? whatever..... and no i have never claimed to like being jerked around in any sense of the words. i much prefer cuddling up and listening to music or talking. No, Not mars pensivania. Mars, Pennsylvania! BTW - do you like show tunes??? I'm just asking???? show tunes arnt bad. oh well i misspelled it lol. |
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there are no single girls that are actually looking for a relationship and are willing to meet. all the single girls are single because they want to be and they like t toy around with guys like me. whenever you try and meet someone they always either make up an excuse or say its too soon. whatever happened t people actually wanting to go out? im looking for some kind of response or answer. Im playing nice today and not saying anything ok you go ahead and play nice LOL!!! Nahhhhhhhhh..... Dude just go out and have fun, no girl should mess up ur night just because she cancels on you or says its too soon well it wouldnt bother me if it wass just one girl but its been everyone i have tried to date since my fioncee left me for a woman... OUCH!!!! Im sorry to hear that dude...It seems like your being really needy right now which is really making you unattractive to the opposite sex oh at this point im just sick of it all. this is me venting and trying to understand. im just so sick of being jerked around I think what your saying is I need a rebound and the best thing for you to do is be alone...Till your over this other girl nope i dont need a rebound girl i need a girl who wont lie to me for 2 years and then one day say that our relationship isnt going anywere while we are planning our wedding. im just frusterated because girls like to toy with my emotions. |
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ok Chris that's a little wild.. Have you thought of going back to men if women are such jerks? men were worse to me than the women are.... the men seem to knw exactly how to hurt me so im staying away from that kind of relationship Well I agree there.. I may need to switch teams... Chris you are so going about this the wrong way... IF you try to find it you won't.. IT will avoid you... What is that saying "a watched pot never boils".... true the watched pot never boils but a house was never built by sitting around and doing nothing I know and really stupid people have procreated b/c they were allowed to have sex... It's 6 of one 1/2 dz of another or a horse a piece... you do make a good point and seem intelligent but i still feel like i need to look in order to find. |
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oh at this point im just sick of it all. this is me venting and trying to understand. im just so sick of being jerked around Didn't you say that at one time you liked being jerked around??? Hey, I'm just saying....... well mars pensivania? whatever..... and no i have never claimed to like being jerked around in any sense of the words. i much prefer cuddling up and listening to music or talking. |
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ok Chris that's a little wild.. Have you thought of going back to men if women are such jerks? men were worse to me than the women are.... the men seem to knw exactly how to hurt me so im staying away from that kind of relationship Well I agree there.. I may need to switch teams... Chris you are so going about this the wrong way... IF you try to find it you won't.. IT will avoid you... What is that saying "a watched pot never boils".... true the watched pot never boils but a house was never built by sitting around and doing nothing |
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