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Sat 04/12/08 10:19 PM

i missed you all and hi to the newer people and welcome,,,,i'll try to be on more often now :smile:



welcome back!

thank you!

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Sat 04/12/08 10:17 PM
6 weeks!

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Sat 04/12/08 10:09 PM
First what kind of business do you work in?

Did he have good cause to come in?

You say you tried to avoid him, why couldn't you?

Since you were 14 yrs old when the restraining order was issued you were a minor.

You just might need a new one since you are an adult, especially since you allowed contact and did not report it.

You should keep in mind when whatever happened happened when you were a minor, and he may have been waiting for you to turn 18 to come back around.

Protect yourself!

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Sat 04/12/08 10:04 PM

I had a restraining order for five years. I heard you can get one for life.

Kat


I have one for life on my ex! Thank God! Took him trying to kidnap my 3 month old son to get it!

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Sat 04/12/08 10:01 PM

I think by your not calling the police you may have nullified the order.


Yep!

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Sat 04/12/08 09:56 PM

I kept mine for a while and then got rid of them. That is actually when I knew I was done grieving because I could get rid of them with no qualms.



Same here!

If I get rid of them right away I start to feel guilty, sad and lonely, but if I grieve, come to the point enough is enough and OUT it all goes! drinker :tongue: drinker :tongue: drinker :tongue:

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Sat 04/12/08 09:41 PM
I would discuss it with the person you are talking to. You will be able to tell by the way the person answers if it is true or not.

By keeping quiet you will act different when talking to the person and they will know something is up.

Plus whatever was your ex told you about this person he/she may say something that will remind what you were told and you will start to believe your ex w/o the person you are talking to side.

Just be up front with the person you are talking to. Especially if there is an interest there.

Plus if you don't talk to this person your ex will know you didn't and just might tell you more, and add to some not so truth knowing you won't say a word. Especially if he is jealous and/or still interested in you.

Do yourself a favor and tell the person what has been said about them!

flowerforyou

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Sat 04/12/08 07:33 AM
Happy Birthday (((Coco))) flowerforyou

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Sat 04/12/08 07:24 AM
Damn been awhile since I have been in here.

Good morning everyone!

Damn rain! Boys double header got canceled this morning again because of the damn rain. grumble

Where is the damn sunshine? Damn warm weather?

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Sat 04/12/08 07:19 AM
Good morning everyone. Smells so good in here.

*grabs a blueberry muffin and some hot chocolate*

Hey Tommy nice to see you here. How are you doing?

Morning Robin!

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Sat 04/12/08 06:49 AM
Hey Tommy, we do not know one another I am new here to JSH I can see you are so well loved I hope we get the chance to become friends as well

I am glad you are back and on your way to recovery. flowerforyou

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Sat 04/12/08 06:44 AM
OMG! Yes! sick

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Sat 04/12/08 06:43 AM
Yes, I would sign a prenup.

For many reasons.

The biggest reason is to let him know I love him for him not his money or his material things.

:heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

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Fri 04/11/08 11:49 PM
It is over.

Staying together just delays the inevitable!

You can forgive but you can never forget!

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Fri 04/11/08 11:48 PM
The first time he makes fun of me....he is out the door and hopefully with it hitting him in the arse as he goes.

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Fri 04/11/08 11:45 PM

Why are men like this. I have someone in my life who is the same way. What makes them think they are that special that they can do things like that to us. Grrrrrr. How can they do something to us they know will cause great pain.

Anyway, good for you for nipping it in the bud. drinker


Because we let them. We hurt and can't get over it as fast as they do. So when they want to come back we let them. Thinking this time it is going to be different. The cycle starts all over. :cry:

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Fri 04/11/08 11:40 PM

My ex called me this morning. I thought, ok, something happened. Ya know? Well, I answered the phone only to hear him say Happy Anniversary! I'm like what?! He says, oh todays our wedding anniversary! WTH? I told him, Wow! You remembered! It took 14 years of Marriage and two years of being legally seperated but you finally remembered!grumble So I asked him since he was starting to remember things if he would remember to sign the divorce papers! He hung up. Go figure!noway grumble


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Good for you!

Way to stand up for you!

I love it when us women can give to the men what they give to us.

They treat us like yo-yo's....throw us out and then string us back in when it is convenient for them or no one else will put up with their ****! The grass is NEVER greener on the other side.

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Fri 04/11/08 11:34 PM
~sigh~ still single!

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Fri 04/11/08 11:32 PM
I did. drinker

Boyfriend cheated. brokenheart

Child was from Satan and raised by psychos! explode

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Fri 04/11/08 11:19 PM
Been waiting for an email with my challenge I mean match laugh
I am ready set and waiting