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Sat 04/05/08 04:19 PM





You need more than 90 posts to become established.


:tongue: Whahooooo I have over 90 posts! Come on I am established! Bring on the emails. :tongue:



Hit 100 and I'll e-mail you. Only don't ask me to marry you in the first e-mail.



But But 100 posts should at least get me a proposal, right? blushing

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Sat 04/05/08 04:14 PM



You need more than 90 posts to become established.


:tongue: Whahooooo I have over 90 posts! Come on I am established! Bring on the emails. :tongue:

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Sat 04/05/08 04:09 PM

Yeah you would think people come on a site like this to chat and maybe meet. I have found that not to me true.....

Maybe its me but I rather think its themlaugh


Exactly! I email everyone back to acknowledge I got their email. I am honest if I am not interested. Well the two emails I have gotten. 50yr something men. Duh! hello can't u read...ages 38-40 grumble

Yeah it is them not us. laugh

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Sat 04/05/08 04:05 PM



I have done searches and found some interesting profiles. I have emailed a couple of them. I say, "Hi, how are you your profile came up in my search. Would you like to chat? But I do not get replies.

What should I say when I email them? So I don't sound like a dork.


I wish I knew what to tell you. I have NEVER gotten a reply here when I e-mailed someone first. After I was here for awhile, and had established myself in the forums, people started e-mailing me. Now I get tons of mail here. But I won't mail anybody first anymore. As I like to say, if I wanted to be ignored, I could have stayed married.


as Lex said, establish yourself in the forums first.......good luck drinker drinker drinker


I am all over in the forums. I even have rate my profile too I even taken advice and redid my profile a cpl times. I think I like it now. Except I might put the pic of me n my boys back on as main pic

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Sat 04/05/08 04:03 PM


I have done searches and found some interesting profiles. I have emailed a couple of them. I say, "Hi, how are you your profile came up in my search. Would you like to chat? But I do not get replies.

What should I say when I email them? So I don't sound like a dork.
I don't know but, if they can't accept u for u than tell them to kick dirt


That is for sure accept me for me or hit the dirt

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Sat 04/05/08 04:02 PM


I have done searches and found some interesting profiles. I have emailed a couple of them. I say, "Hi, how are you your profile came up in my search. Would you like to chat? But I do not get replies.

What should I say when I email them? So I don't sound like a dork.


I wish I knew what to tell you. I have NEVER gotten a reply here when I e-mailed someone first. After I was here for awhile, and had established myself in the forums, people started e-mailing me. Now I get tons of mail here. But I won't mail anybody first anymore. As I like to say, if I wanted to be ignored, I could have stayed married.





laugh laugh That is for sure! Yeah I probably won't be emailing first any more either.

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Sat 04/05/08 03:49 PM
I have done searches and found some interesting profiles. I have emailed a couple of them. I say, "Hi, how are you your profile came up in my search. Would you like to chat? But I do not get replies.

What should I say when I email them? So I don't sound like a dork.

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Sat 04/05/08 03:46 PM
Home. Bored. Looking for someone to chat. Bored!

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Sat 04/05/08 03:29 PM

I think it's nice. Assuming all 3 guys in pics are your sons cuz one looks a bit older?

Only suggestion I would have on the profile description .. cut the first sentence. Should start out positive, not negative. And anyway it's useless. Who would say "Cheaters over here" :wink: No one WANTS a cheater. To me, it screams "I've been cheated on" and that expresses bitterness. IMHO I'd steer clear if I was a guy.

Good luck and welcome to JSH flowerforyou




Yes, all three boys are mine. My oldest is 22, middle 17 and youngest 15.

Well I did it again I changed pic and about me. Tell me what you think now.

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Sat 04/05/08 01:34 PM

women like that makes it seriously hard for us women that is real to find anyone decent.



That is for sure. grumble grumble grumble

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Sat 04/05/08 01:29 PM
"Too pissed to try, and too lonely to give up."

grumble I so hear you and feel your pain and frustration grumble

You would think with all the dating sites out there, and all the lonely people, we all would find someone and no one would be lonely and/or frustrated any more!


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Sat 04/05/08 01:14 PM

I meet a wonderful lady last weekend from this site, and she is like everything I ever wanted in a girl. I just want to propose to her so effing bad and spend my life with her. And we are talking about one of us moving in with each other already. Are we just crazy or has love struck us hard? Or should we take time and go slow and see what happens?


Good for the both of you. :heart: I hope to find that kind of love! :heart: Follow your heart, it will not lie to you.
I agree too if you are asking us our opinion, you might want to consider stepping back and do some soul searching and maybe ask her the question you asked us.
Heart felt GOOD LUCK TO YOU BOTH! drinker

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Sat 04/05/08 01:06 PM
Scorpio

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Sat 04/05/08 12:46 PM
Damn my boys games were canceled. Damn I was all mind set to be at the park all day.
Went and got my damn groceries instead.
Damn now I am bored. Home alone.

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Sat 04/05/08 05:53 AM
got tired of the bf cheating. woke up one day and said enough is enough get out

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Sat 04/05/08 05:42 AM
I am in the Toledo, Ohio area

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Sat 04/05/08 05:39 AM
Edited by Sassy_4u on Sat 04/05/08 05:40 AM
Thanks SKPCG!

I love the rainbow background. Did you have your pic taken by a professional or were u able to put that on yourself?

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Sat 04/05/08 05:37 AM
define shy

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Fri 04/04/08 05:46 AM

Get the negative cheater stuff out of it. Get some pics of just yourself in clothes that show off your figure & get a haircut. You asked, that's my opinion.


Of course, I won't take out the negative cheater stuff. I have had enough cheating to last 10 life times. I do not want a cheater.

Get a hair cut??????? What cut my hair short??

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Fri 04/04/08 05:40 AM
S-I-N-G-L-E!!! :tongue: