what have you learned about yourself, and what would you do differently next time?

I have learned that I choose the wrong men and I need to be more particular about who I choose now.

I have learned a lot from all of my life experiences, relationhips included.

the next time i see a diamond, i will aim for the nuts.

Never confuse sexual compatability with Love.

I've learned that it won't be right unless I've convinced myself, through much mental arguing, that I cannot exist without that person. And that, of course, will also be an illusion...

my groin is hurtin..............

Next time I will try to not take my girlfriend/wife for granted. Not just enough to love her, but that she feels loved.

Make a better choice.

.............................................................................................................................how much time you really got ??? .....that would be a long long list !!!


~wicked~

I will definitely take at least a year to get to know a guy before making any major life changes for him...such as moving in with him or getting engaged. I tell ya ladies....moving too fast with a guy before getting to really know him....well, that's just asking for catastrophe.

I learned that no matter how much i tell my self that he will change, or that he has changed, its never true...even if he admits to hitting his ex, and saids he will never do it again. Its not true...oh and i need to stay away from the convicts

not to be so passive......ever again............

Hypnotic, and Hennessey is on my list
Seductively, moving my body
Now watch me rock my hips
Take a sip of that goose
I'm looking good and living lavish
Big boy pimping pop and dippin'
Now tell me I'm not the baddest

The most consistent dysfunction in all my relationships is me. I found that out a long time ago. I looked at a series of failed relationships over the course of over ten years and I essentially was in the same type of dysfunction again and again.
I went for the vulnerable/needy albeit beautiful woman.
I wanted to be needed more than loved.
So just getting divorced after 17 years, I really need to not rush into anything(which I already did, same needy woman-same result)I need to take a long look at you know you again.

good idea....................

I would never REALLY argue.
Work less.
Tell her; "I LOVE you!"; several times, everyday.

needless to say i learned that the hard way. But its done and over with..I'm looking to the future

cool. keep it that way babe............hugs to ya.......

i learned that i need to step back and look at the situation before i get involved and that people cant be changed if the situation is bad and to someday feel what it feels like to be loved back.