Wisconsin. Since it is beautiful.

Good fines. Glad to see there are some others that have Holiday humor.

The main reason I stay away from Facebook.

Just wondering if anyone else has seen this..

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/33838894/ns/technology_and_science-space

Hello,
I think and believe that we should spend the funds on a continued education. College degrees cost a lot less than jails, prisons, and some rehab places.
Just my thoughts...

I would say neither. Since Wally World (Wal -mart) rips off employees, health care and benefits. And then the customer who thinks’ they are getting a good deal, news flash, Wal-Mart’s products are made from the cheapest quality that suppliers can find since they are forced into a price locked quota for Wally world to sell their products.(just call the suppliers, they will tell you that).
And I did work at a Wal-Mart DC so I know this for a fact but I got smart and quit; with the head games and the rest of Wally’s ****. And I thought the military played head games when I was in.
And if you were to go to Wal-Mart for employment, full time is around 26 - 31 hours weekly, so you will need that Kmart job as well.

And this was a way to say what? That you don't mind putting others at risk? "I stopped in the middle of a 4 lane thoroughfare. I came to a dead stop. I knew that if he also stopped, his intent was to cause me harm. Sure enough, he stopped right".
Something don't smell right about this at all....

Your answer is yes. In today’s online world it is very easy for anyone to gather information from your computer when you are online. All it takes is certain software and knowledge on how to steal someone’s ID.
But as long as you have some protection for your computer; as in firewalls, but you need to have your firewall or router set up right. Then you should be okay.

Mon 04/13/09 09:08 AMQUOTE:

The problem with spending time with my sons during the week is that I work second shift.(she has also told them that I could see them during the week) If I could go to first with out the difference in pay, and the loss of my position that could be a way of taking care of that.(state of the economy has factors in this as well)



"Well, this just answered it all.

No point in posting more, at least to me.

And I will add your posts are WICKED defensive"

Ok were did I miss read this?

In response to this posting that you make. During your response to my post, you say to me using the word "you". I respond by showing simple facts that show the reasoning behind my post. And then you say I go "sixth grade on everyone" which seems to further more false accusations.
Now maybe I have miss-interpreted what you wrote since you probably should have used “parents” in reference to using “you”. But could you explain where I go sixth grade on “everyone” in my response to your post?

In response to your post. I think that for some, this is a way of venting their past; since they have not been able to get past that point in their life. So this is their personal way of dealing with hate, rejection, misery and anger. and what ever they can do to make others feel the same way as them makes them feel good, or is it that they are Bipolar?
I know what you are saying, I have this one forum troll that seems to follow me whenever I decide to post and turn something simple I ask into like me trying to take over the world. But then again I see her posting a lot of negative responses on the forums toward a lot of other posters. Wow she must have a lot of hate inside of her. I just hope that one day she finds her happiness and can move ahead of her past.

And the "non residential" parent has all this make believe money? I am not sure of the agreement or arrangements you made in your divorce, But We split the bills,except for her rent,utilities ect. My insurance is primary on our sons. And to top that off; Yes I pay child support on top of that.

"The point is, there are two sides to every story.
Don't just look at yours. "

I had to drag this down here, Your have a valid point, But unlike you claim that I tend to be looking upon "just mine", I unlike you dont hold hate or resentment towards my past. Just as I have said my sons have asked me for more time, and as well they have asked thier mom since "they know that she doesn't like to spend time with them" which comes from thier mouths. If I must place this fact in here.

"The short answer is yes to both..."

Which I can agree with you on that.

"One thing you should try to do is look at the situation from the Mother's perspective. She is there, in her mind she did not leave, YOU did; Regardless of how this transpired. How easy is it for you to be the "fun" parent? "

Your right on maybe the first sentence. But that is the problem in todays society, "push the blame towards others" and pretend we we right from the start.


"She is there EVERY day, after school, after work, during dinner, during homework, report card day, sick day, bed time, bath time and any other time with the children when they are having good times or bad."

This one I can say you are wrong on, since the reason being is that "mom" is not there; She shows up an hour or so before bed time. that is why they want to spend more time here. And this is why I posted this.

"Understanding is part of my first answer. You, as a father, must strive to do all you can to teach your children right from wrong. The right thing to do here would be to accept the will of the Mother, above all else she deserves as much respect as she can get; Once she sees that you understand where she coming from, things WILL change.
Fighting only makes YOU out to be the jerk, the children, no matter how you try, will see this."

I dont personally recall saying that I confront her in front of our children, nor do I recall saying that we fight in front of them or even fight at all. I try to work with her and I don't bad mouth her as well.(not to say she wouldn't deserve it)

"Who in the situation will have the largest influence in the end over the children? The Mother, because they will see her hurting and angry before they see you. Right or Wrong that is what they will see, and that is wrong."

Not always is this the situation; not all children have been raised with blinders on. Durring my marriage, our children were taught to look at both sides, giving them the option choice. finding out right from wrong and how decisions can effect the outcome.

Thank you to all ...
I for one will NOT re-marry her... for reasons not to be said.(I had to edit), I hope you are joking..
My sons have informed the GC at school and child services about what is going on, but nothing is being done. (there are reasons for child services to be involved)
And going to court just seems to makes the judge turn his ear's away from the matters. Which makes it hard on me since my sons are not of age to have the right to say with who they prefer to live with.(1 more year for my oldest son)
The problem with spending time with my sons durring the week is that I work second shift.(she has also told them that I could see them durring the week) If I could go to first with out the difference in pay, and the loss of my position that could be a way of taking care of that.(state of the economy has factors in this as well)

Hello and good day to all. I would like to take the time to ask a question about "spending time" with your children.
As for me I am a divorced father with two children that I (thru court) see every other weekend (which is hard) for the last three years.
Now with that lil info; my question is for those that have full time parenting rights. and also for those of us who don't.
O.K, my sons want to spend more time with me and that means on the "off" weekends which I am more than willing to do. Now the problem is that "mom" does not want them to come here since she claims she wants to spend time with them as well.but on those weekends she has them, she doesn't do anything with them. She will take them to places and leave them alone for hours; or when she is at her "boyfriends" home; they (my sons) do not see mom until she is ready to go home. Dont get me wrong, every once in a blue moon she will play a game that only last a half hour with them; when they are with me I take the time to talk with them and play video games and or watch them. I know that you can say to me "since you only have them on certain weekends" that I do try to do as much with them, but you would be wrong. When I was married I spent a lot of time doing stuff with my sons just as I do now.
So my question is... What do you consider spending time with your chlidren? knowing that they are somewhere around you, or taking time to be in the child life and doing things with them?
I ask this since I want to understand the logic behind not allowing children to spend more time with someone who wants to take the time to do things with the children?

.I would have to say no. I look at it like a period of my life that I was able to spend with someone that I really cared for; other than being alone.

Hi,
Well; I would be more apt to say that a 5 or 6 year old computer has seen better days. Probably time to replace it since it will be very hard to find parts even to upgrade it and it would be more than a waste of money.

You can go and get those free spyware removal tools for your computer, but be certain you know what you are doing so you don’t delete certain registry items by mistake. Especially if you get "super antispyware" since it has a tendency to remove some registry items that are needed.

If you decide to keep the computer you have maybe find an external HD (hard drive) to save programs and items that you want. Then reformat your hard drive. If you decide to do a format of your HD, do a complete format in which it deletes everything since some spyware can hide in your memory.

LOL...Good point...Complainers; way Too many of them on here anymore.

Have fun. And don't forget the coffee...

I got the puppies part..