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Topic: Do you see
wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sat 04/11/09 02:58 PM
Divorced people as damaged goods?

ladywolf9653's photo
Sat 04/11/09 02:59 PM
Nope, but I'm biased, lol. And with the divorce rate in this country, excluding divorced people will seriously narrow your selection pool.

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:00 PM

Divorced people as damaged goods?


While not divorced yet, I do feel damaged. Don't really give a **** if people see me that way.

no photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:03 PM
I don't feel damaged because of the divorce -- I feel damaged because of the marriage.


MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:04 PM

I don't feel damaged because of the divorce -- I feel damaged because of the marriage.




Spoken like a true non-goat.flowerforyou

zman000081's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:04 PM
tears Damaged goods here tears

Hey that just means I go on the 50% off rack now laugh laugh


wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:05 PM

tears Damaged goods here tears

Hey that just means I go on the 50% off rack now laugh laugh


Well saidlaugh

no photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:05 PM


I don't feel damaged because of the divorce -- I feel damaged because of the marriage.




Spoken like a true non-goat.flowerforyou


Well, goats are smart enough not to get married.


wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:07 PM



I don't feel damaged because of the divorce -- I feel damaged because of the marriage.




Spoken like a true non-goat.flowerforyou


Well, goats are smart enough not to get married.


That's truedrinker I do have the word goat tattooed on me though

ReddBeans's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:10 PM
We're all damaged goods in way or another. The only important thing is if we let that damage rule us or we rule itshades

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:12 PM

We're all damaged goods in way or another. The only important thing is if we let that damage rule us or we rule itshades
Sooo trueflowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:15 PM

I don't feel damaged because of the divorce -- I feel damaged because of the marriage.






You took the words right out of my mouth

no photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:23 PM
To be perfectly honest...I'm more concerned with someone (especially over age 40 or 50) that hasn't been married...makes me wonder if they have commitment issues or just want to play the field. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, but I'd rather have more in common with someone...& unfortunately, one of those things is divorce. There's no shame if your marriage didn't work out for any reason...unless you bring shame to yourself & constantly rag on that person... It didn't work out...let it go & move on...ohwell

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:26 PM

To be perfectly honest...I'm more concerned with someone (especially over age 40 or 50) that hasn't been married...makes me wonder if they have commitment issues or just want to play the field. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, but I'd rather have more in common with someone...& unfortunately, one of those things is divorce. There's no shame if your marriage didn't work out for any reason...unless you bring shame to yourself & constantly rag on that person... It didn't work out...let it go & move on...ohwell
Well said lovely ladyblushing

Pink_lady's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:27 PM

Divorced people as damaged goods?


Certainly not!!

We r all damaged at some point of our lives, but we heal. U dont have to be married to someone to be damaged by them.

As far as im concerned, we r like bones, if we break, we knit back together again, it may never look the same, but its healed.

Theres no such thing as "damaged goods" when talking about ppl, because we r not goods.

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:30 PM

I don't feel damaged because of the divorce -- I feel damaged because of the marriage.




omg.. i sooooooooooooooooooooooo agree with this

no photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:37 PM

Divorced people as damaged goods?



Nope I don't think so. I think it is better to get out if it isn't working. Staying in it would make us damaged goods.


no photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:37 PM
I don't see us(divorced people)as damaged goods, but more as a learned/experienced group! Only you can let yourself be a damaged product of divorced. I refuse to let that happen. I've been through 2, so...I look at myself as a survivor!!!drinker :banana: drinks shades

writer_gurl's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:39 PM



I don't feel damaged because of the divorce -- I feel damaged because of the marriage.




Spoken like a true non-goat.flowerforyou


Well, goats are smart enough not to get married.



Very true:tongue:

MLG40's photo
Sat 04/11/09 03:41 PM
.I would have to say no. I look at it like a period of my life that I was able to spend with someone that I really cared for; other than being alone.

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