I know she is totally into me, When a woman is into a guy you can tell by the way she looks at you.

I told her that I was very glad she felt that way and I would be honored to be with her.

Oh she got a reply, we have been going out for over a year and a half and to be completely honest I have not told her this but I'm heart broken.

Why would my girlfriend tell me she wants kids and that I'm the man she wants to be with, and then 2 days later tell me she needs to take 2 steps back and just be friends? thats all there is to the story and nothing else has happened.

So sorry to hear about this, I just recently went through something similar but after awhile of constantly getting burned you will find out it gets easy to forget and just move on. sounds like you may have smothered her, just back off and don't act mopey around her and see if she just might not run back to you. If she is worth a damn she will!

yes

what else would you like to know?

Actually I heard that quote from my mother she is my mothers boss

So this girl tells me she really wants to get into a relationship and get to know me, calling and texting every day then she never calls and text messages every once in awhile. says she needs to get her head right WTF???????????????????????????????????

I'm looking for a woman I will fix that now thanks!

I'm a 42 year old male. Where do you go and meet women? I'm sorry but meeting on-line seems very non-personal. Roaming the isles of the local grocery store and coffee shop seem hit and miss at best,Going to church just to try to meet women seems wrong. So any sugestions from both sexes would be great!

Hi guys well let me tell you an embarassing situation: I've been seeing this girl who is going through a divorce, I thought it was just about over but come to find out it is just beginning and probably won't be over until next year. well we been getting pretty serious and it became the time to do the old sex thing, she is not on birth control so we did the rubber thing, I hate them. can't feel anything. Well lets just say it was rather awkward and things did not go well. I just gave up! well afterwards I got this look. like man this is not a good idea, and she basically left. called later and told me that we need to take a couple of steps back. I guess that even if I dig this girl I need to move on! thanks just had to vent.

Hey, I just got off the phone with her and guess what, She said she had plans for New Years, but she would change them, Now I know PUA will hate this tatic, but I believe that honesty is the best policy. I told her I wanted her, and was thinking nasty thoughts about her, I guess this really turned her on! so who would of known?

I'm sorry I guess I'm not awake this morning! I meant a christmas party. I'll ask her out for new years if she has plans for that one to I'll take the hint and move on!

Boy not what I like to hear, Man i've been chasing her for a very long time!

Sorry about that, Yea your right that does sound pretty gamey.

Ok here it is. I've known this girl for over a year now. We have been really good friends. now we've been out on a couple of dates now and pretty much talk every night. She has told me that I'm the one she is looking for. She likes me alot, with all this being said I really dig this girl and was really excited to really start getting serious. Now here is the problem, after all the feelings were put on the table, she talks to one of her friends and now she is pretty much telling me all these holiday parties and functions she has to go to, none of which include me. She sort of started giving me a brush off attitude then tells me that she thinks are relationship will go far. I'm really confused, I never have shown any anger, wimpiness,(except for here) what I plan to do is lay low and let her chase me for awhile is this a good approach or is there something else I should try? Oh by the way I invited her to a new years eve party and she told me she already had made plans months ago. Never heard this before sort of made mention to this in an earlier conversation and she said she would go.!

Thanks for the advice mbcasey, all this has helped out alot, You are right it's all about insecurities on my part, I will just smile and keep going like I am, and she will let me know if she wants me to step in. Thanks all of you!