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Topic: What does this mean?
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Sat 12/15/07 09:00 AM
So this girl tells me she really wants to get into a relationship and get to know me, calling and texting every day then she never calls and text messages every once in awhile. says she needs to get her head right WTF???????????????????????????????????

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Sat 12/15/07 09:01 AM
'Only fools rush in, where Angels fear to tread.'

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Sat 12/15/07 09:01 AM
Thats not very nice of her...

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Sat 12/15/07 09:02 AM
She probably found someone else dude, move on.


Its happened to me in the past.

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Sat 12/15/07 09:05 AM
yep, got ahead of herself and either found a new guy or changed her mind. to the curb she goes.....

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Sat 12/15/07 09:07 AM
Ahhhh, won't anyone give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she is busy with work or life.

Then again, as said before...if you have time to pee, you have time to text.

Is she giving you the answer she is getting her head straight? I don't know. Something does not seem quite right.

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Sat 12/15/07 09:09 AM
Actually I heard that quote from my mother she is my mothers boss

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Sat 12/15/07 09:10 AM
Ever heard of scared herself?

Ever heard of gunshy?

Ever heard of perhaps YOU did or said something?


I also hear half a story here...huh

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Sat 12/15/07 09:10 AM
what else would you like to know?

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Sat 12/15/07 09:10 AM
move on dude!drinker

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Sat 12/15/07 09:16 AM

Actually I heard that quote from my mother she is my mothers boss
First of all... BAD idea to date your mother's boss!
if she is "gettin her head on straight" she is moving on... you should too.

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Sat 12/15/07 09:17 AM
You are dating your mother's boss?

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Sat 12/15/07 09:18 AM
that means run man run
laugh

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Sat 12/15/07 09:18 AM
yes

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Sat 12/15/07 09:22 AM
All you are going to get from us is speculation.... Mostly negative from what I see.

If you need clarification on what getting her head on straight means specifically, I'd be asking the owner of the head.

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Sat 12/15/07 09:28 AM

All you are going to get from us is speculation.... Mostly negative from what I see.

If you need clarification on what getting her head on straight means specifically, I'd be asking the owner of the head.


I agree jist, Ask her!!! It could be fear, it could be someone else, it could be a whole lot of things, ask herbigsmile

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Sat 12/15/07 09:47 AM

Actually I heard that quote from my mother she is my mothers boss


maybe she has been talking to your mom and does not understand or like some of what she has heard. or your mom may not like you dating her boss.... may cause problems at work. There could be many reasons but the only way is to ask her and tell her your concerns and questions.

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Sat 12/15/07 09:49 AM
who knows? why ponder on it? if ya gotta ponder then move on..... ask her why? that would be my suggestion an open communication... glflowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 12/15/07 09:56 AM
I don't see the point in asking her... if she was planning on being honest about it, she would have told you and not went thru your mom to pass that kind of message on to you. This is why you should never date your mother's boss. She is old enough to tell you herself what is or isn't feeling and should be keeping things in your relationship between just you two.

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Sat 12/15/07 10:15 AM
Edited by Jistme on Sat 12/15/07 10:16 AM

I don't see the point in asking her... if she was planning on being honest about it, she would have told you and not went thru your mom to pass that kind of message on to you.
Both good and bad communication in relationships generally takes two. Usually bad is predicated by assumptions and expectations on both parts.

Trying to open the lines of communication is a pretty harmless act, whether she chooses to cooperate or not. At least he can walk away, knowing he tried. Or at best.. reconcile...

Either way.. we are only hearing half..maybe even less then half of the story, since Mom is in the mix. We are in no position to say what is going on.

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