Hi guys well let me tell you an embarassing situation: I've been seeing this girl who is going through a divorce, I thought it was just about over but come to find out it is just beginning and probably won't be over until next year. well we been getting pretty serious and it became the time to do the old sex thing, she is not on birth control so we did the rubber thing, I hate them. can't feel anything. Well lets just say it was rather awkward and things did not go well. I just gave up! well afterwards I got this look. like man this is not a good idea, and she basically left. called later and told me that we need to take a couple of steps back. I guess that even if I dig this girl I need to move on! thanks just had to vent.

sometimes you have to look over the bad times jim..look at it this time maybe she feels bad about it and really digs you...if you think you can spend the rest of your life with her then stick it out..i would...waiting for 6 months till the div becomes final is just a formality...it will give you more time to really get to know the girl...and how she really is..and you never know she may have more going on down there then she is willing to let you know at this point...advice from dave..3 time looser...

Don't feel bad. Concerning the condom problem/situation, we've ALL been there before - trust me. Condoms suck. Add to it the pressure of the situation (the 1st time), and other factors, things may not go well.

Concerning the divorce thing - sounds like she was not completely upfront w/you, so I would move on and don't look back. There are tons of flakey girls (and guys) out there - looks like you just found one of them. If she was truly interested, she would have given you a different response.

You're living very dangerously...a guy I used to work with was just arrested for murdering the dude that was putting it to his wife. They were not yet divorced. Shot him 8 times with a 9mm. He's going away to prison for life but the other dude is dead.

Be careful.