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Topic: Why would a woman do this?
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Sat 01/12/08 01:16 PM
Why would my girlfriend tell me she wants kids and that I'm the man she wants to be with, and then 2 days later tell me she needs to take 2 steps back and just be friends? thats all there is to the story and nothing else has happened.

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Sat 01/12/08 01:18 PM
Every story involving two people has two sides. Just because you can't see her side from you're perspective doesn't preclude it's existence.

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Sat 01/12/08 01:19 PM
Because most woman can't make up their minds.

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Sat 01/12/08 01:21 PM
LIFE GOES ON...I GOT DUMPED A FEW TIMES...THERES A LOT OF WOMEN OUT THERE....IF SHES THAT IFFY?????WHAT KIND OF FUTURE YOU TWO GOING TO HAVE??

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Sat 01/12/08 01:22 PM
just hang in there for a a while she does it again well tell her u dont have time for mind games and you move on

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Sat 01/12/08 01:24 PM

Why would my girlfriend tell me she wants kids and that I'm the man she wants to be with, and then 2 days later tell me she needs to take 2 steps back and just be friends? thats all there is to the story and nothing else has happened.


She might be confused and unsure so stepping back to get a handle on things.. It's hard to tell what's going through another persons mind...

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Sat 01/12/08 01:24 PM
1. she wants kids
2. she likes more than one guy and may not be truly committed

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Sat 01/12/08 01:25 PM


Why would my girlfriend tell me she wants kids and that I'm the man she wants to be with, and then 2 days later tell me she needs to take 2 steps back and just be friends? thats all there is to the story and nothing else has happened.


She might be confused and unsure so stepping back to get a handle on things.. It's hard to tell what's going through another persons mind...

See haha.. CAn't make up her mind.

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Sat 01/12/08 01:27 PM
i wouldn't say that she hadn't made up her mind.... :wink:
she may have...we just can't know.

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Sat 01/12/08 01:27 PM
huh

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Sat 01/12/08 01:28 PM
maybe when she told you that--she didnt get the reaction from you that she expected, and this made her re-evaluate your relationship--just a thought

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Sat 01/12/08 01:30 PM
maybe she can't make up her mind. laugh

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Sat 01/12/08 01:30 PM
Oh she got a reply, we have been going out for over a year and a half and to be completely honest I have not told her this but I'm heart broken.

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Sat 01/12/08 01:32 PM
How did you react? How long have you two been dating?

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Sat 01/12/08 01:32 PM
She's crazy ,run:smile:

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Sat 01/12/08 01:32 PM

Oh she got a reply, we have been going out for over a year and a half and to be completely honest I have not told her this but I'm heart broken.


Jim, as Noel said 'maybe she didn't get the reaction that SHE wanted'.. Doesn't mean it's right of her just means that maybe she was wanted to hear something different...

What was your response??

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Sat 01/12/08 01:33 PM

Why would my girlfriend tell me she wants kids and that I'm the man she wants to be with, and then 2 days later tell me she needs to take 2 steps back and just be friends? thats all there is to the story and nothing else has happened.
:heart: Jitters,,,,,,of commitement.
Or, new friend in her life.
or, YOU gave her SOME reason to doudt YOU.
Or, she was drunk when she first told you THAT!...lolbigsmile

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Sat 01/12/08 01:33 PM
either shes flat out crazy or you didnt respond the way she wanted you too.

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Sat 01/12/08 01:34 PM

Oh she got a reply, we have been going out for over a year and a half and to be completely honest I have not told her this but I'm heart broken.


tell her---be honest, but not pushy---maybe its that time of month, work, you???...we girls sometimes hold stuff in and then take it out on the ones we care about the most...it happens---ohwell

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Sat 01/12/08 01:34 PM
I told her that I was very glad she felt that way and I would be honored to be with her.

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