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Mon 01/07/08 12:30 PM

ewewewwwweeee ouch!


Hi honeyflowerforyou

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Mon 01/07/08 12:28 PM
Edited by kirota on Mon 01/07/08 12:29 PM

One nite stands are a good way to find out quickly if there is Chemistry....If it doesn't work out you don't have to go on a second adventure....laugh


It only takes one bad adventure for a pissed off husband to hunt you down or an STD to make it burn when ya pee.:wink: laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 01/07/08 12:25 PM
Hey, I would have no problem carrying a child for someone as long as I new that the child would be taken care of and loved. I could never give a child up of mine, but knowing that you are just the oven is easy.

I loved being pregnant......so it wouldn't really be a hardship for me.

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Mon 01/07/08 12:17 PM

hi Kirota ...flowerforyou
so good to see you drinker
and the strength and wisdom you exhibit drinker



a roll in the hay with some one you don't even know noway
~ let alone love ...huh
is not worth any of the possible repercussions noway

and when people allow married people
and players to have a field day,
then they are enabling promiscuity,
unfaithfulness & adultery sick

the "dogs in heat" and "alley cat "
mentality and behavior
reminds me of nothing more
than a bunch of cockroaches ...
no discretion or integrity
in their behavior...sick




Nice to meet you!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou Glad I'm not alone on some of my thinking.

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Mon 01/07/08 10:37 AM
This is my opinion on this......

People judge what they want on different parts of the person. For those that physical stimulation and they want the rock hard perfect body that is their person thing. It doen't make it right or wrong. Some choose others for the conversation and the intellectual stimulation. While others choose for the emotional conection. It just makes me laugh because the ones that base their whole selection process on physical are usually the ones wondering why they got cheated on or that they just can't seem to make the relationship work. This goes for women and men. I think there has to be an equal part from all three of these things for me.

I am not a tiny barbie type either. Before a near fatal car accident, two kids, and cancer it was. I guess the person that loves and and wants to be with me will love me for all of my faults the same as I will love them for theirs...Plus, I can always lose a few extra pounds, but personality and a great heart I already have. Judge me by those first.flowerforyou

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Mon 01/07/08 10:20 AM


I don't think that there has to be a set time that you are with someone that determines the amount of loss that you feel when it is over. My best advice to you is this. When I filed for divorce......even though it is what I wanted........I felt very lost and alone. I started chatting in forums like this and found this was a great way to fill the void that I felt from his presents being gone. Soon I thought about it less and less and now feel pretty good. There are great people here and if you give them a chance they will help you not feel so alone. I wish you the best.happy


It helps to know people who have made it through. A little scary bearing one's soul on a public forum. Just glad people are mature enough here to handle it. Thanks Kirota.


Anytime........I hope things get better for you.flowerforyou

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Mon 01/07/08 10:18 AM

your looking at the glass half full

you can get the same things for you better half. my x husband, nailed anything with legs in high school, did drugs and drank. unless you screen everyone you might be with and all there x's you just need to trust the person your with is honest. i understand you not wanting to die young... but hell i might die tomorrow i am really not worried what i die of if i make it to 90. i have kids, and iam ok being single right now, and having fun.


I didn't survive cancer to have a man whore kill me. Trust me I have faced death right in the face for something that I couldn't prevent.........but dying from aids is something I can prevent.

For some reason this as struck me wrong......half the reason relationships fail is because of cheating right? Well, did anybody every think that maybe because so many people are willing to have a one night stand that it makes it really easy for a cheater to take something home to their partner. Just a little food for thought. Enjoy the meal.

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Mon 01/07/08 09:41 AM
I might be just a bit jaded right now, but I have my reservations. I think you have to keep and open heart and a open mind. I personally think that you have to be willing to take the chance to be hurt in order to do online dating. If you are not willing to do that you will probably not see the rewards that it could bring. From recent events I don't think I am personally willing to do that, but good luck for those who are.:smile:

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Mon 01/07/08 09:32 AM


I'm still single because I am willing to wait for Mr Right instead of Mr Right Now.


That's pretty much me too. Though, I'm looking for the right woman. I'm probably picky. I'm asking for a lot I guess. But I'm willing to give a lot as well.




I hear ya..........I'm not looking for perfection......just perfect to me.flowerforyou

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Mon 01/07/08 09:30 AM
I don't think that there has to be a set time that you are with someone that determines the amount of loss that you feel when it is over. My best advice to you is this. When I filed for divorce......even though it is what I wanted........I felt very lost and alone. I started chatting in forums like this and found this was a great way to fill the void that I felt from his presents being gone. Soon I thought about it less and less and now feel pretty good. There are great people here and if you give them a chance they will help you not feel so alone. I wish you the best.happy

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Mon 01/07/08 09:24 AM
I'm still single because I am willing to wait for Mr Right instead of Mr Right Now.

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Sun 01/06/08 09:22 PM
I guess this is me personally.......I have never had a one night stand nor will I. First, for the simple fact I am worth more than one night of mind blowing sex. I would rather find the right person for me and have many nights of mind blowing sex that I can really trust and enjoy knowing that I didn't catch something deadly that could take me away from raising my daughters. Which brings up another point........I try to base every decision I make on the well being of my children. I don't want my daughters to ever think that causal sex is okay and not to worry about what could happen. JMO

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Sun 01/06/08 08:36 PM

I have references!!:wink: Good ones too!


You don't need any honey.........I already know enough about you to be "crushin":wink:

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Sun 01/06/08 08:34 PM

address?


lol........email me your references!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 01/06/08 08:21 PM
Attractive= a person with confidence, yet not arrogant. It is that special way they have that just makes you stare at them and you can't quit put your finger on one special thing, but the whole picture.

intelligence= being able to carry on more than a 15 minute conversation. Being able to stand up for what you mean and mean what you stand up for. It isn't always book smarts for me.

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Sun 01/06/08 08:14 PM
No crushes for me, but I am taking applications.

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Sat 01/05/08 03:02 PM


being strung along its not cool.it hurts .i know i'm not waiting for my ex yeah he needs to go off a cliff.if he tells you something you can assume hes lying.i think if you start something with someone else it isn't very fair of you either
Yea, I already have a girl sweating me and i know I cant act interested at all cuz i'm not. I don't do that to people. But i do wanna date


This is just my opinion, but if you aren't over your ex then you are not ready to date. I think people need to make sure that their heart and their head (even the little one) need to be on the same page.........good luckflowerforyou

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Sat 01/05/08 12:34 AM


Yes........crushing big time:wink:


oh please dont crush me im to fragile


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 01/05/08 12:25 AM
Yes........crushing big time:wink:

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Sat 01/05/08 12:23 AM
The first day of Capricorn.:smile:

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