the theoretical point is a possible relationship, which leads to possible marriage, which leads to children. it all boils down to sex, really. the world revolves around it. of course, individual people want specific things, like me for instance.

Most of the younger men I know are a waste of time. But then again I live in a smaller area.

I prefer older men. I like mature adults, with enough experience to laugh at themselves and have confidence in a relationship.

Oh wow.

I love video games!

sin39, you remind me of a good friend of mine. She has special dream-like abilities. She can connect the conciousness of two or more people dreaming or send people certain dreams. Its very cool.

beckys, just remember that beauty fades, a warm heart is irreplaceable. I would think that many men would rather have a kind woman to happily spend their days with than a pretty doll to sit and stare at.

Chazster, I get what your saying now.

player89 I dont think its any of your business whether or not I have a man, nor is there any relevance. Your advice sucks, and insults the intelligence of those who read it. I wish you'd just not post anymore but doubt thats gonna happen.

Chazster, I totally have to disagree. If a guy is showing minor interest in me then I usually get bored and walk away. Whats the point in a guy who wont be willing to pursue a girl he's interested in?

Bobzeaux, I'm sorry, I think I read that post of yours wrong. I don't know why the girl stopped emailing you, but her loss, right? You'll find that girl, just don't give up.

Yeah, an attractive 15 year old huh? You are ridiculous, and sickening. Confidence is sexy, but your attitude reeks. Start living in reality for the love aspirin.

being cocky never works. get real player, you obviously have no idea how to treat a lady with respect. or you wouldn't call yourself a "player" now would you? nobody here thinks your some mac daddy or pimp. in fact women see this as disgusting. so do yourself a favor and go get a life.

Your being pretty arrogant for someone who says women should be crawling all over you. They aren't for one reason: no attraction. Girls do not HAVE to respond to you, mate. She could have just been bored and found another guy who thought interested her more on her level. Its happened before to lots of people. Your not the first, OK? Personally I would find you pesky if you talked to me that way.

'Ho boy, another one of THOSE guys eh? What a loser. Not only may he be playing you but other women as well. Don't waste your time, find someone who's going to be honest from the start.

Not everybody is going to like you. Certain people are only attracted to certain traits; you may or may not land in the positive area every time you ask someone out. Just think of it this way: you cant please everyone, you can only be yourself and do your best. So prepare yourself for being rejected eventually but realize it happens to everyone and its not a big deal.

Hmm, so real women don't use computers then?

I'm a veggie nut...I love stuff like broccoli, olives (green or black) and radishes. and I like putting ranch dressing on a lot of different things too.

It sounds to me like you have some major self esteem issues. Lay aside dating for now and get back to working on yourself-you aren't ready yet. There will be plenty of time to get in the game once you've found your confidence.

I find that pretty funny, and not in a way you were probably hoping for.

Lying, as in keeping an illusion alive within their fragile self esteem? Hmm..interesting thought.

saturn isn't completely wrong shadow_princess, she's been the brunt of his verbal abuse before. honestly, all you have to do is read what he posts to get a picture of the way he is. and your remarks to jayme weren't any better, quite frankly. i think jayme was partly kidding and you took it way out of hand.