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Topic: What do I do?
Peaches73036's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:41 PM
Alright, I'm a little Confused,Happy,Excited and Alot more confused...A guy used a "fake" profile to get to know me..I wasn't threatned cause the age was not right for me, we talked on the phone alot, I really liked him but was not worried, Then he made another profile. The "fake" told me to give the "real" a chance. I did, Was very uncomfy at first but, Started liking the "real" one. Then bam...He called me and told me about the "real" one. I understand how hard it is to find "real" ppl but, What do I do now? I do like him and wish this to go furthur. Or should I be weary now about the "untold"?
xoxoPeaches.

Jerrylee1970's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:49 PM
I would go with your gut. I belive that ANY relationship that starts on a lie will end with one also. Since he already lied 2 times he will probally think he can get away with it again. BUT the choice is upto you...


Just my 2 cents worth

brian325's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:50 PM
Once a liar always a liar! Just my opinion. smokin

AndrewTalty's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:52 PM
He needs to learn three things. One, don't do that. Two, he's a sick **** having to lie to get a lady. Three, he's probably a child molester and maybe you might have seen him on "Dateline To Catch A Predator." Lying, haha get at me

no photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:53 PM
uhhhhhhhhhh I dont understand........who is the real and who is the fake???

no photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:53 PM
truly peaches with legs like that i would use a fake profile to get to know you as welllaugh laugh

freeagent934's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:53 PM
Peaches,

Deception is a problem here! I would tread very careful in this manner as he has already shown him self to be deceptive, on a positive note he did thing highly enough about you to disclose this...so I would make it clear any that truthfulness is vital to you and must be a condition of a continued relationship!

Good luck, I think all will be well as he did come clean....!

Dragoness's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:54 PM
noway If one has to use any form of trickery to get someone, I would not think that is a good thing. huh What else will you find out tomorrow?noway

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Thu 10/25/07 12:57 PM
I would find out that i was duped when i went snipe huntinglaugh laugh

no photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:57 PM
it was the butler!

nah jerrylee nailed it.

bgeorge's photo
Thu 10/25/07 12:57 PM
how would you ever trust him again???? trus is the foundation of a relationship...good luckflowerforyou

sassystacey69xx's photo
Thu 10/25/07 01:01 PM
sweetie take it from me i had a guy do that to me and it never stops babe!!!it will always be a different profile and as for the trust issue,mmm will u be able to trust him,once thats broken its hard to get back!!!flowerforyou

Sensei's photo
Thu 10/25/07 01:02 PM
Hey Hun, One word come to mind NEXT!!!

He is a LOSER for sure and will only break
your heart even more.

babygirl123899's photo
Thu 10/25/07 01:05 PM
sweetheart he going to do it agin and a gine i have been in one like that and thay just keep doing it

wouldee's photo
Thu 10/25/07 01:07 PM
you know you were just played.... and the clown pushed your buttons. Now your feelings have been stirred. Cool.. you have those feelings for the things you desire, not the clown that played you. Be careful to watch out for selfish lovers!! They are predators, no doubtflowerforyou :heart:

polypeasant's photo
Thu 10/25/07 01:08 PM
If he couln't be honest and be the real him...I'd say he is a chronic liar and not likely to improve...not your job to tach him values....cut your loses and run...have him blocked.

Men are like buses another will be along..
Cheers and be careful!!flowerforyou

soundedmind's photo
Thu 10/25/07 01:10 PM
Peaches, you know I love you, so I am saying this out of love....


Run. Run like the wind.

You're a beautiful woman and I you will have no problem finding a man that's honest.

Things that start in lies, end in lies.

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Thu 10/25/07 01:13 PM


<---- this is what i look like(not fake picture)

freeagent934's photo
Thu 10/25/07 01:15 PM
Boy I must be soft....lol

i must say that its not the approach that I would take if I wanted to develop a relationship!


celticfairy's photo
Thu 10/25/07 01:16 PM
Peaches one lie is one too many.

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