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Topic: i'm afraid
coryM18's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:10 PM
i'm afraid to love, i admit it. rejection is not something i'm looking forward to. help me!

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:12 PM
Life is full of rejection. It is how you feel about yourself that matters. Once you get to the point where you love yourself, no one can take that away. Acceptance that we are not right for every person is the key.

brandy12345's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:15 PM
YOU ARE 18 WORRY ABOUT OTHER THINGS THAT ARE IMPORTANT!!!! LOVE WILL FIND YOU IF YOU ARE OPEN AND WILLING TO LOVE BACK. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE STRESSED ALREADY

coryM18's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:18 PM
i am ready to love back! if you knew me better you'd know that i'm more mature than most guys my age, i guess thats why i'm already looking for someone

coryM18's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:18 PM
i am ready to love back! if you knew me better you'd know that i'm more mature than most guys my age, i guess thats why i'm already looking for someone

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Mon 10/15/07 05:18 PM
Oh God. Forgive me, but I can't stand it when people play this "I'm afraid to get hurt" bull. Do you want to be emotionally dependent? Do you want to need someone and have them every moment of your life to where you can't go to the restroom without them? If so, keep playing that card. If not, then you really should get to know yourself better and understand the situations you were in and why you were in them. If you are afraid to get hurt, then don't play. If you fear dying, then how can you live? That's like saying you are scared to eat because you might get sick. Hey! News Flash! These things happen. But you gotta do it right? Otherwise you wouldn't even be on here. It's silly to sit there and say you don't want to get hurt, but yet you are going to put yourself out there to try again.

Get some back bone and don't lie to yourself. It's love! you know you want it! Now go out and get it.

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Mon 10/15/07 05:20 PM
I'm just afraid of space people and tin foil.huh

coryM18's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:22 PM
what?

Betsy_baby's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:28 PM
lol space people huh? nice

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Mon 10/15/07 05:30 PM
Ok, kidding but still, if I saw a space person holding tin foil, I bet I'd run.ohwell

coryM18's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:43 PM
why'd you run?

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Mon 10/15/07 05:46 PM
cause they might shove tin foil in my mouth and ask me to chew on it. Oh the horror of it all.frown

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:50 PM
at the very end, the only one who can help u, is yourself
the other people just can show you the path, u and only u are the one who is going to walk through it

Claudette's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:59 PM
best thing you can do is focus on yourself, take care of yourself and focus on what you want in life and not worry about what you dont have

rejection will only impact you as deeply as you let it

JENNSBABY77's photo
Mon 10/15/07 09:37 PM
random before you go talking about someone like that try to realize some of us have been hurt to where trust is very hard to gain once we have been push that way in life.

horseracer's photo
Mon 10/15/07 10:21 PM
its easy to talk it but harder to walk it

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Thu 10/18/07 03:35 AM
love is scaryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy..........it is...........all defences down geeeeeeeeeeez why do we do it????

hmmmmmmmmmmmm is it for the sex??? could be.........or are we all looking for someone to take care of us mentally and psychically????

noway

no photo
Thu 10/18/07 03:51 AM
im hoping for someone to feed me my puree meal when I have dementia!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 10/18/07 04:03 AM
I would rather die on my feet than live on my knees.Try to be open and not afraid "dude" You have alot of soul searchin' in front of you.drinker Do it well and stand proud of yourself.glasses

anouk's photo
Thu 10/18/07 04:08 AM
crouch croutch

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